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jessesgirl

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Posted: 02-06-08 14:07pm

I don't understand how someone would still and still have a good heart. I would feel terrible. At Old Navy one time the cashier forgot to ring up a skirt. I brought it right back and told them that the worker didn't ring it up. I just gave it back.

Stealing is a terrible, terrible thing. I would never have the heart to do it.
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Posted: 02-06-08 14:29pm

When I was 13 my friend and I used to steal A LOT. We would either put clothes on underneath what we were wearing or stuff them into the big bags we already had. I'm surprised we didn't get caught. We probably stole $1000 worth of clothes. Of course, as I got older I felt horrible about it and haven't stolen anything since.
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Posted: 02-06-08 17:06pm

I've never stole anything lol, call me a goodie goodie Wink
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Posted: 02-06-08 18:04pm

OctoberBaby06 wrote:
I've never stole anything lol, call me a goodie goodie Wink


Good for you!!! Seriously. I look back and think I was such a dork to steal makeup! Ugh! I want to kick my 12 year old self for being such a fool!
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Posted: 02-06-08 18:16pm

I've just never seen the point in it.. If I wanted something badly enough I'd work harder to get it. I've been with friends before though when they've stolen things & just never understood it.. Especially when what they were taking was like $1-2! Heck, I would have BOUGHT it for them!
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Posted: 02-06-08 18:45pm

I have never stolen anything. I guess I cared too much about getting caught and I never even thought about it.

Never been a temptation for me.
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Posted: 02-06-08 18:49pm

I stole when I was younger. It is a very immature thing to do. I would hope someone wouldn't be using their children to steal things. That is pathetic and a horrible example for the children.
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Posted: 02-06-08 21:25pm

I accidentally stole a pack of headbands from the Dollar Store once. I was like 7 and I put them in my pocket because we didn't grab a cart or basket or anything and I just forgot about them. We got home and I found them and I was TERRIFIED that the police were coming to get me (hey, I was 7!) so I made my mom take me back so I could pay the $1.06.
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Posted: 02-06-08 23:06pm

~*~Melissa~*~ wrote:
~dani~ wrote:
~*~Melissa~*~ wrote:
~dani~ wrote:
my friend and I use to steal all the time. More for the rush than anything. Wed take empty bags from stores and fill them with stuff. we prob stole thousands of dollars worth of stuff. This was all before we turned 18 tho. Ive stolen a few things since but not on purpose. Like when I had a really long double stroller and macy was in the front she had a stuffed puppy and i was so busy with a screaming liam i had no idea. we paid for the clothes i was getting and walked out with the puppy. got all the way to the car n i was not walking back. I would feel bad if I stole from a person but big stores i dont feel bad, its a problem i have i guess. Label me a clepto cuz if i didnt have kids id prob still do it.


I thought you did? didn't you tell me you use to put things in their stroller and no one would stop you going out of the store because you didn't look like you would steal since you had kids?


no that wasnt me... ive never used my kids to steal stuff on purpose. one time i stole a blanket from walmart but it wasnt intentional, we had plenty of money and were buying lots of house stuff and i had to nurse macy and didnt have a blanket so we went the baby dept and got one and forgot about it.
Yeah, it was you. You told me that when we were in the gift shop at wet n' wild that you put things in the kids strollers and I was very surprised that you wuold do that.


maybe i said my friend sharons sisters did that cuz i know they got caught doing that but i dont even carry a diaper bag and i cant ever remember intentionally putting stuff in my kids stroller.

I dont see stealing from big corporations as the same as stealing from one person.Ive walked out with a drink or something that got covered up and im not about to go back in a store that i just spent $100 at to pay $1, they make plenty of money charging me 200 times what they pay for the item. thats me though, doesnt make me an all around bad person. I have no desire to go to jail and concider myself lucky to have never been caught cuz i think my mom would have beat me. Cant say if i didnt have a family to take care of I would still do it though. Its a mental disorder im a cleptomaniac, i should go on Oprah like that one lady who stole from the grocery store.
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Posted: 02-06-08 23:13pm

I got caught shoplifting with my friend in high school and got arrested for it. It's not worth it. I even got turned down from a couple of jobs that did background checks. Thankfully it's no longer on my record.
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Posted: 02-06-08 23:18pm

Have you ever thought about counseling for it, Dani?
My cousins sister in law was a clepto, she stole everything in sight, she seriously could not help herself. She went to counseling & she's doing a lot better now. I don't think using the fact that you're a clepto is good, because you could get help for it and then be better! It's definitely not worth it, Dani.

At K-mart, our policy is if you've stole over 20 dollars worth, the cops get called and you most likely go to jail. It's just not worth it if you can get help for it.
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Posted: 02-06-08 23:56pm

i dont do it ne more havent in i dunno how long, exceptfor that drink at office max, liam was sick and HAD to have a blanket and i totally forgot about it cuz he was screaming bloody homicide. walked out and was not about to go back
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Posted: 02-06-08 23:59pm

The opposite thing happened to me one day. I was at Wally World and bought a mountain dew and set it down to ring everything else up. I get to the car, put all the groceries in the back, get both babies in the car and then I realized I left it there. I was so mad. There was no way I was getting both babies back out for a mountain dew. I was quite parched.
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Posted: 02-07-08 00:12am

~dani~ wrote:


maybe i said my friend sharons sisters did that cuz i know they got caught doing that but i dont even carry a diaper bag and i cant ever remember intentionally putting stuff in my kids stroller.

I dont see stealing from big corporations as the same as stealing from one person.Ive walked out with a drink or something that got covered up and im not about to go back in a store that i just spent $100 at to pay $1, they make plenty of money charging me 200 times what they pay for the item. thats me though, doesnt make me an all around bad person. I have no desire to go to jail and concider myself lucky to have never been caught cuz i think my mom would have beat me. Cant say if i didnt have a family to take care of I would still do it though. Its a mental disorder im a cleptomaniac, i should go on Oprah like that one lady who stole from the grocery store.


Do you take medication for kleptomania? Counseling?
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Posted: 02-07-08 00:31am

no i didnt even know they made meds, and y would n need them if i dont go in a store and say hey i think i dont wanna pay for this. I totally agree i need counseling for more than that issue. dont have time tho, no one to watch my monsters. hopefully when we get back to IL n Macy n Liam are in school I can go.
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Posted: 02-07-08 06:27am

I've stolen. When I was younger I would steal from Walmart (which I have a hard time feeling is wrong, because I wouldn't use my money to support that place). I use to steal food from the school cafeteria.

In the last year I've stolen a hair straightener, and a key chain. I felt bad both times.

When Nathan worked at Denny's he would bring home food for us. Bread, vegetables, frozen fruit, etc.

A lot of the people that are saying how disgusting stealing is probably download music and movies, but think they aren't common thiefs. It's the same thing.
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Posted: 02-07-08 06:40am

Shocked

Using your kids to steal is different though, its so wrong, everyone can see that and see its totally unfair on the child. I think its different once you become a parent too, you have a responsibility to your child to do the right thing not steal stuff...wow Mad

fairytale I also got offered a job at the place me and a friend stole from when I was 16 lol!
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Posted: 02-07-08 06:44am

I've never stolen anything in my life- I was always too scared of getting caught. But Logan, on the other hand, is always trying to steal things. Cause of the way the pushchair is where he is in the bottom he will just reach out his hand and pick things up as we are walking past. I always have to check him now as he stole a DVD from a record store Embarassed

I was looking for Mickeys Christmas Carol and was up quite close to the DVDs not even thinking about it. When I got on the bus I realised he had Basil the Great Mouse Detective in his hand! I was way too embarrassed to take it back. Luckily it was on sale for £5 so I didn't feel too bad

He also stole some electric blue leg warmers from Claire's Accesories while out with my mum. He fell asleep in the pushchair and when she got she saw them in his hand Shocked
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-Tanya-

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Posted: 02-07-08 09:31am

I totally agree that involving your kids is completely unacceptable. Even just having kids (even if they are at home) and still stealing takes it to another level.
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Posted: 02-07-08 09:58am

I understand what you are saying about not downloading music or movies and that is why I first stopped downloading music and now I don't even watch the live streaming illegal movies on some sites.

So I guess I have stolen if you count those but I am no longer doing it. I am getting quite the cd collection now Smile
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