My son needs a father ... Posted: 02-06-08 14:26pm
Hi,
I am an 19 year old mother of one
beautiful boy and I am in a relationship
that SUCKS.
My boyfriend constantly calls me a fat
lazy slob when I don't do everything he
says right when he says it.He treats me
like a maid,he gets home from work and
sits down and expects me to serve him
everything.
There are times when I get so stressed out
that I just want to rid all my hair out.
I feel like I can't leave though,my son
needs a father,and I am still working on
my schooling so if I was to leave him I
would be stuck working a crappy job,doing
night school and would barely see my son.
I am so lost in what to do!
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 02-06-08 14:29pm
You should not be in this relationship.
If you stay, you at least deserve to be
treated with WAY more respect. It is
unacceptable to be called those things and
treated that way. He can still be in your
son's life without you staying with him.
It would be hard to work and do school,
but it can be done. Can you take online
courses? Could you work at a daycare
where you could bring your son and see him
more?
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 02-07-08 13:45pm
You need to get out. Yes your son needs a
father, but he also needs a *good* role
model. That man doesn't deserve the title
'Daddy'.
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mikky
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Apr 2008 Posts: 11
Posted: 04-14-08 12:22pm
I realized when I was married that I
didn't want my kids learning my ex's ways
of treating women. You have to ask
yourself that question " do I want my son
to learn how to treat women, by the man I
am married to? I think that's an easy
answer. That's what did it for me. You
may want to ask him though about some
therapy. Maybe if I would have told my ex
I was leaving unless he got some hlep,
maybe things would have been different.
