Ilovejulietannafaye
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Posted: 02-06-08 19:18pm
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K.. I just called him.. I am waiting on
him to call me back.. any ideas on how to
approach the subject? especially since he
knows I go on there.. and he knows i know
the password... we broke up because of
drinking and drugging.. Not the life style
I was choosing to live..a nd it was one
that he could not just leave apparently..
but finally he did
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Posted: 02-06-08 19:20pm
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Just be straight forward about it. Don't
beat around the bush.
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SamanthaM
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Posted: 02-06-08 19:23pm
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Wait a minute... In your original post it
says something about you being "so far
apart". I thought you lived together?
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Ilovejulietannafaye
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Posted: 02-06-08 19:25pm
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We did.. we just recently moved.... like
an hour drive apart.
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Ilovejulietannafaye
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Posted: 02-06-08 19:28pm
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the move probably has alot to do with
it..cause he is NEVER home and I am ALWAYS
home.. unless at my or my mom's doctir
appointments
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Posted: 02-06-08 19:31pm
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I'm surprised you didn't post anything
about the move. How was it? Who are you
living with now?
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Posted: 02-06-08 19:34pm
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thats sad you had to move
when did you move away?
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Ilovejulietannafaye
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Posted: 02-06-08 19:37pm
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I was still not sure about it until
yesterday that we were actually living
apart..I just found out.. and then with
the excitment of finding out it is a boy..
not a girl.. just did not think about it..
I am livin with my parents.. and they are
going to help me.. and I am going to go
back to school..and get a part time job..
but.. If i stay here.. I can not leave
till like 7-8 months to a year.. cause my
stepdad is selling/ giving away his
drums.. so that the baby and I can have a
room.. and i really feel bad about that..
cause.. he has wanted drums since he was a
teenager and got rid of his first set...
but his words exactly were.. I am a dad..
I do what I have to for my kids.. it is a
responsibility that I took on.. so.. I
guess that is a good thing.. although.. he
does not have to since he is my stepdad..
he just loves me that much
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Ilovejulietannafaye
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Posted: 02-06-08 19:41pm
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At his grandmothers.. near all his friends
that drink and drug.. and that worries me
as well..i guess I should be more
trusting.. but he is a hibitual liar..
sorry bout the spelling..it has been two
weeks that we have been not living
together.. But in the begining we were
supposed to just be visiting our family
then going back to where we were living..
but then he got over there and does not
want to leave.. I guess he is just not
ready to grow up  oh well.. I have to
I have no choice.. and probably would not
choose different if I did.
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Posted: 02-06-08 19:45pm
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If he is a cheater, abuser, and habitual
liar why do you want to be with him? I
think you have a lot of growing up to do.
That is not the kind of person you want to
have around your child.
Maybe you should read it.
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Ilovejulietannafaye
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Posted: 02-06-08 19:48pm
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he seems to be different around me then
anybody else... He does not lie to me..
cuase he knows I will find out.. he tells
me the truth.. and he has never physically
abused me.. and never cheated.. cause I
would know..
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Posted: 02-06-08 19:50pm
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Did he tell you he was talking to his ex?
Because withholding things like that is
basically the same as lying.
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Posted: 02-06-08 20:01pm
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oh hun i hope you can figure this out
but
just be careful.
and when you do talk to him he will most
likely change his password now. so just be
prepared for that
i dont even know.
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Posted: 02-06-08 20:07pm
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I read the letter.. He let me.. it said
she is not sure what she wants.. but.. she
misses him.. he did not say nothing bad..
so.. I am happy.. he was like go ahead
read it.
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Posted: 02-06-08 20:54pm
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Isn't that what Ross said? "We were on a
break!"
He is really pretty forgiving of you if he
is going to raise a child that is not his
- but someone you were with when you
weren't seeing each other. You should cut
him some slack!
I'm sure everything will work out just
fine.
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