Put This In the Sexual Health Forum But I'd Like You........ Posted: 04-30-04 12:45pm
Guys to give me your opinions and feedback
since i've been coming here for a
bit.........
My b/f of 2.5 years dumped me 6 weeks ago
and he is now with who I used to call a
good friend and is in love with her
already. Our sex life kinda took a dive
after an incident last summer where he
couldnt hold his erection and then turned
his back on me and said we lost our
"special something" and hes worried. I
told him not to worry about it and stuff
like that happens. We did end up having
sex that night although I was not at all
willing and it was more of a *we're doing
it now cause I can hold it*. Ever since
then I tried to please him compromising my
own enjoyment for his. And always felt
guilty whenever he wasnt pleased and he
let me know it. Now fast forward to now
and I tried to have sex with my new guy
and I just froze up and couldnt do it, all
I saw was him walking away angry with me
no matter what (hes very understanding and
is being very paitent with me.) is this
some type of sexual anxiety? Is there
such thing? Probably a dumb question but
no 21 year old should be afraid of sex. I
edited it cause I trust you guys much more
(no offense to those who have already
responded, you've been great help!!)
meg
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silvertax6966
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Feb 2004 Posts: 161 Location: new york city
Posted: 04-30-04 12:56pm
Xxxxx
Last edited by silvertax6966 on 02-15-06 23:43pm; edited 1 time in total
Let the past go sweeite and enjoy this new
"adventure" and make sure you are ready!
Last edited by smith8500 on 05-01-04 01:19am; edited 1 time in total
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 05-01-04 01:18am
Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-21-04 12:41pm; edited 1 time in total
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 05-01-04 03:22am
Yeah I say wait too, its just you have
this past thats kinda haunting you and you
havent fully let it go. Its kinda like
your still with him in a sense. But dont
think about him and concentrate with this
new guy. Take it slow and you can take it
from there
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 05-01-04 05:09am
I think that you need to wait, or test the
waters. You need to wait, and find out
what this guy is all about first....
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little_woman
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2004 Posts: 765
Posted: 05-01-04 06:25am
I am swearing off men for a bit....I'll
stick to my salsa dancing and maybe some
dating, in short i'll enjoy the single
life...Screw having sex! (wait did I just
say screw having sex? Man i'm losing
it......)
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