I can't stop loving this girl even though
i've been rejected by her 2 years ago. At
the beginning i confessed to her. So,
she's trying to give me a chance and we
tried to work it out. At last she rejected
me. I thought she rejected me because she
has no special feeling to me but i was
wrong. Her friends told me that the reason
she rejected me because i never take
action to date her. She just wanted us to
be friends but i tried to beg her to give
me another chance (i know this is not the
smartest thing to do) but she refused by
saying it is too late. At last she chose
other guy instead of me. Her new boyfriend
called me up and warned me (said something
rude to me) to stop communicating with
her. I'm very heartbroken and confused at
that time. So, I made a decision to forget
her.
Two years have passed, I'm still have
feeling to her now and i can't forget her
even though i'm trying hard. Two weeks ago
i was in a shopping mall, i noticed
someone is staring at me. When i look
back, i was surprised it was her. I just
pretended to i didn't see her though in my
heart i really wish to talk to her again.
Though i must accept the fact that we
can't be friends again after what had
happened 2 years ago.
Now i feel very lonely without much
friends around (coz i'm a very shy guy).
People ask me to forget her and move
on..The problem is how exactly am i going
to move on if i love her so much?
Thanks for reading this...i really
appreciate you advise and comment.
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EddyMc
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Joined: 20 Jun 2008 Posts: 23 Location: , Ireland
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Posted: 06-22-08 15:48pm
You do need to move on yes your friends
are right but how you move on is the
difficult part.
I can assume from this post that she was
your first love?, its always hard to
forget your first love so I stopped trying
to forget my first love and jsut learned
to accept that it will never happen
between us, its a hard thing to accept but
its what you need to do so you can start
your journy of moving on to something
bigger and better with your life.
You are allowing somthing that hapend two
years ago to affect you life now, go out
with the friends you have, chat to other
woman, you will make more friends this
way, take up a new hobby, swiming is good
as it gets you into a social enviroment
where you have the chance to meat other
peopel.
I think this girl is not the source of
your problems on further thinking of the
situation, I think you might be using her
as an outlet to you feeing bad about your
social situation, you state you don't have
many friends you need to become more
socially active to change this. All the
talking in the world will not help you,
what you need is to help yourself by
fixing the underlying problem.
I know it is hard as a shy person to stick
yourself into a social situation where you
feel might feel umcomfortable, but it will
get easier I promise, you will also feel
better for it.
Eddy
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jimbo101
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Feb 2008 Posts: 10
Posted: 07-01-08 12:06pm
Thanks for the feedback. Yes, can be
considered she is my 1st love. She is my
problem, not my social situation. I got
not much friends but at least I got
someone (confidante) to talk to when I
feel bored or got problem. I feel good
about it. What makes me sick is about the
memory of her.
