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is he CHEATING Posted: 02-10-08 11:38am
me and my partner of 17 years have
......had alot of problems as hes
aggressive and loves himself ......hes
horibble 2 me and our kids
he spends all his money on himself all his
friends have affairs with very young 18
year olds ........hes out every day after
work and clubbing on weekends ....he says
he just kisses them somtimes......
he went away 4 a weekend and i found all
sexual sperm stains on his pants he just
laughed and said im stupid
i dont wnt 2 be lonely help
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meblonde01
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Posted: 02-10-08 11:46am
You don't want to be lonely? Don't you
mean you don't want to be used or lied to,
or the last one to know?
Just kisses them is considered cheating in
my book. I don't think a guy that is
dedicated to me should be kissing another
girl.
If I where you I would have a long hard
talk about what you expect from him and
your concerns about his actions..
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misssemsem
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to jodie Posted: 02-10-08 16:20pm
iam really sorry to hear . but i think u
should talk to him too and told him that u
dont like that and he should respect ur
feeling
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antigone
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Posted: 02-11-08 01:19am
I am sorry to hear about your guy being a
jerk. He sounds like he is abusive with
you. Emotional sabotage and name calling
are both abusive behaviors. I have been
there! Do yourself and your children a big
favor. Start planning for a future without
baggage - him. He is not being faithful to
you. Don't you deserve better than that?
You don't have to be lonely but you don't
have to put up with a guy that treats you
badly.
I hate to see women getting humiliated and
hurt by guys. You deserve to be treated
with respect and love. Think about it.
