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Gordon Drivelbottom

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My Wife Has Lost Our Baby
Posted: 05-03-04 23:05pm

I am posting to let you all know that my wife has lost my baby due to a miscarriage. She started to bleed heavily yesterday morning, so I took her to the hospital, where they announced that our baby was dead.


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princess529_98

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Wife
Posted: 05-04-04 01:03am

I think you have already made her life as miserable as possible. Perhaps thats why she is in the hospital
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jessechaseme

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There Is a God...
Posted: 05-04-04 01:19am

First of all...Nut job.

Secondly... Who cares?
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Gordon Drivelbottom

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Posted: 05-04-04 01:49am

That is just the kind of response that I expected from you jesse. You are only disappointed because my child died 'naturally' rather than be killed by some monstrous abortion doctor. Your words are deeply offensive and extremely hurtful.
I shouldnt be suprised though, as your comments regarding the miscarriage are totally representative of what all pro-choicers think.
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princess529_98

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Posted: 05-04-04 02:36am

Lol..Gordon why dont you take your rude ignorant comments somewhere else you are a discusting man who only sees his own view..You thrive on comming on here and demeaning woman and talking your crap that no one anymore even cares about.You just make yourself look more and more like a ass. Like a total nut job. You have nothing nice to say to anyone anyways and my mother always taught me if you cant say anything nice dont say anything at all maybe you should try that..As for the wife sorry she lost the baby (if there even was a baby) but maybe you should stop and think about how you treat her maybe thats why she lost the baby maybe your rude obniouxes behavior was just to stressful for her. So in a sense gordon the loss could be all your fault.. But its probably a good thing think of what kind of father that poor child would have had..
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Gordon Drivelbottom

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Sick And Distressing
Posted: 05-04-04 02:50am

So in other words princess, if that is your real name, what you are saying is that you are pleased that my baby is dead? Now that is sick.
As far as my wife is concerned, if it had looked after itself more, then maybe there would have been no miscarriage.
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jessechaseme

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Posted: 05-04-04 02:59am

Yawn yawn yawn... Boring. Rolling Eyes
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Gordon Drivelbottom

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Posted: 05-04-04 03:17am

Jesse if I wanted your comments, I would ask for them. I dont, so feel free to go back to the kitchen and cook for your man.
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zilbucks

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Posted: 05-04-04 03:24am

Ahhhh evildoer Evil or
Very Mad dude go see a shrink, seriosuly, or go post on the men section- ahh n/m they'd give you more sh#@ then we do- i'm sorry what happened, but not sorry for you things work in mysterious ways, god knew where the child was going and said heeeeelllllllllll no, and took it back!!
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jessechaseme

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Posted: 05-04-04 03:35am

Gordy, if I wanted your opinion. I'd give you one.

Now go back to making money so your wife will keep you around. Smile Laughing

kisses,
jesse
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bellax0femmina

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Joined: 09 Apr 2004
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Posted: 05-04-04 05:17am

Gordy, im really sorry to hear of your loss.. But your wife will probobly be able to concieve again later (good luck)

on the other hand, its not her fault and she shouldnt be blamed!

<3
gaby
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princess529_98

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Posted: 05-04-04 05:39am

Well gordy dear I hate to dissapoint ya knowing how you think all woman are murderers but. I am not happy your baby is dead. I wouldnt wish that on anyone but.. Like someone in another post said, god works in mysterious ways I think if I were you I would start looking in the mirror at myself and ask yourself why am I so ignorant,why am I so cruel towards woman, why cant I take the blame for things , why do I always blame others, and why oh why do I think I am such a king.. Gordy I truley believe you are a fake I think there is no wife/girlfriend/lover/boyfriend nothing I think you are just a bored 54 year old if thats your age which I dont believe cause no 54 year old in there right mind would act like you who has nothing better to do but come on here and try and I say try and throw his weight around to try and make woman look like total idiots. You are a joke gordy.. You shouldnt be allowed to even post here anymore your posts are redicioules, harsh and very cruel this isnt what these forums are all about.. You come here and say all we do all day is sit at our computers lol..Thats funny you have more posts here then anyone so it sounds to me like someone has a little to much time on there hands..There are other things you can do with those hands gordy why dont you give it a try and leave all this other stuff to us woman. You will never give birth to a child, you will never experience the changes in the body as a result you will never truley understand the feelings that go on so why dont you just find something else to amuse yourself leave the child bearing issues and any other issue that concerns woman to us woman and shut the hell up already..
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zilbucks

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Posted: 05-04-04 06:18am

Couldna said it better myself!! :d
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zilbucks

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Posted: 05-04-04 06:19am

And why aren't these smily faces working? Laughing Crying
or Very sad Embarassed
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zilbucks

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Posted: 05-04-04 06:22am

Whoooomp there it is! N/m figures they'd work after I said that!! Ignore that question!
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2ferano

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Posted: 05-04-04 07:08am

As I said in your other post, your wife was not pregnant and she did not miscarry.
It is really pathetic that you have to make things up just to start arguments.
If for some slight minute reason it really did happen then I am very sorry, but gordy, why would we believe anything that you say?
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allusivepond

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Posted: 05-04-04 14:31pm

Exactly wot I was thinking he does not have a wife, he is not 56 or wotever he said his age is, I doubt he has even lost his virginity let alone conceived a child. I think he says all these things just to humour us and try and get out attention which is the most pathetic thing I have ever heard of.


Im with jesse we should be saving our sympathy and thorts for those that are telling the truth and really deserve it.


And if in fact ur imaginary wife did miscarry then all I can say is sometimes we bring these things on ourselves, u say u blame her for not looking after herself to an extent that is true cause she stayed with u and that is obviously not a healthy environment to raise a child in anyway so when she realises this then this miscarriage will make more sense. Ur a not a nice person now y dont u health question off and be a not a nice person somewhere where ppl appreciate it

from someone who cant wait to have a jellybean all of their own
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purple333

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Posted: 05-05-04 01:11am

While I tend to believe that there is no wife or baby & so no miscarriage, having suffered 3 miscarriages & my mother suffered 8, I can not just ignore the slight possibility that there is a wife & there was a baby.

Gordon, babies self-abort for so many reasons (many unknown, some even before anyone is aware of the pregnancy), but also due to the woman being unloved/uncared for, overworked (including having to be on her feet too often &/or cooking over hot stoves) especially in the first trimester.

Babies can also self-abort due to shromosonal abnormalities that make it unviable for the baby to continue to grow. Then there can be problems with the shape/position/etc of the uterus & or cervix, not to mention issues re sperm & egg viability. Also the general health of the woman can impact on her ability to carry a child to term sa can both physical & emotional abuse. So if you really do call your wife "it" that is emotional abuse & may well be a cause of her miscarrying.

Perhaps you have already made her life hell - hence the miscarriage, if you want a baby you need to be considerate of your wife, the babies mother & of her health & needs.
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Gordon Drivelbottom

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My Wife
Posted: 05-05-04 02:25am

I will tell you what I think is extremely upsetting- is that you say that I have no wife and she did not have a miscarriage. I should know that she exists and that she had a miscarriage as the pain still runs deep. However, I no longer blame her as I have educated myself on the subject via the internet and books and realise that it is not her fault at all. I have also given up on calling her an it. You people were right when you said that I should try to treat women with more respect. I will, starting with my wife. She is going through agony and torment, and the last thing she needs is me verbally abusing her. I would like to think that I have turned a corner today.

Gordon drivelbottom
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zilbucks

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Posted: 05-05-04 02:34am

I'm happy to hear it gordon!!! Smile
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