way to wake up this morning.. to my
stepdad telling my mom that my brother and
I have to leave. Well.. Now what? Is there
any way possible that I can crawl in a
hole far away from everything and everyone
and just stay there forever... Now where
do I turn for help if not my parents....
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Mommy35
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Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 3165 Location: Vacationland, USA,
Posted: 02-13-08 08:35am
If your mother would choose your stepdad
over her own flesh and blood, you are best
to be far far away from her.
I'm not trying to be mean btw
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rosejackson
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Posted: 02-13-08 08:35am
why are they chucking you out? is there
some emergency housing services in your
area?
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Ilovejulietannafaye
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Posted: 02-13-08 08:45am
Because of all the drama.. cause sunday..
we (my brother and I)were hanging out at a
friends house.. and .. well the police
were called.. they told us we were not
doing anything wrong.. so.. We stayed..
and then went to another friends house..
well the landlord/management of the
park... sent my parents a letter telling
them that they had 7 days to cure the
problem (us) or they had to get out.. well
dad said he would move.. but he would not
take us with him.. so.. I guess.. I am
out.. and on my ass.. with no dad again..
just like the rest of my life.. NEver had
a dad... now neither will my baby...I am
such a horrible mother.
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rosejackson
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Posted: 02-13-08 08:51am
you are not a horrible mother. never think
that. none of this is your fault. if this
is the way they are treating you, then of
course you are better off without them
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Ilovejulietannafaye
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Posted: 02-13-08 09:03am
Well I found out.. that the conversation I
heard while trying to sleep on the couch
was directed at my little brother.. They
said I do not have to go.. he does.. that
I have not given them any problems.. But
my step dad said US BOTH OF US.. at
first..apparently.. my little brother went
in there.. and turned off my dad's webcam
that he has recording the kitchen to see
if one of us goes in there and gets food..
and opens the back door.. Which was my
little brother.. and THAT was the last
straw.. he said all kinds of hateful
things.. I mean now they tell me I can
stay.. but.. After what I heard... jeez..
Life really is horrbile.
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rosejackson
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Posted: 02-13-08 09:09am
i wouldn't want to stay after hearing that
to be honest but it is your choice. at the
moment try and relax as much as possible,
it's not good being stressed. is there
anywhere you can stay (at a friends,
another family member)?
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Ilovejulietannafaye
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Posted: 02-13-08 09:43am
No where that is easy to get to/ find a
job. and so.. I must stay.
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rosejackson
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Posted: 02-13-08 09:45am
is there a local council near your area
that deals with emergency housing
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Ayrshire-lass
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Joined: 29 Dec 2007 Posts: 656 Location: Ayrshire, Scotland
Posted: 02-13-08 09:49am
to be honest im a bit worryd your dads
tapeing the kitchen for you lot not to eat
food or escape. sound like a jail to me.
but thats just IMO.
if there are emargancy housing get to it
know because it will be soo much harder
the more you wait. and evern with this
baby you wont want to still be stuck in
the house. (like me)
its hard at first to do it yourself but
With my great experience its possible. i
love my boy soo much and my bump is moer
loved everyday. and i will still be
single. luckly i have lots of friends and
family who are always there wither u kow
it or not.
xxxxx caz xxxxx
