Joined: 07 Sep 2003 Posts: 22 Location: west coast
Never Learned to Masturbate Posted: 09-14-03 01:21am
Okay. Here goes. I am 27. I don't get
enough sex from my husband (due to his
age) and I never learned to masturbate to
orgasm. My clitoris is so easily
overstimulated. The only way I have
clitoral orgasms is with my husband bless
his heart. Any tips. Please only reply
if the method you are suggesting has woked
for you.
Thank you
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Rebakah
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2003 Posts: 21 Location: florida
Posted: 09-14-03 07:20am
Laura I responded to this in the mens
section under your reply to my post
there... Hugs
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sarahauntie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Oct 2003 Posts: 54 Location: St. Louis, Mo
Help Me Too Posted: 11-07-03 21:21pm
Not that it's important or anything, but I
don't know how either! Not that I need to
know or anything, but I don't really
understand about how to go about it. Any
suggestions?
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TangerineSpeedo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2003 Posts: 16
I Can Try... Posted: 11-07-03 22:27pm
Well, I think the best of it comes from
using something to put inside you where
you can move it in and out and give
yourself some clitoral stimulation as
well. You need absolutely to use
something soft. Don't use anything with
a jagged edge, but think penis. It has
to be long enough and use one hand to
manuever that while the other works at
your clitoral area. That's me...Wow, I
am a little embarassed
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bellybluesun
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2003 Posts: 34 Location: Georgia
Posted: 11-08-03 10:05am
You should know where your husband feels
best inside of you. Use either your
finger or buy a toy to hit that same spot.
To get the hang of it, lay on your back
and have your husband in front of you on
his knees. Hold his penis in your hand
and move it around; in circles and in and
out, to find out where you like it. Keep
moving him until you have an "o". Then it
will not be so difficult for you to know
just what spot to touch. Has he tried
anything to help him like vigra? Would
he? I know that some men are embarrassed
and others cannot because of health
issues. Another suggestion so that he
doesn't feel left out is to let him use
the toy on you. That will end up
stimulating him too, and you both will
enjoy this weird bonding feeling. Its
reallly great!!
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Sara1023
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2003 Posts: 23 Location: orange county, CA
Posted: 11-10-03 01:09am
The best way, that I have found works for
me is actually in the shower or bath tub!
It sounds strange at first, but i've found
that a lot of women have tried this and do
it regularly. It is a cheap way, rather
than buying expensive toys (which can also
be fun) this way, you can learn in a
private place, how to stimulate yourself!
Just lay back and let the water run,
whether it be the shower head or the bath
tub head!
Good luck!!
Sara
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lopa17
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Nov 2003 Posts: 5
Posted: 11-14-03 20:37pm
Sarah-dont worry your not the only one. I
also think the shower head is very
stimulating. You can also use your own
fingers if you need too, or you may want
to buy a dildo or vibrator. They work
wonders.
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JamieMc
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2004 Posts: 9 Location: Germany
In the Past Posted: 01-04-04 06:44am
Hey hun my name is jamie and I am man.
Never new how to do anything down there
till I met one of my former lovers my
teacher as I refer to her. Well she
tought me how to please a women down there
with my tounge and fingers. The only
thing I can recomnd is have you husband
sit up with pillows behind him and you sit
infront of him with you back to his chest.
Have him play with you down there and
place your hand on top of his and close
you eyes and try to feel what his hand are
doing with your hands and how it feels to
you else where. I did this with one of my
x girlfreinds because she did not know how
after wich she loved playing with her self
and could orgasm every time I hope this
helps. Jamie
