Pregnant and confused considering abortion Posted: 02-13-08 10:48am
I am 29. I have two other children by two
different fathers. I just found out I am
pregnant. My BF of under a year wants me
to have an abortion. I am sick to my
stomach thinking about an abortion. He
says it is best because financially etc...
Which I agree but I can't see myself
having an abortion. I already work 2 jobs
and barely get by. Advice please
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prettygirlygirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Mar 2006 Posts: 213
Posted: 02-21-08 15:44pm
If you don't think you can go through with
an abortion, don't have one.
You'll find a way to make this work. Do
the other kids fathers pay child support?
Will this one? Can you find another job?
If you can't have an abortion you'll just
have to find a way to make it work.
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Marianne0558
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Posted: 02-21-08 15:58pm
You don't have to have an abortion. You
can always adopt out to someone. There are
very desperate couples out there who will
pay all medical expenses during pregnancy
and will take very good care of this baby.
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falafal4ever81
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Oct 2007 Posts: 79
Posted: 03-02-08 15:00pm
i agree with marianne. my hubby and i are
trying to adopt but our adoption worker
has disappeared, so to be so close and to
hear that someone is going to throw away a
wonderful gift seems to be such a shame
and is really frustrating. from your point
of view, i wouldnt get an abortion because
that is something you would have to live
with for the rest of your life and if you
arnt ok with that now, you probably wont
be later either. if you can find solice
with that decision then that choice is
yours but if you cant then it will haunt
you for the rest of your life.
best of luck
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