Ilovejulietannafaye
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I was wrong.
Posted: 02-13-08 16:01pm
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I am still leaving. I do not know when I
will be back.. I am so going to go crazy.
ugh.... I tell you what..... I Want I
dunno.. I just don't know.
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 02-13-08 16:03pm
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Ok, I think all of us are over the "i'm
leaving" posts. I shouldn't have even made
one. I'm sorry you feel that way.
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Ilovejulietannafaye
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Posted: 02-13-08 16:11pm
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No.. I am not leaving the forum.. I am
being kicked out of my house.... THere is
another post I made earlier
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 02-13-08 16:13pm
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Aww I hope your doing ok. I wouldnt be
able to handle it if i were in that
position, I hope you are safe and healthy
and take care ::hugs::
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Ingi
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Posted: 02-13-08 16:16pm
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| Ilovejulietannafaye
wrote: | | No.. I am not leaving the
forum.. I am being kicked out of my
house.... THere is another post I made
earlier |
Ok, heres the thing, you need to get
hooked up with a support system
immediately. Have you applied for state
aid? You need to. You also need to look
into the low income housing situation in
your area. They'll have a waiting list and
you'll need to sign up for it. It maybe
years long - but it can go much faster.
You'll qualify for foodstamps and
insurance (which I assume you are already
getting).
You are the mom now. It is important that
you be in charge of what is going on in
your life.
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Ilovejulietannafaye
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Posted: 02-13-08 16:16pm
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Thanx. I really am tired of this. I just
wish everything was better. I am tired of
crying and moving and all.. I tell you
what... my kid is going to come out
emotionally screwed with all the crying
and sadness and anger.. I have had maybe..
a total of 20 happy days my whole
pregnancy..
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Ingi
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Posted: 02-13-08 16:18pm
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| Ilovejulietannafaye
wrote: | | Thanx. I really am tired of
this. I just wish everything was better. I
am tired of crying and moving and all.. I
tell you what... my kid is going to come
out emotionally screwed with all the
crying and sadness and anger.. I have had
maybe.. a total of 20 happy days my whole
pregnancy.. |
Take charge of your situation, girl. You
are the parent now. Get out there and
change whats going on with you! Make it
better.
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Ilovejulietannafaye
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Posted: 02-13-08 16:21pm
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I will.. it would help if I could drive...
But eh.. I will work on it. .I have so
much to do.. Oh well time to make things
better on my own.. my poor mom has
apologized and apologized.. but now her
HUSBAND is leaving.. and she has no way to
feed us or pay bills...SOOOO..... she is
sending us to my grandma's.. I have to eat
something..I will be on in a few.
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Ingi
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Posted: 02-13-08 16:26pm
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| Ilovejulietannafaye
wrote: | | I will.. it would help if I
could drive... But eh.. I will work on it.
.I have so much to do.. Oh well time to
make things better on my own.. my poor mom
has apologized and apologized.. but now
her HUSBAND is leaving.. and she has no
way to feed us or pay bills...SOOOO.....
she is sending us to my grandma's.. I have
to eat something..I will be on in a
few. |
I'm gonna say it again, get yourself to
the department of children's services
first thing tomorrow. Or better yet, go
WITH your mom. Is she not working? How old
are you and your brother?
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 02-13-08 16:32pm
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| Ilovejulietannafaye
wrote: | | No.. I am not leaving the
forum.. I am being kicked out of my
house.... THere is another post I made
earlier |
Weren't you living with your bf and his
mom?
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Ilovejulietannafaye
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Posted: 02-13-08 16:38pm
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No i was living with my mom.. I am 19 and
my little brother is 17.. apparently Where
my grandmother lives.. there is a new mall
being put in and they are hiring left and
right... So......I hopefully will be able
to get a hjob out there.. My mom is going
to send me some money friday.. and I will
be able to get little stuff I need. It was
nice talking to all of you.. Thanks for
all of your support and answers.. Bless
you all... Rachel I know carly will be
ok.. Every one with sick babies.. I will
be praying for you and them.. all you
expectant mothers good luck.. and all you
mothers..that have kids that drive them
crazy like I know i drove my mom crazy I
tip my hat to you.. to all of you you are
wonderful.. and i have been blessed to
know you all
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Ingi
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Posted: 02-13-08 16:38pm
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The mom (or grandma? Or aunt?) got drunk
and punched and/or shoved either her or
her bf and they had to leave there. The bf
is living in an abandon trailer (?) or
shed (?) and drinking a lot but somehow
still emailing her... (from the library?)
and harrassing and guilt tripping her.
Now her and her brother got in some
trouble in the neighborhood (although they
didn't really do anything) and now the
landlord of the trailer park wants them
out. The step dad said the kids had to
leave - but now says just he is going to
move. The mom and the kids can't stay
there (kicked out by landlord) and don't
have anywhere to go or any money.
Am I close?
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Ilovejulietannafaye
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Posted: 02-13-08 16:45pm
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Pretty close... The bf was staying in an
abandoned trailer.. a few nights ago till
he walked to a friends house.. and that is
how he emailed me.and it was his aunt that
got drunk and punched him and shoved me...
Mom can stay for I think 30 days or
something like that the only reason she
can not stay is cause of her medical
condition she has not been able to work
and her husband was bringing home the
money... so if he leaves she is SCREWED...
we can not be here at all cause apparently
we are screw ups
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Ingi
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Posted: 02-13-08 17:45pm
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| Ilovejulietannafaye
wrote: | | Pretty close... The bf was
staying in an abandoned trailer.. a few
nights ago till he walked to a friends
house.. and that is how he emailed me.and
it was his aunt that got drunk and punched
him and shoved me... Mom can stay for I
think 30 days or something like that the
only reason she can not stay is cause of
her medical condition she has not been
able to work and her husband was bringing
home the money... so if he leaves she is
SCREWED... we can not be here at all cause
apparently we are screw
ups |
If she has a medical issue she can get
AFDC and/or social security disability.
There is no reason for you all to starve.
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Ilovejulietannafaye
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Posted: 02-13-08 18:34pm
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I know.. I am leaving.. My grandmother is
here. Bye you guys..
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Posted: 02-14-08 02:01am
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| Ingi
wrote: | | Ilovejulietannafaye
wrote: | | Pretty close... The bf was
staying in an abandoned trailer.. a few
nights ago till he walked to a friends
house.. and that is how he emailed me.and
it was his aunt that got drunk and punched
him and shoved me... Mom can stay for I
think 30 days or something like that the
only reason she can not stay is cause of
her medical condition she has not been
able to work and her husband was bringing
home the money... so if he leaves she is
SCREWED... we can not be here at all cause
apparently we are screw
ups |
If she has a medical issue she can get
AFDC and/or social security disability.
There is no reason for you all to
starve. |
I was just going to say that too.
Well...goodluck at your grandma's.
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Posted: 02-14-08 09:20am
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they also have womens and childrens
shelters for you to stay at. My mom had 6
of us and we were homeless a few times but
she was always able to find a shelter for
us. Maybe you and your family could try
that.
The shelters help you with finding a
permanent home and finding jobs and all
sorts of things. Best wishes.
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