rosejackson
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Cant take this anymore...
Posted: 02-14-08 12:50pm
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Don't want to get in too much detail, but
i am not coping at all. I am stressed
beyond believe. I have been for a long
time now, but i've had a huge argument
with bobby and i don't think i can take
anymore of it. I know it's my hormones
playing a big part in it, but i just feel
so miserable and hate the way things are
at the moment.
We keep getting phone calls from paradigm
about neighbours complaining about us. A
few weeks ago a neighbour complained about
the smell, which wasn't even coming from
our apartment, but the floor below us. We
keep getting this phonecall, yet when they
come to inspect the place, they cant smell
anything from our apartment! Now they've
complained about bobby dumping his bike
outside the front. He hasn't dumped it.
Okay, he has no engine on it at the moment
and it's been knocked over by the wind or
kids, but he is planning on using it. She
threatened the police even though his bike
isn't dumped and he's allowed to park his
vehicle in the carpark! someone is
seriously out to get us around this area.
The money problems haven't got any better,
but i know we can sort that and i'll be
leaving work next week. I'm just so
stressed and miserable
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Mommy35
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Posted: 02-14-08 13:16pm
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I'm so sorry you are stressed. Your
neighbors sound like jerks. Sometimes I
think that older people pick on young
couples just to be mean.
I hope things get better
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acruz
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Posted: 02-14-08 13:20pm
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 Im sorry to hear
about all that hunny! ((big hugs)) I hope
it improves soon! PM me if you ever need
to chat/vent!
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rosejackson
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Posted: 02-14-08 13:32pm
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thanks, i appreciate it. we think that its
the foreigners from downstairs that keep
complaining about us. everyone else we
seem to get along with. but i don't know.
it's something we dont need anyway
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 02-14-08 13:52pm
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Aww Rose, how sucky!!! Why doneighbors
have to be like that?! I mean, don't they
want a friendly relationship with people
they see EVERYDAY!?
Sarah
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rosejackson
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Posted: 02-14-08 13:56pm
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i know but why complain about us? we make
no hassle. we keep ourselves to ourselves.
this really bothers me. about once a month
we get a complaint for one reason of
another. it is really starting to get
nasty now
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Ingi
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Posted: 02-14-08 14:10pm
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Wow! I'm sorry. Living in apartments is
hard! Good luck.
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 02-14-08 14:26pm
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I hope things get better!
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Re: Cant take this anymore...
Posted: 02-14-08 16:16pm
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| rosejackson
wrote: | Don't want to get in too
much detail, but i am not coping at all. I
am stressed beyond believe. I have been
for a long time now, but i've had a huge
argument with bobby and i don't think i
can take anymore of it. I know it's my
hormones playing a big part in it, but i
just feel so miserable and hate the way
things are at the moment.
We keep getting phone calls from paradigm
about neighbours complaining about us.
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What is paradigm?
| rosejackson
wrote: |
A few weeks ago a neighbour complained
about the smell, which wasn't even coming
from our apartment, but the floor below
us. We keep getting this phonecall, yet
when they come to inspect the place, they
cant smell anything from our
apartment! |
What kind of smell exactly? Is it from
the people cooking downstairs? Did you
tell the people who complained and the
people who came to inspect that the smell
was coming from the apartment below yours?
| rosejackson
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Now they've complained about bobby
dumping his bike outside the front. He
hasn't dumped it. Okay, he has no engine
on it at the moment and it's been knocked
over by the wind or kids, but he is
planning on using it. She threatened the
police even though his bike isn't dumped
and he's allowed to park his vehicle in
the carpark! |
Some places have rules about unused
vehicles. Some places don't allow them to
be parked on their property. Some
neighborhoods, where people all own their
own homes, even have rules against having
unregistered vehicles parked in driveways.
Check your apartment rules, and if they
don't have a rule about bikes like
Bobby's, tell them to leave you alone!
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someone is seriously out to get us around
this area.
The money problems haven't got any better,
but i know we can sort that and i'll be
leaving work next week. I'm just so
stressed and
miserable |
I hope things turn around for you soon.
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rosejackson
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Posted: 02-15-08 13:04pm
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paradigm is what owns the buildings we
live in. the smell is smoke. i can smell
it straight from the second floor and
leads up to our floor, but as soon as i
get in our apartment i cant smell it. we
did mention it, and they said they cant do
anything about people smoking in their
building. but as i don't know who actually
complained about us, we cant talk to them
personally as the calls were anomous. the
flats we live in allow parking outside.
there is a carpark, but hes not allowed to
park his bike there apparently, even
though it is a carpark. it is not dumping
his bike if he is parking it there until
he gets it fixed. the lady on the phone
threatened to phone the police because
apparently it was dumped!
i really hope things get better. this is
getting really cruel and i seriously don't
need the stress right now
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Ingi
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Posted: 02-15-08 13:10pm
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| rosejackson
wrote: | paradigm is what owns the
buildings we live in. the smell is smoke.
i can smell it straight from the second
floor and leads up to our floor, but as
soon as i get in our apartment i cant
smell it. we did mention it, and they said
they cant do anything about people smoking
in their building. but as i don't know who
actually complained about us, we cant talk
to them personally as the calls were
anomous. the flats we live in allow
parking outside. there is a carpark, but
hes not allowed to park his bike there
apparently, even though it is a carpark.
it is not dumping his bike if he is
parking it there until he gets it fixed.
the lady on the phone threatened to phone
the police because apparently it was
dumped!
i really hope things get better. this is
getting really cruel and i seriously don't
need the stress right
now |
No you don't need the stress right now. I
hope you can find peace where you are. It
is hard when the stress comes from your
living environment and you feel you have
absolutely no control over it.
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rosejackson
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Posted: 02-15-08 13:12pm
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i am thinking about the happier things in
life at the moment and things to look
forward to. being stressed and pregnant is
not good. and i don't want to be stressed
around william anymore. lets just hope
this is the last of the complaints
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Posted: 02-15-08 17:47pm
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What does "dumping his bike" mean?
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Ingi
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Posted: 02-15-08 18:53pm
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I am taking it to mean leaving it there.
Junking it. Letting it rot. Acting like he
took it to the dump and is just going to
leave it there.
Do you know anyone who is British, Future?
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Posted: 02-15-08 18:58pm
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I guess not enough people, lol!
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Ayrshire-lass
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Posted: 02-17-08 18:39pm
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ok rose now to be honest i can kinda yet
again be on the same level with you. the
flat thing!!
well i stayed in a shitty flat lol was a 5
story. i was on the 5th. id just had
scott. and there was this stench! people
kept braking the door to pee in the
stairs. (WANKS) well anyway the people
below me used to keep moaning about the
noise all the time and i had the police at
the door a few times and everytimes they
came to the door they had no idea why they
were there.
untill i found out!!!! they were calling
the police coz scott would cry at like
2am. but so do all babys.
the smell was rediculus.
i had a chinquento. and old one and i was
fixing the engine on it. the neibours kept
moaning coz it was taking up a car space
that they needed. and i wasnt using the
car.
F**kin Neibours
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Posted: 02-17-08 19:26pm
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I can't believe the police would even show
up because someone complained about a baby
crying!
Did you live alone with your baby? How
much noise can a mom and a tiny baby
possibly make?
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Ayrshire-lass
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Posted: 02-18-08 09:32am
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yea i stayed alone with him. everynow and
then my mate and her lill girl would come
round but they never compalind about
them.
its coz the walls are made of like thin
paper :lol
but i have no idea how i could make that
much noice lol
they had it out for me
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