So I have a long distance relationship so
I only see my boyfriend every 2-4 weeks.
And it seems like when we are together we
always do sexual things, like at night and
stuff. I enjoy it...but sometimes I feel
like our relationship is based on sexual
stuff. We do other things, like go to the
movies, dinner, canoeing, stuff like that,
but it's just that everytime we are
together...we do sexual things. Has anyone
ever experiences this?
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Cicatriz
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Feb 2008 Posts: 18 Location: New Albany, Oh America
I feel your pain, oddly. Posted: 02-15-08 05:56am
I know exactly what your talking about,
which is kind of weird because im a guy
and it discomforts me even, having my
girlfriend always just wanting sex and
other sexual things when in the end i just
want to spend time with them. I mean dont
get me wrong the sexual stuff is ok, but
after awhile you just want to be with them
and care for them and love them, not just
have sex all the time, wheres the love
there.
Your not alone!
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prettygirlygirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Mar 2006 Posts: 213
Posted: 02-15-08 18:53pm
If you're feeling that way you need to
talk to him. However, based on what you're
saying I don't think your relationship
sounds like it's based entirely on sex. I
mean, you guys are only seeing each other
a few days every 2-4 weeks, right? So for
2-4 weeks you're spending every day
talking, writing emails, messaging and
just enjoying each other without anything
physical. I'd say that's the foundation of
your relationship, not the sex.
