AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 02-15-08 11:26am
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jessamyn
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Posted: 02-15-08 11:43am
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Forgive me for being skeptical, but how
areyou pregnant with twins at 21 weeks and
your parents not know? You cant possibly
do this alone. what is going to happen
when you just go into labor? You need to
make the adult decision and come forward
with your actions now! How do you have a
crib, clothes, etc... and your parents not
know?
Ingi thank you for stepping forward with
medical info for her.
Please be honest with yourself and the
children you are carrying
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angle t
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ok
Posted: 02-15-08 11:46am
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im leaving now ill be back im going to
call my mom have her come up and talk to
the dr thats for opinions ill keep you
updated
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 02-15-08 11:53am
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Good luck with that.
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wrote: | | no i wouldn't feel right
carrying them and giving them out i have
to skip school on dr. app days. no my
parents aren't they call the house im
there delete message i no i need to im
scared she kicked out my sister when she
was 14 and she had her first at 16 i just
dont know wat to do i have baby stuff i
have a crib and tons of clothes cuz i
babysit but yeah i tried to tell her but
idk my xlarge hoodie sweatpants and no
going around them there only home a night
after 10 and leave at 6 so yeah my mom
hid hers till her water broke and well im
nervous i wrote her a not but i havent
gave it to her
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btw, angle t, if your mom kicked your
sister out, where is she now? Why did you
want to have a baby if you knew you would
be kicked out of your house? How will you
care for them?
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angle t
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Posted: 02-15-08 14:16pm
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dr said yeah a higher risk for ttts and
the girls will be born by c-cestion and
that i will be in hospital if anything
starts to go wrong next week ammio and my
moms on here way home im scared be back im
gonna clean up a little
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jessamyn
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Posted: 02-15-08 14:19pm
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so your parents know now?? what happened
with that.
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Ingi
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Posted: 02-15-08 14:22pm
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Why are you getting an amnio?
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angle t
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Posted: 02-15-08 14:23pm
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no they dont know yet my moms own here way
here because they are goin to test for any
thing wrong
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jessamyn
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Posted: 02-15-08 14:39pm
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okay your moms on her way to the doctors
or to your house? what did you tell her?
why does she think shes going anywhere?
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angle t
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Posted: 02-15-08 14:42pm
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i told her i need to talk to her and shes
coming home
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jessamyn
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Posted: 02-15-08 14:46pm
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good luck then and definetly let us know
whats going on.
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Ingi
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Posted: 02-15-08 14:47pm
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Angle, I truly hope that you are now going
to start being honest. You need to see a
perinatologist (its a specialist for high
risk pregnancies. And you have such a high
risk pregnancy, I can't believe you are
still walking around upright!) as soon as
possible. Your risk factors for something
going wrong are through the roof.
You not only need help throughout your
pregnancy, you are going to need massive
help after you bring two babies home. I
hope you have an ultrasound picture to
show your mom. She'll want to see one.
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 02-15-08 14:52pm
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How could her mother not notice a
pregnancy like that? She must know
something is wrong, anyway. Yikes, that
mother's in for a shock if she really
doesn't know. She (along with the girl's
father) must be really out of touch with
her daughter not to notice a 25 pound
weight gain and a change in behavior,
etc., etc.
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angle t
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yeah
Posted: 02-15-08 15:15pm
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well im honest i hate lairs well idk whats
gonna happen but yeah my mom well go to my
next app hopefully i hoping everything
goes good well she should be home in about
5 min so ill update you then kk thanks
everyone
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Verizon-y
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angle t
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well she not that bad
Posted: 02-15-08 16:59pm
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i explained to her everything and i was
hiding it and that i was sorry and that im
not gonna drop out that i will go to unwed
mothers school until girls born and after
a year then go to new horizens and well
she not that mad she just dispapointed and
she knows im not a promiscuous person like
my sister it was my first time and i was
unlucky well thats about it
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Ingi
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Posted: 02-15-08 17:05pm
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That doesn't sound near as hard as you
assumed it would be. Is she checking into
her insurance so you can stop having to
foot the bill for your weekly prenatal
care?
You should have her talk to your doctor
about what you can expect the next few
months. I doubt you'll be going to unwed
mothers school for very long before you
end up home on bed rest.
What is your doctor expecting to find on
the amniocentisis? Those are mostly used
for genetic issues...
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 02-15-08 17:10pm
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I hope your mother was at least worried
about your health. I'm glad the telling
part is over for you.
What did she say about the father of the
twins?
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Lilly Ivy
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Posted: 02-18-08 00:00am
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omg! Good luck sweetie! I'm glad your mom
is pretty cool with it (as in she didn't
kick you out). Usually the way the tell is
TTTS gets bad is one twin isn't growing
sufficiently and that can only be
determined my an u/s. I hope your mom's
insurance can flip the bill at least a
little. Those things can get expensive,
especially since you'll need more than an
average pregnancy.
Good Luck!!
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lele25
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Posted: 02-18-08 17:55pm
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I'm a little late to this thread.....just
out of curiousity...how much would and
average prenatal appointment cost? I can't
understand how a 15 year old could pay for
these appointments with out insurance.
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