recently not able to ejaculate during sex Posted: 02-16-08 16:02pm
I know that a lot of people have questions
about not being able to come frequently,
but this has only just started happening
so I don't think that it is in general a
problem or some kind of disorder.
My boyfriend has always been able to come
when we have sex and during everything
else. Once a few weeks ago, when we were
having sex, he didn't think he could but
eventually he did. Then last week, we were
having sex and stopped since he felt weird
and sick. The next day, we tried having
sex again but he felt like he couldn't
come and couldn't do it (despite being
hard and turned on when we started). I
think he was just worrying that he
wouldn't be able to come. He says there
isn't anything else going on except that
now he is worried that it has happened a
few times and he kept thinking about it.
Is there anything I can do to help? I'll
try not to act like it is a big deal or
anything if it happens again, etc. But is
this just a "him thinking about it too
much" thing and psyching himself out? Has
this ever happened to anyone and how long
did it take you to get over it? He says he
wants to wait a little while now before
trying again... but I'm just worried that
when we do, this will just be hanging over
us and it might happen again. I just don't
know how to approach it.
