MyLove4U
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really dry vagina during sex
Posted: 02-16-08 17:36pm
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hi i'm new here, just added today. but i
had a question. in the past 9 months i
have been really dry during sex. and it
HURTS! he's not huge huge (but a good
size) i get really red a swollen and i
have scratches and cuts all over my
vagina. is there anything i can do? i know
i can use lubricant but when i do it
stings soooooooo much! then again it could
be because it's a minty lub. any
suggestions? oh and could it be that i'm
allergic to latex? my friend (who's an
ex-nurse) told me that it's most likely
that. thanks 
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Hart74
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Posted: 02-17-08 11:21am
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The most safest lubricant that I know of
is the saliva, how old are you?
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MyLove4U
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Posted: 02-17-08 13:29pm
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| Hart74
wrote: | | The most safest lubricant
that I know of is the saliva, how old are
you? |
i'm 18. i think i've seen that in a few
online shops but i don't really have the
means of buying things like that online.
besides most of the ones i know only
deliver to the US or Canada.
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The Mrs
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Posted: 02-17-08 14:51pm
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I think she was referring to saliva
produced in the mouth.
I'm sorry to hear you've been having
painful sex. I've heard of someone who is
allergic to latex to feel like she has
"little cuts" all over her vagina, but I
bet in your case you simply just aren't
producing enough lubrication.
I'd suggest trying saliva, as Hart74
suggested. It may sounds gross, but
atleast it wont sting.
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The Mrs
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Posted: 02-17-08 14:51pm
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Also, you may want to refrain from sex for
a while and try and let your body heel or
it may never get better.
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MyLove4U
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Posted: 02-17-08 15:50pm
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| The Mrs
wrote: | | Also, you may want to
refrain from sex for a while and try and
let your body heel or it may never get
better. |
ah lol sorry i have been having a bad
headache today. i already use all the
saliva i can. it's not bad but it still
hurts a lot. i live with a man. any person
that knows how much men like to have sex
knows that it's not always possible to
just stop and heal. but he does understand
and i tell him no a lot. so we tend not to
have a lot of sex.
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Little Miss Oops
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Posted: 02-18-08 13:47pm
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i have the same problem so we just use
lubrication constantly, i don't mind it at
all, and i live with my bf and he likes to
have sex all the time. doesn't bother me
so i tell him no lube no sex so we keep a
bottle around lol. i've excepted the fact
that i can't "produce" my own lubrication
like men can so i'm not worried about it
lol
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MyLove4U
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Posted: 02-18-08 14:07pm
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| cassie K
wrote: | | i have the same problem so
we just use lubrication constantly, i
don't mind it at all, and i live with my
bf and he likes to have sex all the time.
doesn't bother me so i tell him no lube no
sex so we keep a bottle around lol. i've
excepted the fact that i can't "produce"
my own lubrication like men can so i'm not
worried about it
lol |
i would do the same but i haven't found a
lube that doesn't sting! >.< no more
fresh lube. they hurt. but i'll keep this
in mind. on to the trip to the sex shop!
lol thanks again
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Little Miss Oops
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Posted: 02-18-08 14:14pm
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lol yep. chris and i use KY lube but we
get it from walmart (hehe i work there and
he has to go in there to buy condoms and
lube and everyone at work knows hes my bf
lol he gets so embarrest ) i love it!!!!
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MyLove4U
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Posted: 02-18-08 14:48pm
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| cassie K
wrote: | | lol yep. chris and i use KY
lube but we get it from walmart (hehe i
work there and he has to go in there to
buy condoms and lube and everyone at work
knows hes my bf lol he gets so embarrest )
i love it!!!! |
haha oh my. no we can get it from a few
places but i always feel like people judge
you for it. i'm only 18, but what most
people don't know is i'm married! lol it
doesn't really matter since me and my
husband had sex before we got married. but
anyways they don't sell KY out here.
mostly it's durex breand. :p i don't
really like it. at lest when i go in to a
sex shop i know all the people are there
for pretty much the same reason. but i've
only been in one once. very expensive! lol
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LovelyLeigh
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Posted: 02-20-08 22:55pm
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i kind of have the same problem...but its
just in the beginning of the sex.
thats when it stings..but once he is in
its all good...until we break and
restart..
but yea if you honestly find a way for it
to stop hurting..
please let me know!
and ill look stuff up too..to help you too
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MyLove4U
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Posted: 02-21-08 05:42am
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| LovelyLeigh
wrote: | i kind of have the same
problem...but its just in the beginning of
the sex.
thats when it stings..but once he is in
its all good...until we break and
restart..
but yea if you honestly find a way for it
to stop hurting..
please let me know!
and ill look stuff up too..to help you
too |
thank you. and i'll try to find things
too.
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Little Miss Oops
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Posted: 02-22-08 14:09pm
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| MyLove4U
wrote: | | cassie K
wrote: | | lol yep. chris and i use KY
lube but we get it from walmart (hehe i
work there and he has to go in there to
buy condoms and lube and everyone at work
knows hes my bf lol he gets so embarrest )
i love it!!!! |
haha oh my. no we can get it from a few
places but i always feel like people judge
you for it. i'm only 18, but what most
people don't know is i'm married! lol it
doesn't really matter since me and my
husband had sex before we got married. but
anyways they don't sell KY out here.
mostly it's durex breand. :p i don't
really like it. at lest when i go in to a
sex shop i know all the people are there
for pretty much the same reason. but i've
only been in one once. very expensive!
lol |
lol i'm 17 i don't care what ppl think we
are all different and atleast him buying
condom's is a way of protection lol.
definatly expensive lol
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MyLove4U
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Posted: 02-22-08 14:16pm
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haha yeah people always tell me that it's
like that but i'm shy :blush: lol and yes
it is good but just last night i
completely figured it out. i'm allergic to
latex. no condom no hurting! lol guess i
need to go find latex free condoms now.
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Little Miss Oops
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Posted: 03-31-08 23:46pm
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| MyLove4U
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haha oh my. no we can get it from a few
places but i always feel like people judge
you for it. i'm only 18,
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i know what you mean! im only 17, and me
and my bf of almost a year have had sex.
im on bc, and he hates condoms, so he
doesnt want to use them, but we want to
get spermacide before that happens... just
in case.
im too embarrased to walk into a store and
buy it! we get our condoms and lube from
his doctor and sometimes his dad will
leave him some, but we dont have any hook
ups for spermacide. 
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MyLove4U
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Posted: 04-02-08 15:05pm
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| LadyAllie
wrote: | | MyLove4U
wrote: |
haha oh my. no we can get it from a few
places but i always feel like people judge
you for it. i'm only 18,
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i know what you mean! im only 17, and me
and my bf of almost a year have had sex.
im on bc, and he hates condoms, so he
doesnt want to use them, but we want to
get spermacide before that happens... just
in case.
im too embarrased to walk into a store and
buy it! we get our condoms and lube from
his doctor and sometimes his dad will
leave him some, but we dont have any hook
ups for spermacide. |
oh my yeah the
first time i had to go buy condoms with my
husband i couldn't even look the cashier
in the face. XD but whatever even now i
still can't and normally my husband will
stop on his way home from work and get
them. lol  good luck with
finding some spermacide. think i might
look in to that too Oo sounds good.
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