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MyLove4U

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Jealousy of online porn normal ? Posted: 02-16-08 20:46pm


to be jealous of my husband looking at pictures of other naked women online? or should i stop being so mean? Oo i'm confused.... if masturbation is so normal i should be able to not be jealous of him masturbating alone right?

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Posted: 02-17-08 06:35am


as long as he's still interested in you, I don't think it's a problem. Everyone has an opinion on it though, but look at it this way-he's never gonna meet the people he watches in porn. It's just a fantasy, and it's not necessarily that he wants to have sex with that woman in the video, it's just seeing it happen. Maybe you could try watching porn together. You might like it, and you'll be handy for him for when he gets turned on hehe.

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Re: is it normal?
Posted: 02-18-08 13:51pm

MyLove4U wrote:

to be jealous of my husband looking at pictures of other naked women online? or should i stop being so mean? Oo i'm confused.... if masturbation is so normal i should be able to not be jealous of him masturbating alone right?

lol my boyfriend watches porn all the time ive watched it with him once but you shouldn't worry about it really, i watched it to make fun of them lol and sometimes i don't want sex (this never happens, for chris is to satisfying for me to stay away lol) but like when i'm on my period i will not have sex at all so i tell him do what you gotta do lol doesn't bother me at all lol

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Re: is it normal?
Posted: 02-18-08 14:05pm

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MyLove4U wrote:

lol yeah i do watch it with him some times. it's not that bad and yeah i make fun of them too. just can't help it. yeah i usually do the same thing. but my period came on v-day this year. i believe it was the only time i ever had sex with having my period. too messy. yuck! :p lol thanks for the help. Smile

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Posted: 02-18-08 14:13pm


lol no problem any time.. my bf chris was like "we can just put a towel underneath us or in the shower lol" and i was like no no and oh no. it's just gross to me lol and ive never done it in the shower so i dunno how that would work lol. Aunt Flow is visiting me right now and yesterday chris was like "this is a good thing, atleast we know your not pregnant" and then i said for you yea (i was talkin bout the pain and blood lol) he said "for both of us" and i said "here you can deal with all the pain cramping and blood and we'll see if its a good thing lol" and he said "eeeeewwwww i'm sorry baby"

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Posted: 02-18-08 14:44pm

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lol no problem any time.. my bf chris was like "we can just put a towel underneath us or in the shower lol" and i was like no no and oh no. it's just gross to me lol and ive never done it in the shower so i dunno how that would work lol. Aunt Flow is visiting me right now and yesterday chris was like "this is a good thing, atleast we know your not pregnant" and then i said for you yea (i was talkin bout the pain and blood lol) he said "for both of us" and i said "here you can deal with all the pain cramping and blood and we'll see if its a good thing lol" and he said "eeeeewwwww i'm sorry baby"

LMAO!! that's great. i'm sure men couldn't handle it even if they wanted to try. i mean we grew up with it almost. so we're some what use to it. i mean if i girl just got the worst feeling in her life one second, i know i would think i was dying. lol but yeah i just finished mine. oh and the whole towel though (my mom told me to do so for my honeymoon, since i got mine the first night) it wouldn't work for me. XD my mother-in-law does all the laundry. i could just imagine what would go through her mind! lol

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Posted: 02-18-08 17:14pm


My husband looks at porn and I could really care less, as long as its legal. He also has a subscription to Playboy, and I'm not jealous because I think its a natural thing for men to do......now if he started flirting with my friends...there'd be hell to pay!

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Posted: 02-18-08 17:41pm


I feel a little out of step here but I do not think I could be attracted to a man who watches a lot of porn. I prefer men who like books, and music, and live gigs, and mainstream or arthouse cinema, and even a bit of theatre, but porn? - nah, not for me. I could not imagine having much to talk about to a guy who spent his time doing that. Am I in a minority here?

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Posted: 02-18-08 18:40pm


If it were excessive porn and he went about broadcasting it all over the place then no I wouldn't be attracted to them either. For example, if some guy listed 'porn' under interests on his myspace or something, I'd steer clear lol I think it's normal to watch porn and that goes for anybody but it's best to keep it a private activity really.

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Posted: 02-18-08 19:35pm

shonster wrote:

I feel a little out of step here but I do not think I could be attracted to a man who watches a lot of porn. I prefer men who like books, and music, and live gigs, and mainstream or arthouse cinema, and even a bit of theatre, but porn? - nah, not for me. I could not imagine having much to talk about to a guy who spent his time doing that. Am I in a minority here?

I completely agree.....my husband does not consider porn an interest of his, just something he looks at on occasion....he swears he reads playboy for the articles...tehehe...anyways, its not a hobby or anything. Yes I would be upset if that was all he's into but like you mentioned above...he reads a good deal and we also sail and travel alot.

MyLove4U

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Posted: 02-19-08 07:16am


thanks everyone. lol this does make me feel better. but since it comes down to the fact that my husband is a computer programmer he spends almost all his time on the computer. when i first stated living with him i noticed that a lot of the tabs open on firefox were naked women. it's not even videos, just picture. but he's really slowed all that down. oh well, i told him he could still and just tells me he doesn't have too. but thank you all. ^^ lots of help from everyone. and yes if that was his only interest i wouldn't be with him. thanks again.