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Tmddyan

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what was your worst date ever?
Posted: 02-17-08 16:44pm

I have been on one date in my life. the guy pretty much left me alone the whole time.
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Posted: 02-17-08 17:46pm

ive only ever dated my mates or folk ive known hahaha its a bit stupid but i feel soo uneasy with randoms lol would never do a blind date lol.

worst one must me when i went up to this guys house for him to get changed n all that b4 we went out and his mum n dad sat n staird at me the whole time asking what i did too see if i was good enough for there boy.

arhhh never stepd food back in that house again
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Posted: 02-17-08 17:46pm

What? I have had a few terrible dates, I have to say! One guy took me to dinner on our first (and last) date: it was a working man's club and we shared a table with his depressing, bickering parents and he left me with them all evening while he flirted with other women. Another guy whom I had been fixated on for weeks finally asked me out for an afternoon stroll in the park - ice creams, feed the ducks, that sort of thing - he pushed me into the bushes and tried to rape me in broad daylight! I fought and screamed and ran off. I never told anyone about it because I was 15 and scared he would come and get me! But the worst one was when the guy I had been seeing for months had set up a cosy romantic evening for us at his place and we were just about to get intimate for the first time when the cops broke down his door and arrested him for unpaid speeding fines!
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Posted: 02-18-08 10:55am

Oh Shonter sorry to hear that! Men who rapes women aren't men because they don't respect the gender that he came from. Sorry if I hurt anyone's feeling but something like that happened to me and I thought it was okay, I went out with this guy at the age of 21, I went out with him after knowing him on the phone for 4 years and never went out with him but for the first time I asked him I did that on a rebound it was our first date ever and I don't wheather that is okay because we kissed and there were no penetration.
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Posted: 02-18-08 11:33am

Well, I did manage to fight him off and he was a lot bigger than me so maybe he wasn't all that determined - he was just trying his luck in a somewhat forceful way! The thing was that I had know him at school and through friends, and that made it more surprising as he knew everyone I knew! Interestingly, he became a cop after that!
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Posted: 02-18-08 12:42pm

worst date- eating at mcdonalds lol that's probly the worst lol
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Posted: 02-18-08 14:28pm

Well the only guy I have ever dated was my husband.......except for ONE guy and that lasted 2 days. It's actually a really funny story.

I was already seeing my future husband, but since he was a teacher and I was student, it was not considered an reasonable relationship, so we were seeing each other privately.

I worked in a restaurant and this guy that I had known from town for quite a while asked if I wanted to go out that night...I was like me? Really? And he laughed and said, what do you think I'd been waiting around these 5 years for? So I was like OKKKKKKK...sure I'll go out with you. It had been advised to me to go out with several people, not just one person after I graduated, and I used to work with this guy a few years before. It was funny tho because he was over a foot taller than me Wink

My future husband's sister saw me with him and pointed it out to my husband and said, aren't you jealous?? He tried not to act like he cared lol. Actually it was ok with him...he knew I was supposed to try to do out with another person Wink

So he calls up my house and my mom makes him ask her permission first, and then he was allowed to talk to me on the phone. He comes and we drive off. I didn't know what we were doing, so I put on some nice clothes. I did tell him I was already seeing someone else, but he said, oh yeah well he could be the coverup date so everyone would think I was going out with him and not my future husband.

I was like...yeah ok (if I could stand him). So we drove into the city about 30 minutes and just talked about what we've been doing. He'd been out of town for a while in the military and I had just graduated high school, so it was a little funny. It turns out he didn't know what to do with me at all.

We drove around town. We finally stopped at the theater, but the shows were getting out past 11 by then and I had to be home by 11. He didn't even know what was good to watch. Then he said, well we could go walk around the mall..."I'm not your typical kind of guy" I'll walk around the mall and window shop with ya. But we didn't.

I think we must have driven like over half the city and then we just came back. We were early, so he just sat there in the car with me and talked. And he was like, Hey, you wanna hold hand? LOL. Of course, he was joking, but kinda not, but I didn't want to, so we didn't. So then he proceeded to tell me all the bad stuff he did in his past years and it was a total TMI. Stuff you wouldn't tell anyone unless you were starting to get serious. Not on a casual first date.

So that was that.

He invited me to go out to breakfast with him the next day, so I said ok. Turns out he invited 4 other girls to go too, so we literally crammed ourselves like sardines into his tiny car and went the 30 minute drive to the city again. He paid for my meal. Then we drove back, dropped off the others, and went to this stupid hospital grand opening where he just kinda walked around and tried to make me catch up with him I guess. Then we drove out into the country a bit and he took some pictures of me and some horses and then we drove home. That was it lol.

I said no next time he asked me. My future husband had asked his boss if it was ok to date me publicly and he had said yes, so there was no need for the coverup and I was glad because I wasn't really happy going with someone else.

About Christmastime I got a letter from him with the pictures he had taken on our day out. The college secretary helped me make the envelope look like I hadn't opened it and we sent it back to him. I was engaged to be married about a few weeks later.

What a ride Wink
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Posted: 02-18-08 14:32pm

shonster wrote:
What? I have had a few terrible dates, I have to say! One guy took me to dinner on our first (and last) date: it was a working man's club and we shared a table with his depressing, bickering parents and he left me with them all evening while he flirted with other women. Another guy whom I had been fixated on for weeks finally asked me out for an afternoon stroll in the park - ice creams, feed the ducks, that sort of thing - he pushed me into the bushes and tried to rape me in broad daylight! I fought and screamed and ran off. I never told anyone about it because I was 15 and scared he would come and get me! But the worst one was when the guy I had been seeing for months had set up a cosy romantic evening for us at his place and we were just about to get intimate for the first time when the cops broke down his door and arrested him for unpaid speeding fines!


Wow! That's crazy.... and a good thing the cops busted you sooner than later, for many reasons there Razz I can't believe that someone would think he could get away with raping you in broad daylight...what a loser!
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Re: what was your worst date ever?
Posted: 02-18-08 14:33pm

Tmddyan wrote:
I have been on one date in my life. the guy pretty much left me alone the whole time.


Well if you would just let me hook ya up with some guys you'd have something to talk about LOL Wink
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Posted: 02-18-08 14:47pm

Ha, a walk round a hospital opening? Smile That sounds like such a hot date!
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Posted: 02-18-08 16:17pm

I have been with the same person for so long that its hard to remember ... all my dates in high school sucked and a couple of times I went out with guys that I had absolutely nothing in common with so there was nothing to talk about and it was uncomfortable...silence at the dinner table on a first date is always a bad sign..
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Re: what was your worst date ever?
Posted: 02-18-08 21:49pm

mominashoe wrote:
Tmddyan wrote:
I have been on one date in my life. the guy pretty much left me alone the whole time.


Well if you would just let me hook ya up with some guys you'd have something to talk about LOL Wink



Hunny you wanna come here there will ba a beeline for you!
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Tmddyan

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Re: what was your worst date ever?
Posted: 02-19-08 15:24pm

mominashoe wrote:
Tmddyan wrote:
I have been on one date in my life. the guy pretty much left me alone the whole time.


Well if you would just let me hook ya up with some guys you'd have something to talk about LOL Wink


lol the problem is that im here and they are there lol---i know what you are thinking--come home
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Posted: 02-19-08 15:51pm

lol Wink
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Tmddyan

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Re: what was your worst date ever?
Posted: 03-14-08 15:34pm

Hart74 wrote:
mominashoe wrote:
Tmddyan wrote:
I have been on one date in my life. the guy pretty much left me alone the whole time.


Well if you would just let me hook ya up with some guys you'd have something to talk about LOL Wink



Hunny you wanna come here there will ba a beeline for you!


wow id like to se that.lol it just put a strange picture in my mind
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Posted: 03-15-08 13:39pm

Hahaha. Once I went on a date with this guy Tim. We were trying to get into a rated R movie back when we were 16. They carded us and would not let us in. We called his dad up, and his dad came down to the movie theater saying we have permission to see the movie. The movie theater said that is not good enough and he has to physically go into the theater and watch the movie with us. Needless to say, our "cute, romantic" date turned into a nerve wrecking father-son-girlfriend movie.
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Posted: 03-15-08 13:55pm

Totally groovy.

Worst date would have to be with this medical student when I was an undergrad. He was kind of mediocre looking, but as I don't judge a book by its cover, I thought I'd give it a go. I met him at the cool restaurant/bar where I was working as a waitress and he came in a few nights a week when we had music. So we had THAT in common. He arrived smelling like too much aftershave, and just tried a little too hard the entire night. I was really bored at dinner (know exactly what you're talking about Homer) and then it was out for a drink to the restaurant/bar. Mistake. I was embarrassed to be there with him. So now home for a bit, just to get out of there. Don't know why (being nice, I suppose) but I asked him in. We sat on the couch and then he leans over for a big ole kiss (he had a little too much to drink and bad breath) and I just moved out of the way and asked him to leave. I was "tired" and needed to study. Ha! On a Friday night!
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Posted: 03-15-08 14:03pm

My worst date ever was with this guy Craig. It started out nice we went to the movies and dinner, than when were driving home he went to go into the turning lane but didnt look to see if there was anyone on the side of him.
He cut off and almost hit a group of streight edgers ( i dont think other states have them, there basicly a very mean gang) One of them started trying to climb out the window and get into our open driver side window! They were yelling and threating to kill us.
we turned the cuner and they followed us and tryed to ram us off the road! I was scared so bad! so we turned into my neighber hood and they kept following us i didnt want to lead them to my house so i tould him to keep driving around the block taking random turns so we could try to lose them. That didnt work so i pulled out my cell phone and tould my dad to get out frunt as fast as he could (hes a pretty big guy, id be afraid of him lol) So we went back around to my house and pulled up and stoped, but my dad wasnt out yet, they pulled up and got out when my dad came out they looked at him and said they were just asking for directions and drove off. Needless to say, i never talked to craig again, and every time a ran into that group of Streight edges i prayed they didnt recognise me!
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Posted: 03-17-08 04:03am

Little Miss Oops wrote:
worst date- eating at mcdonalds lol that's probly the worst lol



=o

= ben's best dates ever, that's like a requirement for me "must love mcdonalds"


my worst date involved getting far to drunk and a few bad pills and i vomited all over my gf XD , probably worse for her than for me lol.

Currently have a relationship over the internet, no dates sucks a lot more.
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