Ilovejulietannafaye
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Posted: 02-18-08 19:32pm
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I feel so alone... Neither one of the guys
that could be the baby's father give a
crap.. neither of them call me. I feel
all alone and I don't like it.. I did not
get this way by myself.. But I am the only
one willing to make the commitment and be
there for MY baby...why is it that guys
are like that?
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michelle1981
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Posted: 02-18-08 20:56pm
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Are you planning on getting a DNA test
taken after the baby is born?
Maybe they don't want to get attached to a
baby that may or may not be theirs?
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Posted: 02-18-08 21:24pm
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How did you get that way?
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Posted: 02-18-08 21:49pm
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Because boys are stupid.
You really need to get a DNA test when
that baby is born and make the daddy own
up to his responsibilities.
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Posted: 02-18-08 21:51pm
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Because boys are stupid.
You really need to get a DNA test when
that baby is born and make the daddy own
up to his responsibilities.
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Posted: 02-18-08 22:00pm
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Is it more than likely one of the two men
than the other?
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Ilovejulietannafaye
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Posted: 02-18-08 22:29pm
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It is more likely that it is the first guy
that I was withs cause I did not sleep
with the other one right away.. And that
is what the ultrasound person said.. that
it pretty much added up to be the first
guy I was withs...and if anyone is
wondering.. my boyfriend and I broke up..
cause.. he lied about me.. to a girl
saying...........wuz up u sexy biotch long
time no see how u been baby i've been okay
i guess well my girl just broke my heart
she cheeted on me and got prego from
anatha person iv'e never been cheated on
b4 man that caca hurts well i hope 2 hear
from u baby maybe we can get up and do
sumpthin i'm stayin with chris and joey
right now so holla at a sexy person u know
u want 2
p.s.ha i cought u thinkin bout my penis u
were werent u
p.p.s.let a person get them didgets
luv,
tha sexercist
........and I was pregnant before him and
I got back together.....
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onmyway_0x
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Posted: 02-19-08 00:40am
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I agree with michelle...
I'm very sorry for your situation... that
must be tough...
but I can imagine it also being tough on
these two guys, whether or not they would
own up , (which one of them should once
the paternity is determined)... it might
be hard for them to own up to something
they are unsure of or uneasy about ...
give the situation time and once
everything ius order Im sure it will all
work out!
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Ilovejulietannafaye
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Posted: 02-19-08 01:07am
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I know.. one of them said they would pay
for the test.. so now I play a waiting
game.. but thank you..
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Posted: 02-19-08 05:46am
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Try not to think too much about being
single, its not that bad especially when
your family is there for you  do you want to get
back with one of the guys at some point?
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Posted: 02-19-08 09:27am
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SINGLE MUMS RULE lol
ok every now and then you really need to
get out and about and talk to an adult for
some civilized convo but to be honest i
wasnt single by choice or anyone elses
choice. those iraqi army w*nkers took him
away from me.
but even at that.
if there soo imature to think they can do
without them.
then you cant do with negitive people like
that in a kids life.
just keep in mind though they might just
want some proof. they cood be Sh*t scared.
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Posted: 02-19-08 11:41am
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| Ilovejulietannafaye
wrote: | | I know.. one of them said
they would pay for the test.. so now I
play a waiting game.. but thank
you.. |
How did you get pregnant? Were you trying
to time sex with when you ovulated?
Didn't the guys you were with realize that
they may very well get you pregnant by
having sex with you? They weren't wearing
condoms or anything, right?
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Ilovejulietannafaye
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Posted: 02-19-08 12:17pm
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With the first guy I was with.. He and I
were trying.. with the other one.. he
thought he wasn't fertile.. cause.. he
tried and tried to get a girl pregnant...
or a few of them.. and it did not work...
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Posted: 02-19-08 13:49pm
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you know...i dont feel sorry for you one
bit..old enough to have sex then you are
old enough to handle the
consequences...get a paternity test done
on both and move on with your life.
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Posted: 02-19-08 13:57pm
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this is one reason why you dont sleep with
more then one person a month!
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Ilovejulietannafaye
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Posted: 02-19-08 14:38pm
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I did not ask you to feel sorry for me. I
already plan on getting a test done.. One
of the guys. .the last time I talked to
him.. was going to pay for it.. I was just
saying I was lonely.. Pretty much I wanted
someone to talk to
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sick_mama17
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Posted: 02-19-08 14:47pm
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We all make mistakes, she obviously didnt
plan to get pregnant and not know who the
father was. It happens to a lot of girls,
having one night stands with guys they
meet on the weekends at clubs. At least
she knows which 2 guys it could be, it
wasnt guys she only knew the first name of
for one night.
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Posted: 02-19-08 15:03pm
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| Ilovejulietannafaye
wrote: | | I did not ask you to feel
sorry for me. I already plan on getting a
test done.. One of the guys. .the last
time I talked to him.. was going to pay
for it.. I was just saying I was lonely..
Pretty much I wanted someone to talk
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You won't need to worry about which one is
paying for it. What happens is the state
(since you are young and I'm going to
assume you'll use support enforcement
because that is the easiest route to take)
will take over your case. The person who
is the biological father will be the one
who ends up paying for the testing. You
won't have to figure all that out on your
own.
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Ilovejulietannafaye
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Posted: 02-19-08 17:33pm
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The thing is... It was not all at one time
in the month.. I mean.. it was weeks in
between... God.. ya'll amke me feel like a
prostitute.. and I Am not one.....
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Posted: 02-19-08 18:50pm
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I doubt that was anyone's intention here.
It is mostly concern for the hardships you
and that child will face with an unknown
father. Yes, it is true, you can do it on
your own - but that isn't ever easy.
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