Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Posted: 07-22-04 21:20pm
Oh,i'd want to know !I was stupid once for
ignoring the signs and would surely remove
some very delicate anatomy if it ever
happened again.I also would not try to
work it out with a cheater,once they find
that they can cheat,they will do it
again.Nope,no one is going to put my
health and self-esteem in danger ever
again.I'm just saying too many times
people believe what they want.They could
catch their husband/wife red handed and
still believe them if they deny an
affair.I've seen this several times and
just don't get it!No one's lovin'is that
good to make me put up with that
nonsense!!Patty
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 07-23-04 15:36pm
I completely agree. I also know people
who have caught their men red-handed and
still don't believe it.
Dah! Some people are just crazy!
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no man no cry
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jul 2004 Posts: 4 Location: england
Wat Should L Do? Posted: 07-24-04 13:47pm
Guys the guy textd me and said can l take
you out but l didnt rply so he had to call
me. L said k coz l wanted to here wat he
was gonna say for himself so we went out
and he told me everythin and he said he
was sorry he didnt want it to come out
that way. So he is sayin the baby which
his wife is carrryin is not his, they had
a baby together and it died so soon after
the death of that child. She said she was
pregnant but they were not having sex
together.
So l asked him why are you together then
if its not yours he said he is sorting out
the devorce papers and he can not chase
her away coz they are still married and
its not allowed in the army coz if he does
that she will claim 50% of his wages. So
right now they live together and he said
she knows about me he told her coz there
is nothin btwn them anymore do l have to
believe this?
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no man no cry
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jul 2004 Posts: 4 Location: england
Is He Telling the Truth? Posted: 07-24-04 13:55pm
He said l can give you my wife"s number
and tell her that you are havin an affair
with me she will tell you that she knows.
The other thing he complaint that she
doesnt like his friends and when he gets
into the house she stands up and go to bed
she does great pple that he brings to the
house. She loves arguing and he said he
can not leave me coz he is in love with me
even if l tell him to go he will always be
there for me.
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 07-24-04 14:45pm
I would take his wife's number and call
her. Then, to make sure that it is
really his wife that you are calling, meet
with her.
There is no reason for you to be strung
along and hurt. If he is telling the
truth then make him prove it. There is
nothing wrong with that. Especially
since he lied to you in the first place.
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Posted: 07-24-04 15:29pm
Dearheart this is not the first time this
man has lied to you.I would not believe a
word of it!!He could have a female friend
say that she is the wife and just keep
this lie going.If you are still sure he is
the one for you,wait until you see
official divorce papers ,dated and with a
seal on them!Then if you think he is still
worth it,pursue a relationship with him.My
advice is the same,liars and cheats don't
readily change-so tread cautiously!!Patty
