I was ticked off how lazy my current
boyfriend is... and now- since we really
haven't been talking much, I all the
sudden miss him?
Maybe I miss the attention? Strange!!
But I can't help but realize how much more
serious I am about achieving goals, and
being active in my life, than he is. If
he had it his way-- he'd want me to call
everytime I had a spare moment...for
what-- to "hear" him reading on the
Internet, or "hear" him watch a movie?
There's only so much to talk about! I
work alot, and he doesn't at all.
Anything involving work- he doesn't want
to hear about. Even if it involves funny
stories, or my friends. So what does that
leave me with..? It's like we've burned
out- he even said to me once out of the
blue while visiting me during the holidays
"Have you ever thought about dating within
your own state?" HE should TALK--! He
lives in another state, like I do! I took
that as him not really being interested in
me anymore..? Am I right?
Argh! We used to tell each other about
our days (when he'd actually do something)
Lately, he's just been Mr. Negative...
almost angry with me for not dropping
everything in my life and move just to
aplease him. Mad at me for working..?
Isn't that strange? Shouldn't he be happy
that I can fend for myself, and not lay
around and mooch? He does lay around..
and to me, the mooching is him renting
that room, even though he pays all his
bills. He doesn't really contribute that
much...his room mates even asked him to
clean the bathroom (they assigned everyone
"chores" so the house could remain clean)
and he complained like crazy-- instead of
just being happy it wasn't something like
the kitchen. I could see if he didn't
have time... but that's something he has a
TON of!
Is it wrong of me to be angry that he
won't do anything? Someone tell me to
snap out of this-- I notice I do this
yes/no thing everytime I should/need to
dump that person...-ARGH!
But after getting some common sense beaten
into my thick skull this morning-- I know
I am gonna have to break this guy off of
me. When it gets to the point where you
start to hate the person you date--it's
time to end it, lol.
Thanks for letting me vent
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 02-25-08 14:49pm
Yay, good for you! I don't think you
really miss him, I think you miss getting
the attention of a male period. It happens
to alll of us! Lol
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Galaxy
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Posted: 02-25-08 15:16pm
Aha! I told you that you would miss him -
he's like your best girlfriend, always
there to listen to you and to vent to
about your day BUT you know it is going
nowhere and in time he will just hold you
back! Decide on what you REALLY want in
life and if it looks like he isn't going
to feature in it, then let him go now,
before he becomes a habit you cannot
break!
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 02-25-08 15:40pm
He isn't even like a best girlfriend. He
wont listen to her or even talk about his
own day! Lol He just wants her to be there
when he wants it because he's an attention
hog and it's all about him. You should
just break up with him now Bec. He would
love that huh?
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