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YettieGal
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How many losers did it take?
Posted: 02-21-08 10:46am
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Ok ladies.....QUESTION:
How many losers did it take to get to the
good guy you are with now? & why is
there an over-population of losers?!?
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bakin_april
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Posted: 02-21-08 11:15am
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I've only been with 1 but I stayed married
to the jerk for 11 years so it seems like
more!
Maybe it's because men aren't raised to
respect women. The influence of media and
family mostly portrays negative images of
women. No one is teaching them
differently.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 02-21-08 14:04pm
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I dunno... I like most guys I know. Who do
you all hang out with? 
Guys aren't so bad.
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lmw
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Posted: 02-22-08 18:46pm
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haha. i definatley met a lot of losers
until the guy i am with now.
we have been together for almost a year
and a half
everyone else i threw out the window  haha
....guess it takes a lot of frogs to kiss
to find the right prince huh
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Fairy Godmother
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Hi Sweetie! Me Fairy*Godmother
Posted: 02-22-08 19:55pm
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I call it "practice shots".............you
gotta practice a while before you find a
good one. Can't recall all the losers, I
did marry 2 complete failure
losers.......first marriage was almost 4
years, second marriage almsot 11 years
(had my daughter) and then I met my
wonderful man I have now. We've been
married 14 years and been together going
on 15. SOmeitmes you jsut are attracted to
the 'wrong guys" I know I finally figured
out I was feeling sorry for the losers and
wnated to 'take care
of"..............thats a bunch of
caca.......now I am taken care of.
Practice on girlfriend.........you have a
whole world full of good ones out there
just waiting to find someone like you!
HUGS!
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YettieGal
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Re: Hi Sweetie! Me Fairy*Godmother
Posted: 02-25-08 10:10am
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| Fairy*Godmother
wrote: | | I call it "practice
shots".............you gotta practice a
while before you find a good one. Can't
recall all the losers, I did marry 2
complete failure losers.......first
marriage was almost 4 years, second
marriage almsot 11 years (had my daughter)
and then I met my wonderful man I have
now. We've been married 14 years and been
together going on 15. SOmeitmes you jsut
are attracted to the 'wrong guys" I know I
finally figured out I was feeling sorry
for the losers and wnated to 'take care
of"..............thats a bunch of
caca.......now I am taken care of.
Practice on girlfriend.........you have a
whole world full of good ones out there
just waiting to find someone like you!
HUGS! |
I love you! LOL You are adorable!! Thank
you-- I swear I really should write a book
on the insane drama I call my life! I
just want to make sure I'm not 100%
insane.. and it does take alot of losers,
to find Mr. Right! Hopefully one day- I
will find him 
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Fairy Godmother
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Hi
Posted: 02-25-08 14:58pm
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YettieGal, QUIT looking........let him
find you girl! You do not have to be
insane, it just HELPS get US through life!
Too many serious folks on earth today. Oh,
I am writing my own book..THINGS I"VE
LEARNED FROM SHEER STUPIDITY! 1. Never
iron naked............2. Deodorant wroks
best if you remove that little plastic
shield on top..........3. MAke sure its
room deodorizer you are spraying ot kill
odors and not furniture
polish............4. Nasonex goes inyour
nose....not your ear............etc etc!
LOVE YOU BACK!
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justforfun
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Posted: 02-27-08 14:19pm
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Well I wouldn't say that all the men I was
ever with were loosers. Actually only one
of them was a looser. All of the
others....well we just didn't "click"!
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lele25
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Posted: 02-29-08 01:06am
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I deffinately dated some real jerks before
I found Daniel (husband). The positive
thing is that once you find that really
great guy, you appreciate him so much more
after going through a few toolbags.
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Little Miss Oops
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Posted: 03-04-08 13:38pm
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| lele25
wrote: | | I deffinately dated some
real jerks before I found Daniel
(husband). The positive thing is that once
you find that really great guy, you
appreciate him so much more after going
through a few
toolbags. |
so so so so true lol
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mashie88
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Little Miss Oops
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Posted: 03-06-08 12:41pm
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wel i got together with my man now because
he is my brother's bestest friend lol ive
been living with him since the first day
we been together lol he just didn't want
me to go home ever..... and that's 3
months ago so we haven't fought yet lol
really really smoothly for us
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YettieGal
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Posted: 03-06-08 13:35pm
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| Jucemans girl
wrote: | | wel i got together with my
man now because he is my brother's bestest
friend lol ive been living with him since
the first day we been together lol he just
didn't want me to go home ever..... and
that's 3 months ago so we haven't fought
yet lol really really smoothly for
us |
It's awsome to know that there are success
stories out there-- and hopefully one day
I can include one lol.
Yettie
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Little Miss Oops
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Posted: 03-06-08 23:18pm
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I guess I really only dated one tried and
true "loser". I dated quite a few guys
who were great people and we had a great
time but they weren't forever deals.
I'm glad I dated that loser. Taught me a
whole lot!!!
I found my forever deal over five years
ago. It just takes time!
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penpen
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Posted: 03-07-08 00:36am
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I am single right now. I just broke up
with my boyfriend, of 3 months, two days
ago because he cheated on me. It hurts so
bad because I trusted him. He is a looser
for doing that to me, but I did learn a
lot through this whole experience. I hope
"Mr. Right" is out there somewhere for me,
so that I, too, can include a success
story.
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..i
am with my man for 3 years and 4 months
--the first few months was pretty smooth
then the next few months was very rocky as
hell, we broke up for a month then got
back together another few months (year?)
we decided its to live together..we've
been living together for 3 months
now..everything is okay..also as for the
losers.. i am kinda thankful if not
because of them the stupidity they did, i
would be with my man right now..hahaha!
