Last night I was having sex with my
girlfriend of 6 years(sexually active
since the start). We decided to do it
doggy style for the first time and well I
put it in and there was an uncomfortable
feeling at the front of my penis but I
thought it might have been the foreskin
folded wrong or something. Anyway, I
continued and then had a sharp stinging
pain at the same part as the uncomfortable
feeling was but just as soon as the pain
had came, it had gone again so we
continued for a few minutes.
I then pulled out for a second and
everything was covered in blood, there was
lot's, all over her, me, the floor, most
amount of blood I have lost. We cleaned up
and her prognosis was that her period had
came early but while I was cleaning I felt
a bit stinging in the aforementioned area
of the penis. When it was limp I checked
to see if anything was bleeding and it
wasn't, not even any pain. But I got hard
again later that night and some bleeding
happened again.
I haven't been erect since to have a
proper check (part of me doesn't want to
incase of pain, but from what I have read
I presume I have ripped or torn the
Frenulum and the bleeding is from the
blood flow when I was erect.
I really just want some advice, I don't
really want to see a doctor at this moment
as I am very-self concious(not that I have
a small penis, it's over average). How
long do I let it heal for and how long
before I am advised before having sex or
my partner beating me off?
Thank you for taking the time to read
and/or reply. If you need any more
inforrmation I'll be glad to give.
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marvel
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Posted: 02-21-08 11:12am
The think with the frenulum, especially
when you're uncircumcised is that it's
very damp. It takes awhile for it to heal.
You'll probably have to stay away from any
aggressive sex for awhile just to make
sure it's properly healed. In addition,
you'll have to keep the area incredibly
clean and dry to prevent infection. I
would recommend seeing a doctor for this,
because he can prescribe some sort of
antibacterial ointment. You don't want an
infection there, as it could lengthen the
time you can't have sex... and it can
quickly go internal if you're not careful.
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Ukdude
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Joined: 21 Feb 2008 Posts: 4
Posted: 02-21-08 11:18am
Thank you for the advice marvel. I
appreciate it.
I am indeed uncircumcised, so hopefully it
wont take too long to heal. Keeping it
clean goes without saying, I'm just too
self-concious about going to a doctor. I
know they are professionals and all but I
am very unsettled with the idea of someone
poking and staring...
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Georgia59
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Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 5321 Location: Along the Mississippi, USA
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Posted: 02-22-08 13:55pm
Definitely wait to have sex until you are
100% sure that you are fully healed.
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Ukdude
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Joined: 21 Feb 2008 Posts: 4
Posted: 02-22-08 14:37pm
Thanks, what about oral?
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Rosie H
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Posted: 02-22-08 15:20pm
saliva can still contain germs and the
friction could be painful....especially
when erect. Our mouths are actually full
of germs and nasty stuff. I would suggest
waiting until its completely healed. But
thats just me. If you do try oral make
sure to clean afterwards
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