Should we go on like this? Posted: 02-21-08 23:17pm
Hi. I'm Kaori and I have had a crush on a
guy for 2 years and I'm not sure if I
still like him.
Ever since I told him online in grade 6,
our communication between each other
dropped greatly. He told me he liked me
back but then there was this other girl
that was seriously addicted to him, and he
hated that girl. Or at least didn't want
to be near her.
In grade 6 after we told each other, we
still talked but it was really awkward. In
grade 7 I wasn't in his class anymore and
we only talked online. We sent candygrams
and stuff to each other but it seemed so
weird. Right now I'm in grade 8, and I'm
in his class again!! It's so stupid...
I can't talk to him now, not directly. The
most we could say to each other is
probably at the lockers. I would ask
something like, what subject do we have
now and seemed like I was talking to
another person and he would just answer.
I'm not even sure if I like him now, but
then he's acting so dumb and stuff. It's
not cuz of that it's just that we can't
communicate now at all. Not even online.
but when he gets close or near or doing
something with the girl addicted to him I
get jealous.
Should I make a move or anything at all?
I'm too shy and I'm always scared that I'd
get rejected or something. I'm not even
sure if he still likes me. Should I ask
him out or do anything at all?? Next year
we're going our separate ways in
highschool and I really want to do
something together before we graduate.
This is really bothering me for some
reason... i need some help
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Little Miss Oops
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2007 Posts: 542 Location: Just Know That It Sucksville, Usa
Posted: 02-25-08 13:51pm
make a move honey!!!! stand up and talk to
him about it and see if you click any
more!!!
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 02-25-08 15:04pm
Quite honestly he may have told you that
so he wouldn't hurt your feelings. In this
case I would NOT try making any moves.
Other than that, maybe he is scared of
commitment? I would stop talking to him
since he barely says 2 words to you anyhow
and see if he notices and says something.
Or maybe get a group of friends together
to hang out and ask if he'd like to join.
He may feel less nervous in a group of
people.
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latingurl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2008 Posts: 11 Location: ,
Posted: 03-07-08 11:21am
i was in a similar situation i like this
guy at college and we like totally liked
each other we chat online we were at the
same classes .. after i heard he was
dating someone else and then but he said
that it was a mistake dating her ..then
they broke up and we still chat and talked
like before after a while i noticed him
very distance he never go online now and
at skool he no talk to me and i said ok
its seems ur want to b far from me its ok
.. and now from that time that we no talk
at all i noticed that i jus liked see him
its was not that i wanted to b wit him ..
and he once hurted my feelings but now i
jus realize that he liks to have many gf
and that not my type ..
now if u see this guy that he is acting
wired and stuff like avoiding u he is no
longer intrested in you and maybe if u
stop talking to him you can notice by ur
self that u jus like see him its not that
deep feeling u see u too feel .. thats my
point but plz think twice before acting
..
