hi i need help i have been with my girl
for almost 2 years and she has no sex
drive she is dry all the time (she never
was before and she clams im the 1st to
ever get her off) but clams to have an
orgasam but is still dry i feel that she
is lying but she says she is so into me
and in love with me but just cant get wet.
please tell me whats going on. i think she
cheating but she swears shes not and she
really doesnt have time she works 40 hours
plus and we have our kid in our room cuz
she wont go to bed in her own room. shes
still a baby i really need help here.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 02-22-08 12:08pm
Some women don't produce a lot of vaginal
discharge, even after they orgasm. Go buy
some lube already. How old is she? Her
body may just be changing. If she is under
a lot of stress this can also affect her
ability to get wet. It sounds like a child
just came into your life and that's
certainly a stressor.
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Georgia59
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Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 5321 Location: Along the Mississippi, USA
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Posted: 02-22-08 13:47pm
Her level of lubrication has nothing at
all to do with how much she wants or loves
you. Really!
I agree with Eiri. Maybe she just doesn't
get very lubricated- I don't. Maybe she is
stressed, maybe her hormones are whacked
from having had a baby recently.
Don't assume she's cheating!!
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PrettyPT
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Feb 2008 Posts: 79 Location: , USA
Posted: 02-27-08 23:00pm
sometimes when a girl is stressed it
really affects her lubrication and i think
it is also a factor of being pressured in
bed, when you keep on asking her why she
is not lubricating during sex, makes her
uneasy and pressured, that will make her
focus on the question why is she not
lubricating rather than focusing on
enjoying your sex together that will make
her really wet.
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orthodox23
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Feb 2008 Posts: 13 Location: Copenhagen, DENMARK
DUDE.. Posted: 02-27-08 23:10pm
let her visit to her doctor maybe she has
sjogren's syndrome..
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