Hi, I finally found a girl that I can be
close to and I love her like no other. We
are finally getting close where I am
fingering her and starting to eat her out.
We are very open but she is shy talking
about these things, but I just want to
know is this "prior" or "during" the
orgasm. When I finger her clitoris her
body jerks strongly (can't tell if its her
legs or vaginal area). When she has those
jerking feeling (usually when I am
fingering her more intesely) does that
mean she is working up to an orgasm or did
she have one? Should I continue fingering
her and does it hurt rubbing the clitoris
after she did have an orgasm? Any input it
appreciated.
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Galaxy
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Posted: 02-22-08 04:33am
Probably working up to it, but make sure
you keep things moist by using some of her
juices or a little off your own spit.
Yes, it can hurt if you continue to
stimulate her after she has come but I am
sure she will tell you if it does! Try to
be aware of what her body is doing - when
she is having a full orgasm her jerking
will be replaced by deeper thrusting and
followed by complete relaxation.
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EuroRSX
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Posted: 02-22-08 09:28am
Is this thrusting in the pelvic area? How
long say if I am doing things right does
it change from jerking to thrusts? I think
she had an orgasm cause if I pull my hand
out for a little she closes her legs and
doesn't let me do it anymore. What's a
nice yet not too awkward of a way to ask
her if she did?
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Galaxy
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Posted: 02-22-08 09:57am
Just aski her if you're doing it right and
maybe she could show you what she wants.
For some women, clitoral stimulation does
become too sensitive and it may be that
she has already come (yes, thrusting in
the pelvic region - where else?!) or it
could be that you are rubbing her too
hard. Just ask her. Everyone is
different so there is no shame in asking!
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EuroRSX
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Posted: 02-22-08 10:15am
How long does it usually switch from
jerking to thrusting in most cases?
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Galaxy
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Posted: 02-22-08 10:38am
Well, you tell me! haven't you been
paying attention to her? She will let you
know in no uncertain terms when she is
actually having an orgasm - it could be a
few minutes or longer or shorter. And
look, nice as it is to orgasm, it is NOT
the be-all and end-all of your
relationship. Concentrate on just being
close to her, finding out by trial and
error what she likes, communicating,
kissing ... and don't get stressed about
things. It is meant to be a pleasurable
experience so just relax!
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Rosie H
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Posted: 02-22-08 10:57am
it depends on the woman....my advice would
be to ask her
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EuroRSX
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Posted: 02-22-08 13:18pm
Thanks, I appreciate all the opinions =)
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t4thony
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Sexual feeling always Posted: 03-19-08 07:28am
I don't why I always feel like having a
sex. Anytime I'm having a shower I just
want to have a girl by my side! So can you
please tell me why is that?
She will let you
know in no uncertain terms when she is
actually having an orgasm - it could be a
few minutes or longer or shorter. And
look, nice as it is to orgasm, it is NOT
the be-all and end-all of your
relationship. Concentrate on just being
close to her, finding out by trial and
error what she likes, communicating,
kissing ... and don't get stressed about
things. It is meant to be a pleasurable
experience so just relax!
