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ANGELOS MAMA

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Posted: 02-22-08 22:11pm

So today i went to my cousins house.And he told me like awhile back that his girl was pregnant.and i asked him how was she.he told me that she got a miscarriage.thing is now they broke up.i dont believe she was even pregnant in the first place.she she knew the sex of the baby at 2 months? i didnt even know that was possible.i thought it was at 20 weeks.

And another thing.shes just so happy as if she never had a miscarriage.

Question-when you suffer a miscarriage,what does the hospital usually do?
and also can yo find out the sex at 2 months?





i really need to know.i just know to many girls lying about being pregnant.and if i find out this was a lie,im calling her a$$ out.
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Posted: 02-22-08 22:13pm

Heck no you can't find out the sex at 2 months. The baby wouldn't be developed enough.

I don't know anything about a miscarriage, but I'd assume she'd be emotionally affected by it.

Sounds like she's lying.
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Posted: 02-22-08 22:31pm

I think the EARLIEST you can find out is like 16wks, and best case scenario she was 10-11wks. no way she knew what it was.

if she was happy to be pregnant, a miscarriage would, I think, affect her a lot.

I'd call her out and ask how she knew the sex (probably said it was a girl, lol, there's NOTHING there that early!)
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Posted: 02-23-08 01:48am

haha girl.i am.my cousins gettin all mad cus im making a big deal.
but i care enough to stand up for him.and hes blood,so ima do what i gotta go.


BTW,she said it was a boy.haha,luckily i never met the girl.cus if i did ive would of done something to her.i mean lying about being preg? what kinda of caca is that?

shes he!!a happy.she was a universal studios last weekend.
shes just drinking and partying away.
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Posted: 02-23-08 07:19am

If the hospital has the fetal remains from the miscarriage, they very well may be able to determine the gender.
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Posted: 02-23-08 10:28am

i had a misscarage at about 6 weeks. ok its not ong enough to know gender or nothing like that. but for that 2 weeks that i knew about it i was all hyped up for having a baby. you get broken hearted for a wee while but i supose you cant miss what you never had!

mibi she freekishly got over it quick
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Posted: 02-23-08 12:04pm

no u can't determine the sex 2 months! liar to say the least
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Posted: 02-23-08 18:46pm

wait, I just had a thought (and yes it did kinda hurt, lol) don't they have home gender tests? when are those accurate?!?
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Posted: 02-23-08 19:19pm

wow i just looked that up and it can tell at 5 weeks (suposedly i dont really trust it) but its *275* dollars.....so i doubt it in this case

personally it sounds like she is lieing to me
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ANGELOS MAMA

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Posted: 02-23-08 19:20pm

i dont know.this girl is just messed up in the head.

what does the hospital usually do when a girl suffers from a miscarriage?
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Posted: 02-23-08 19:24pm

they do an ultra sound to check if there is any reminants of the fetus and then if needed they do a d&c if not they let it run its natural course....or at least thats what im told
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ANGELOS MAMA

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Posted: 02-23-08 19:47pm

thats it? dont they usually clean them out or something?
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Posted: 02-23-08 20:24pm

that's what they do the ultrasound for. to find out if a d&c needs to be done.
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Posted: 02-23-08 20:37pm

sorry a d&c is "cleaning them out" they take a scraper type thing and scrape out any extra fetus/placenta/lining thats left so it doesnt cause an infection (but only if nessesary)
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