Help.. I Am Way Too Young Posted: 05-06-04 16:00pm
Okay, here is the deal. It sucks really
bad too. For some reason I just cant get
the same ercetion that I used to be able
to get, I cant sustain an erection strong
enough to have sexual intercourse. I want
to have sex so bad but knowing that I got
this weak member is killing my confidence.
Sometimes it seems good, other times, not
so good. In all honesty it is ruining my
life. I need a stronger erection so I can
have some good sex. I am only 20 years
old so this shouldn't be happening.
Somebody help me out pleaase
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Dizzy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4
I Know Posted: 05-07-04 01:23am
I know exactly how you feel man, did you
see my previous post? Same problem. I
did some research and the most common
reasons for this (that effect guys our
age) are emotional and drug related. Are
you on any kind of blood-pressure
affecting medication? Or antidepressants?
These can affect performance.
Also, say your girl is really, really
hard to please and you lose your erection
once...You'll get anxious next time and
lose it again because you're so worried
about it you can't focus on her or the
sex, only worrying. If this is the case,
thy not to think about it at all. Don't
be thinking "come on...Get hard...Get
hard..." but instead focus on how her lips
feel on yours, or how her skin feels under
your fingers...Etc...Etc and it will
help.
I was both having sex and looking at
porn sites daily, and I think the constant
sexual surroundings "numbed" me to sexual
situations, so things didn't turn me on
like they used to and I couldn't perform.
I've taken only two days off from porn and
already feel more aroused around my g/f
and in said situations. Maybe too much
stimulation, if you look at porn a lot?
Good luck!
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Dolemite1
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 May 2004 Posts: 2 Location: halifax
Posted: 05-08-04 15:36pm
Thanks bro.
I am doing the same thing with the porno
break actually and it seems to be working.
I haven't watched porno or rubbed one out
in a few days and tommorow I am looken to
get her to do it haha. Thanks
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 05-08-04 23:15pm
Are you on any medication? Or drugs?
It could be ruining it. Or any recent
trauma's?
~jennifer~
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kitty_55
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Posts: 1473 Location: Canada
Posted: 05-12-04 13:40pm
Hey try and not have sex or anything
sexual for a week or so and see if that
helps. But other than that I dunno!!
Sorry
alison xoxo
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beccaliz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2003 Posts: 119 Location: OC, cali
Suggestion Posted: 05-12-04 15:20pm
Not looking at porn period would be good.
I know it sounds typical for a girl to
say... But i'm serious. Porn tends to
lower your view of normal girls in general
without you even noticing and then when
you stop completely and you start just
looking at your girl it'll be like "wow"
hard on city... It worked w/ my man :d
