Ok- just because he is stressed- doesn't
mean he has to take it out on you either!
What I would do.. is pay him back what you
owe him fiancially- and move on. He
choose pot over his girlfriend? That
would indeed tick me off. Does he ever do
anything with you?
If the guy starts to get distant, or
shady- then it's time to move on. If it
was meant to be, he will fight to keep
you. Let him come to you. Trust your gut
instinct as well... it's usually right.
if you feel he's not interested
anymore..most likely he's not. In
relationships- at least serious ones-
you're on the same team. You give &
take. It's not 95% give to him and 5% him
giving back.
One thing I have learned over the years...
you have to take care of yourself 1st
before you can tend to another human
being. You should be your first
priority-- really sit back and list the
pro's & con's of being with him. If
one list is longer than the other... then
there's your answer.
Hope this helps- Yettie[/quote]
I have to agree whole heartedly with
everything Yettie has said here. If
someone loves you, they don't treat you
like this. I'm sure you don't go home and
slam him with your stress, so why is it ok
for him to do to you, which in turn,
stresses you out more? If you love someone
and they love you the same, they don't
treat you like this. It sounds to me like
he is done with the relationship or he is
taking it for granted. I would sit him
down and talk with him and quite honestly
if he refuses, in my eyes that shows he
doesn't care and you should move on. I
hope things work out for you!
