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bbfeet9
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Husband ALWAYS breaking wind
Posted: 02-25-08 15:32pm
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OK.. yes i am embarassed, but we are all
here for some reason or another. My
husband breaks wind all the time. He
doesn't try to hide it or stop it, he just
does it. He could be talking to someone
and he does it. Many times i have walked
away due to being humiliated. We will be
quietly watching tv at nite and he just
tears them off one right after the other.
He laughs, i don't. His MD says he is just
gassey, i say he is gross. This has been
going on for years and i have just about
had it. He will pass a hugh gas, then ask
me if i wanna mess around!!!
I know it is a natural body function and i
will not say that i have not done it. I
have, and when i do, i always excuse
myself. I have asked him nicely to please
try and squelch the urge all the time. You
CAN hold them in or go into another room.
He gets angry when i make such a fuss out
of it. In bed at nite it's like there is
an orchestra playing beside me. It's funny
but not really. If one has to put up with
this for as long as i have,one has a
tendancy to get sick of it. 
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 02-27-08 11:27am
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Wow, I have not come across this problem
before. I have no idea really what to tell
you outside of the fact that I would get
up and go in nother room and let him fart
all alone. I'm sure he could take some
pills for it or something. . .what does he
eat? What he eats has a *LOT8 to do with
it.
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jodie 16
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Ok
Posted: 02-29-08 12:14pm
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My Boyfriends The Same And Soo Am I
Everyone Gt Grose Things About Them
........You Should Try And See The Funny
Side.....
When You Love Somone Learn To Love There
No So Pleasant Side I Say
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micke
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Posted: 03-12-08 11:19am
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Come on, this is normal for guys to do.
Both my father and my husband now are
doing it whenever they feel like it. I
don't mind  . Maybe because I
learned it that way.
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 03-12-08 12:02pm
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Well most men i know don't fart constantly
and it is gross no matter if it's natural
or not. Esp in front of other people. it's
so rude and embarassing.
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bbfeet9
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thank you
Posted: 03-13-08 11:26am
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My point exactly. I know breaking wind is
a bodily function but....... to rip them
in front of people and continue on with
your convo like nothing happened!!!
Eeeek!! I am not the perfect butt hole, i
pass gas like any one else, when no one is
around. I am comfortable in front of the
hub, but to a degree. Not to sound gross
but his has been known to carry an aroma.
Peeee You!!! Loving my husband with my
whole heart and soul has nothing to do
with his musical ability. He does not have
a medical prob either. An "excuse me" from
him would work.
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 03-13-08 11:57am
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Right? It's called manners. My brother in
law rips them allll the time and he laughs
about it. I wish he would go in the
bathroom or at least be quiet and concider
other people. I sound so weird b/c farting
is natural, I just think there is a polite
way of doing things.
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jodie 16
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depends
Posted: 03-13-08 13:50pm
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i think it depends on what kind of person
you are funy and out out going people tend
to laugh it off.
moany people tend to groan about it.
my moms like it all the time anywhere
anytime i wouldnt change her for the world
we both laugh it off especially if somone
hears her or me on ocaasions.
live. dont worry about things like that
....if you really dont like it that much
tell him how much its getting to you .
i have good manners please thankyou .
but i got sense of humour people worry of
things that are worth it lol
lifes to short for this
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 03-13-08 14:01pm
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I have a good sense of humor and I am a
very easy going person, it's just rude to
not even say excuse me or to just fart in
front of anyone. Secondly I seriously
wonder why passing gas is so funny. I
laugh at some stupid things but farting?
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jodie 16
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true
Posted: 03-13-08 14:22pm
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i always say excuse me and tha...
what i find funny is that my boyfriend i
could never ever do it in front of him as
i found it so embarssing not to Even BURP
) LOL
But 4 months of cin eachother he was ina
room with me
and i held it in for ages and had ripping
pain through my stomach but i managed to
hold it in but i dropped somthing and had
to bend down and it came out i remeber
bursting red ......how imbarasssin.
but i remeber the pain i had in my stomach
.....ooof never again. i say pardon me
now
i think some people find it funny when its
out of the blue you know. i will say i
wouldnt agree in cafes or restsaurants.
we all have bad hapids though...
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 03-13-08 14:28pm
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Ok, I see what your saying. In those
instances, I do think it's funny 
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jodie 16
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ha ha
Posted: 03-13-08 14:32pm
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i dont think i could stick it though if my
hubby done it everday all day lol.
im realy worried my-self im pregnant and i
got a tooth extraction monday:(
at the lower jaw im PETRIFIED OFF NEEDLES
ABSOLUTLEY PETRIFIED.
ive had blood test 3 times im ok with them
just my gum
ooucch no i cant imagine it everyone says
its the easiest pain free needle to
have?..........but im so scared
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 03-13-08 14:36pm
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I for some reason though pregnant women
were nto suppose to have anything done at
the dentist unless it was just a cleaning.
Does the doc know your preg?
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jodie 16
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yea
Posted: 03-13-08 14:40pm
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yeah i was worried about that but pregnant
womenhave a diffrent anathesia.
my ttooth is infected....
do u know if them needles hurt aat all
.............
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 03-13-08 14:46pm
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Oh!
I'm not sure, i've never had to have one
in my gums before but I have heard it
hurts some.
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Beebobee
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Posted: 03-14-08 18:54pm
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Gassiness lol. Usually indicates a
digestion problem. I used to be extremely
gassy but I found out that I had a
digestion probelm. Mine were silent but
deadly. I have a boyfriend that passes
gass but they smell of nothing NO ODOUR.
I find it cute. But I agree, it is rude
during inappropriate times such as dinner
time. I would be eating my lunch and he
would walk by and let a big one rip. I
don't appreciate that at all. I tell him
not to do that again and he stopped unless
he really can't hold it in.
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Posted: 03-21-08 20:30pm
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I think some men see it as a territorial
thing, like 'marking their spot', but I am
afraid I find it ill-mannered. I grew up
in a house where all my brothers did it as
a way to get at me - they knew I hated it
and would do it to bully me! They thought
it was a great laugh while I quietly died
inside.  And their wind
smelt like something had died inside
THEM!
There are plenty of medicines available
for those who are 'gassy' so just tell him
to grow up and stop behaving like a little
boy.
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rugglerale
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Posted: 03-24-08 20:39pm
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My husband farts all the time. One time we
were in walmart and we were standing in
the checkout aisle, he was standing in
front of me and farted. His is the type
that spreads 20 feet away and smells of
something dead. Everyone around smelled it
and I know for a fact that the cashier
smelled it because she gave us dirty
looks. It made me feel awful and that the
people around thought that I done it. He
is always leaving them with me in the
aisles and he knows I dont like it. But
when it comes to the dinner table he
refuses to fart or for anyone else to
fart. I don't think its fair. Whats the
difference. Eating at the dinner table or
in an aisle. It will make you sick to your
stomach. I almost puke. I feel for
ya...and in the bed is not romantic at
all....Makes me feel really bad when he
farts while having sex...total turn off..I
don't know what to tell you...I'm
stuggling as well
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rugglerale
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Posted: 03-24-08 20:41pm
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My husband farts all the time. One time we
were in walmart and we were standing in
the checkout aisle, he was standing in
front of me and farted. His is the type
that spreads 20 feet away and smells of
something dead. Everyone around smelled it
and I know for a fact that the cashier
smelled it because she gave us dirty
looks. It made me feel awful and that the
people around thought that I done it. He
is always leaving them with me in the
aisles and he knows I dont like it. But
when it comes to the dinner table he
refuses to fart or for anyone else to
fart. I don't think its fair. Whats the
difference. Eating at the dinner table or
in an aisle. It will make you sick to your
stomach. I almost puke. I feel for
ya...and in the bed is not romantic at
all....Makes me feel really bad when he
farts while having sex...total turn off..I
don't know what to tell you...I'm
stuggling as well
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Posted: 03-25-08 05:15am
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i think that when you are in public a
little discretion is required. trying to
hold it in gives me bad stomach pains, so
i just try to let it out quietly. if i am
in a shop i will shuffle round a corner or
to a place where noone can hear. that's
just me. i would be too embarrassed to
just let rip in front of people i didn't
know. it depends on context i suppose. if
i heard someone farting in a shopping
aisle i wouldn't think it was disgusting,
as long as they are not making a big deal
out of it. it has to be done. but i think
it is inappropriate to do it loudly and
very deliberately at the cashier, in front
of someone. it's almost like throwing an
insult at someone.
but farting in the comfort of one's own
home is fine in my books. family, very
close friends, boyfriends, husbands and
wives, whatever. it is fine. when i meet
people in relationships who say "i would
never fart in front of my SO", i always
think their relationship must be lacking
slightly if they are embarrassed about it
and feel the need to hide and censor
something so natural. if someone is
comfortable enough in front of their
boyfriend/girlfriend to fart without
having to hide it or leave the room i see
it that the relationship has reached a
certain level!
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