husband caught using dating websites Posted: 02-26-08 00:10am
My husband of 41/2 years was caught with
accounts on three seperate dating sites-
he said he was only looking for someone to
talk to as a friend. Is this even
believable. He listed as his status -
single.
Can he be trusted?
I was pregnant at the time. I couldn't
find where he actually talked to anyone.
But i am still upset.
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msladiijay
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WOWWWWWWWWW!! Posted: 03-11-08 23:57pm
You can not trust this man!
if he's doing this ONLINE while your
pregnant, image what else he could be
doing out there while your not around.
That's not right, Just keep a good eye on
him.
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 03-24-08 10:32am
I wouldn't trust him. Any man who just
wants to talk, does NOT go on a dating
website! It's even worss that you were
pregnant. Why does he need to look for
another female comanion to confide in when
he has you? You are his wife and he should
be able to talk to you about anything.
Listing himself as single, is not trying
to be friends. I couldn't trust him if he
was my man.
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jessbrian07
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Posted: 03-24-08 10:45am
NO!!!! I was put through just about the
same thing when I was pregnant. Except the
girl was one of my friends, and yeah it
was labled as just wanting to talk to
someone. Some what later I found out that
they slept together. And even if he was
just wanting to chat with someone why did
he have to put single? I wouldnt trust
him......Im sorry
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beclean
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Posted: 03-30-08 11:59am
I had a cheating husband for 27 years. I
believed all the earlier things he said to
me .... like once when a woman called the
house, and he was not home and so I said
so, and she screamed at me: TELL HIM HIS
GIRLFRIEND CALLED...and hung up on me.
when I told him, he laughed at me and
said, get real, it is some prank phone
call.....that was probably when we were
married around 5 or 6 year mark.
as I said, I was married all those years,
and it finally came to a head. He also
had accounts for e mail I was not aware
of.
go looking around in your computer when he
is not home. you may be able to find
more evidence.
Needless to say, men do this stuff. he
may love you, but I would doubt he can be
trusted. whether you stay or go is your
call, but good luck. it is a painful
existence.
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StacyHoll
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Posted: 03-30-08 12:38pm
Hi there
I am really sorry to hear that. My
boyfriend of 4 years did that too just
recently and I am pregnant. It really
hurts to see that. I can only imagine the
thoughts you feel. I don't know why men do
that. No, I don't trust my boyfriend and
were not together anymore. I think maybe
men get scared about the baby business
'really locking them in' and they enjoy
looking at 'other' woman and talking to
them. I really don't understand it though.
You stay strong! You know what relaly pees
me off about that though,.. IS were
pregnant and WE CAN"T GO AROUND WITH OTHER
GUYS!! The time we need there support the
most the turn around and then start being
*dirty*
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StacyHoll
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Posted: 03-30-08 13:14pm
Sorry about that last post it just got me
so upset. I am really sorry for what
you're going through. You know most men
admire woman when they're pregnant. Hang
in there! It can only get better!! You be strong hun!
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lonestarguy
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A Man's View Posted: 03-30-08 14:09pm
OK, I'll try to explain a man's thinking
or non-thinking, which can cause this
tragedy.
I'm an older male with lots of experience
with marriage (32 years) and never
cheated. But, I have been tempted before
and I think in the cases here that
StacyHoll may be right.
Younger men get scared when a baby is on
the way. Most of them accept the
responsibility, but a few do not. So, they
look around for an easy way out and now,
with the internet, they can connect easily
to lots of girls. The really sad fact is
that he says online that he is single,
which to me doesn't mean he just wants to
talk.
You can't trust any guy who will do this
behind his partner's back. Personally, I
wouldn't see them as marriage material
anymore if I were you because who knows
what will happen when they have to face
other problems in the future with you. The
fact that you both were pregnant is
incredible, but shows that this is not a
man you want helping to raise your baby.
Trust is the most precious asset for a
couple, so handle the situation
accordingly. Stacy, I agree with your
anger. You have a right to be mad and so
does Schroader.
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