boyfriend's ex won't leave family alone Posted: 02-27-08 22:29pm
im really pissed off with my boyfriend's
ex girlfriend.
they broke up months before we started
dating, and i've know this guy since
college even before her, but we we're just
friends back then.
they we're bf/gf for a year, and after
they broke up, the girl didn't stop seeing
my bf even though my bf insists that they
will be just friends and that there is
totally no feelings at all. then she just
stop following around when my bf said to
her that he is already seeing someone new,
which is me.
she no longer bugs around him, but the
thing is, she keeps on calling and
bringing gifts to my boyfriend's family,
as if buying my boyfriend back through his
relatives.
my boyfriend just never minds her and
keeps on telling me that she is just
bitter and she is just making herself look
stupid. i actually got no issues with my
boyfriend because i know that he is no
longer interested, but what really makes a
big deal is that she is still making her
"silent way" through his family and that
makes it difficult for me to get into the
family, because subconciously, im thinking
that it might be still her that they
want.
what is the best thing to do?
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mominashoe
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Posted: 02-29-08 16:36pm
Well you can't exactly control what she
does. But you and your boyfriend could
visit his family and talk about this
issue. If they like her, there isn't
anything you can do about that, but they
might not be aware of what is going on.
It never hurts to ask what's going on
about it, and maybe you can state your
feelings about how this is affecting you.
If your boyfriend doesn't want her around
and nothing can come of it, his family
should understand that it makes it a very
difficult situation for her to still be
around, even if he doesn't have any
feeling for her.
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