rosejackson
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What was your first reaction...
Posted: 02-29-08 06:24am
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Ok i know im being nosy, but its a good
way of getting to know everyones
experiences...
What was your first reaction when your
found out you were pregnant? Was you
happy, scared, ashamed? etc
Me, personally i was shocked and upset. I
remember phoning bobby right away and i
was in tears.
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krystineM
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Posted: 02-29-08 14:16pm
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when i found out, i was shocked but a
little relieved to know what was going of
with me because i was feeling so weird for
a few weeks. i was[and still am] happy
about finding out im pregnant, but at the
same time nervous as this being my first
child.
but i was glad to know what was going on
and that my fiance and i will be bringing
a new life into the world 
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lele25
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Posted: 02-29-08 22:54pm
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I have never had a child but I did get
pregnant my freshman year of college and I
can tell you I have never been so scared
or upset in my entire life. I felt like
all of my future plans and the wonderful
life I had planned out for myself were
over with. I was absolutely devasted and
surprised, because 6 years ago my doctor
didn't tell me that antibiotics would
lessen the effectiveness of the pill.
Fortunately things worked out for me and I
was able to continue my life.
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benc152
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Posted: 03-01-08 02:15am
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When my girlfriend told me she was
pregnant I was scared and excited, 2 days
later she told me she was getting an
abortion and it broke me down. .. she
ended up having the baby
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rosejackson
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Posted: 03-03-08 05:28am
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| benc152
wrote: | | When my girlfriend told me
she was pregnant I was scared and excited,
2 days later she told me she was getting
an abortion and it broke me down. .. she
ended up having the baby |
i bet that was a total shock for you. were
you happy that she kept the baby?
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benc152
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Posted: 03-03-08 06:15am
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| rosejackson
wrote: | | benc152
wrote: | | When my girlfriend told me
she was pregnant I was scared and excited,
2 days later she told me she was getting
an abortion and it broke me down. .. she
ended up having the baby |
i bet that was a total shock for you. were
you happy that she kept the
baby? |
thrilled ... just a bit
annoyed she let me greive the loss of him
for so many months when she kept him
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rosejackson
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Posted: 03-03-08 06:17am
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it was very insensitive for her to let you
go through that alone. i couldn't do that
myself personally. you're the father, so
you really had the right to know that your
baby was alive
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jessamyn
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Posted: 03-03-08 11:33am
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I was startled... like soo many mixed
emotions
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Ayrshire-lass
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marih
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Posted: 03-03-08 19:35pm
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at first I was shocked and scared , I
thought my parents wouldn't support me and
my boyfriend would leave me ... when i
told them they were very supportive , my
parents didnt expected that from me and of
course they got upset but 2 days later my
mom was shopping baby clothes and making
plans ... my dad was so disappointed he
barely looked at my face for a few months
...but when i got HUGE he was always
saying how pretty i was and stuffs . oh
those fun days
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lele25
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Posted: 03-03-08 21:11pm
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I'm glad that things worked out for all of
you, but at the time I made a very
difficult choice, one I don't regret . I
have wondered how my life would be
different if I had a child...would I have
finished college? Met my husband?
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benc152
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Posted: 03-03-08 23:12pm
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| rosejackson
wrote: | | it was very insensitive for
her to let you go through that alone. i
couldn't do that myself personally. you're
the father, so you really had the right to
know that your baby was
alive |
yeah that's why i'm not on speaking terms
with her
betch from hell XP
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