Please Give Me You Advice...i Really Need It... Posted: 05-14-04 03:03am
I've been talking to this guy for awhile
now and I really really like him, we've
slept together and everything...That made
me like him even more. He makes me really
happy and he makes me laugh...Well he
found out today that his ex g/f is
pregnant...I know this sounds selfish but
i'm really scared that this is going to
mess up me and him. He told me that he
don't want to be with her, but he will
take care of the baby...I respect that.
I'm just real scared that this will effect
what me and him have...Please give me your
advice?????
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Sasha
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 May 2004 Posts: 9 Location: North Carolina
Posted: 05-16-04 02:46am
I think you should be careful about this
relationship. you said that his
ex-girlfriend is pregnant. Is it
possible that he is still seeing her and
you at the same time? I know you really
really like this guy. If you two have a
committed relationship and good
communication, then this should work out
fine, though his ex is pregnant. If you
are both committed to this relationship,
all of these issues should work themselves
out. Is the ex trying to get back in his
life again? I think these are questions
you should ask him. Does he have other
children? I hope things work out between
you and him. As long as he's honest with
you about him and the ex, then it
shouldn't mess up what you and him have.
Of course, when the baby's born things
will change some, but a lot depends on the
type of relationship he has with the ex
and if she wants to be with him. Also
you said he found out "today" that she's
pregnant. When is she due? Also, how
did you meet this guy? I hope everything
works out. :d
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 05-16-04 06:51am
Is your boyfriend for sure that it is his
baby? That would be the 1st thing I
would want to know and then go from there,
she might just be playing a game just to
get him back.
Sincerely,
sandy
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PregnaJordan
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2003 Posts: 2908
Posted: 05-24-04 01:32am
In another post u said u were preg. U
thought....What is it?
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blackkittykatx6x
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 May 2004 Posts: 19
Posted: 05-28-04 05:26am
Hey yall, well I talked to him about
everything and he told me he does'nt want
to be with her. I actually beleive him,
but I have some bad news I think I am
pregant also, by either him or my ex,
but...I have'nt told him, and i'm not
going to unless i'm totally sure that I
am. But thank you guys for your advice.
