Joined: 13 Jan 2004 Posts: 1436 Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
Worried......... Posted: 05-19-04 11:00am
Ok do u all remember about my grampa? How
they found cancer in him? Well he had his
surgery and all went fine and good and
they got rid of the cancer, but hes still
been in the hospital. Well , they were
supposed to take him out of intensive care
last nite, and they did. .But he got put
back in icu this morning he had a blood clot
in his lung.. Then they did an ultrasound
and found another blood clot, in his
bladder.. So now their performing surgery
in the morning.. Everyone is up at the
hospital! I feel terrible cuz im not
there but hes in icu and
the doctor said its not safe for a
pregnant woman to be there in the
intensive care areas because they carry
'super germs' uncuriable with antibiotics.
Plus, I have work in the morning and its
10pm. I just feel so bad.. And im so
worried. People can die because of blood
clotting! I mean im hoping the best and
im sure he will be ok but its scary as
hell....My sister and dad just went up to
drop off pizza for everyone, but their
coming back soon. My mom is staying the
nite up there, along with some others in
the family. I would too but I cant miss
another day of work cuz I have to keep
this job ya know and ive missed a few days
already... Am I terrible?! Please
everyone pray for my grampa!!!
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
Posted: 05-19-04 11:43am
Oh ur not terrible at all!!!!! Its not ur
fault u cant be there with him. If u had
a choice, im sure u'd be there right now
by his side, but its not ur decision and u
have to look out for the baby. Im sorry
to hear about ur grandpa and I hope
everythings okay but plz dont feel bad
about not being able to see him. He knows
ur thinking of him and he knows that u
wish u were there. I hope everythings
okay
shauna
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 05-19-04 23:13pm
Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-25-04 14:42pm; edited 1 time in total
Sorry to hear about that and your not a
terrible person it's not your fault at all
the baby is what's important and you have
to look out for the baby. Perhaps sending
him a card or something would let him know
that you are right there. I do pray to
god everything works out for the best and
you have to have enough faith.
Hope things work out.
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BbyBlu0602
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2004 Posts: 822 Location: Virginia
Posted: 05-21-04 03:51am
I went throught he same thing in my 9th
month of pregnancy. My grandma was in
the hospital and I couldn't go visit her.
It isn't your fault thought and i'm sure
he knows that. I'm sorry to hear about
your grandpa and I hope everything is
ok.
he had a blood clot
in his lung.. Then they did an ultrasound
and found another blood clot, in his
bladder.. So now their performing surgery
in the morning.. Everyone is up at the
hospital! I feel terrible cuz im not
there 
