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xxmskaxx
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Joined: 29 May 2004
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Abortion
Posted: 05-30-04 22:13pm
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Do you guys have anything that shows how
creul an abortion is, so that I could show
him. Or do u know any websights I can go
to. I just dont think I can do that.And
he keeps saying that its the only good
option. Thanks <3
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bellax0femmina
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Joined: 09 Apr 2004
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Location: New Jersey
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Posted: 05-30-04 22:34pm
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Hey, I wish you luck in getting him to
agree with you.. But just remember that
it is your decision only! Nobody elses!
I like the site abortiontv.Com, its very
good!
<3
gaby
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xxmskaxx
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Posted: 05-30-04 22:58pm
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I cant seem to get through to him.. He
just keeps saying my life cant be over yet
im only 18 its the only option. I told
him to come to the 1st doctors appt with
me, and to hear this little babys heart
beat and then still tell me its just a
glob. I cant do it. I told him to
just turn around and walk away. That I
will do this myself that it doesnt have to
ruin his life, and he says that he cant do
that because he has a concience. So I
said if that were the case you wouldnt be
able to homicide it. Everytime I say im
sorry I cant do it, he yells and says u
have to there is no way we can do this.
To stop making this a big deal. I just
found this sad abortion poem. I just
cant do it
abortion
6 weeks old today mommy
a birthday gift for me
a pair of big blue eyes
thru one day I will see.
Where are we going mommy
with the rain splashing down
when it hits the sidewalk
it makes a funny sound.
Bang thru the big white doors
people dressed in green
if they hurt u mommy
just run away and scream.
Help me mommy their tearing me apart
there goes my big blue eyes
there goes my little heart.
I love u mommy believe me I do
but the worst thing is I thought u loved
me too.
Has ne one had these problems, I need help
I feel like I am so alone. I know that
I am not ready for a baby but why is my
only other option to be a murderist...
Last edited by xxmskaxx on 05-31-04 01:32am; edited 1 time in total
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noodleandshorty
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Posted: 05-30-04 23:03pm
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Hello? Have u ever heard of
a.D.O.P.T.I.O.N. ? If u are real...U are
not ruining ur life im 17 and my lil girl
will be here in less than 3 months. If he
cant take it then obviously hes not the
one to spend the rest of ur life with or
to have a kid with. Its not his decision
its urs..Its ur body. Just had to say
that because u make it seem like abortion
is the only way but its not! Im still
goin with my first instincts and sorry if
they are wrong but 
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bellax0femmina
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Location: New Jersey
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Posted: 05-30-04 23:06pm
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/\ shes right, adoption is a very good way
to go! Its good for you, the baby, and
the adoptive family!
<3
gaby
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KariM18
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Posted: 05-30-04 23:23pm
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Dont listen to him ,he sounds selfish.
The father of my baby did the same thing.
Anyhow.. U said u were 17..Is he 18 or
were u sayin u were 18? U would regret it
so much if u aborted it cuz of him.
Theres always adoption. Guys are morons
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lilmama2b_oct04
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Posted: 05-31-04 00:22am
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That poem made me tear up... Please dont
get an abortion just because this guy
wants you to. If he cared about your
feelings he would listen to you sayin no,
right now it seems like hes only thinkin
of himself. Just because your havin a
baby doesnt mean your life is over, there
is adoption. And if you were to keep it,
it still isnt ruining your life, it will
make things harder, but it will make you a
stronger person in the end. You will
really regret it if you abort your baby
just cuz some guy thinks his life is over.
Maybe he should learn to keep his dick in
his pants if he just expects the girls he
gets pregnant to just abort the baby.
Tell him I said to start whackin off if he
cant handle the responsibilty that come
after sex. Im sorry but guys like this
really piss me off... Im 17 and im 24
weeks pregnant, and I couldnt be happier.
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sparklypixie12
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KissyBai912
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Posted: 05-31-04 06:24am
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I thought u were 17??? Anywhom....That
poem gave me shivers.....It made me think
of my son....He got a pair pf big blue
eyes....Lol. Stuff like that makes me
wanna cry for all the lost
babies....*sniff*
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xxmskaxx
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Posted: 05-31-04 10:12am
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I am 17. I asked him what he thinks
about adoption and he told me he cant
cause in 18 yrs this child will find him
and ask him why. I dont understand.
Health question something is better? I
cant do it.. And I wont. We did this
not the baby.
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oopoopoop
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Posted: 05-31-04 20:46pm
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Do not, under any circumstances, let
someone else talk you into having an
abortion! If you want to have the baby,
then that is your absolute choice. If he
didn't want to be a father, he should have
been more careful, or he should have
abstained. It is no longer his choice to
make, it is your body and you baby!
Adoption is not an easier option, if you
think you can look after the baby and
would regret giving it away, then there
are people who will support you in that.
How does your family feel?
The reason for not having an abortion has
nothing to do with the nature of the
procedure -- you should not be directed to
unpleasant images -- the reason for not
having an abortion is because you don't
want one.
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oopoopoop
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Posted: 06-03-04 11:55am
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This is not the debate forum. This is not
the place to debate if abortion is right
or wrong. It is to give support to women
and girls who find themselves in a
difficult situation. For someone who
doesn't want to have an abortion, that is
certainly the best, and only necessary,
reason for not having one.
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2ferano
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Posted: 06-03-04 13:23pm
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Taken care of...
If this post turns into a debate though it
will be moved. No big deal either way,
but samie you know not to start debates in
the abortion forum.
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where_is_the_line
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Thank You
Posted: 07-22-04 01:19am
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You want to have your baby, please have
it. There is no good reason not to have
the baby. If I fathered a child I don't
see how I could ever ask the girl to abort
the baby. If she wanted to I would use
all my energy to talk her out of it.
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