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xxmskaxx

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Joined: 29 May 2004
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1st Dr.'s Visit
Posted: 05-31-04 04:09am

What do they do at the first Dr.S visit? Do u hear the heart beat. Because he keeps telling me an abortion isnt a big deal and I told him when u hear its heart beat I want to see what u say.. He isnt realizing how emotional this is.
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Darling

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Joined: 22 Sep 2003
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Posted: 05-31-04 04:22am

Sometimes you get to hear the heartbeat but not by doppler by transvaginal ultrasound. Why would you want to be with someone who wants you to have an abortion? I say your better off without him and to just continue the pregnancy on your own.

Edit: changed doppled to doppler


Last edited by Darling on 05-31-04 05:31am; edited 1 time in total
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KariM18

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Joined: 13 Jan 2004
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Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan

Posted: 05-31-04 05:25am

I agree. U shouldnt waste ur breath trying to show him anything. If he doesnt know already that yes, its a life no matter how many weeks, then hes just ignorant.
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sarah88

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Joined: 18 May 2004
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Location: *louisiana*

Posted: 05-31-04 08:55am

Hey at my first visit they did a pap,asked a bunch of questions weighed me,took some blood and give u prenatal vit. Then 2 weeks later I was sch. For a ultrasound then 4 weeks after that I heard the heartbeat at my regular 4 week check up!It was cool when my boyfriend heard the heartbeat and sa the baby move on the ultrasound he could not stop smiling its like reality set in!!It was soo awesome!
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xxmskaxx

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Joined: 29 May 2004
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Posted: 05-31-04 10:09am

I cant get through to him.. He just keeps calling me from work.. I told him to jsut walk away. That I cannot healt question this baby. It was our mistake. He tells me that it is nothing but a glob that its not a baby. I dont need him. If that is what he wants I dont want him around my child. I am so confused.
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Kourtney08

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Joined: 08 May 2004
Posts: 937
Location: Alaska

Posted: 05-31-04 11:43am

At my first visit they did a pap, weighed me, checked my breasts, and gave me prenatel vitamins. They said they weren't going to check the heartbeat because I wasn't that far and they might not get anything.

My second appointment they did the heartbeat and I got an ultrasound with pictures, it was the coolest thing I have ever seen in my life! I have 2 cute little pictures of my baby! I can't wait to find out if its a boy or girl Smile

i don't think there is getting through to someone about this kinda thing, but I think you should do what you feel is best whatever that may be.
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