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TurtleGrl03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003
Posts: 63
Location: Oregon
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Baby Names
Posted: 06-01-04 17:47pm
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I just posted yesterday about maybe being
pregnant (im 16...) my boyfriend and I
dont live near eachother but we're ttc
(dont judge please) and weve been thinking
about names for awhile...Anyone want to
hear them?
Shawna
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Id Like to Hear Your Names But.....
Posted: 06-01-04 18:05pm
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Im not judging but I have questions...Why
would you want to have a baby so young
when its so hard?? Have you thought about
all the things you will miss out on? If
you dont live near eachother how will you
2 live after the baby? How long have you
been with him? Do you see him to be with
you for the rest of your life? Does he
work? Do you work? Will you finish
school? Who will watch the baby? How
will you be able to afford the baby? As
in can you afford all the neccesities that
come with a baby such as cribs to wipes to
clothes to toys? How do you know your guy
will stick with you after the baby? What
are your career plans? What are his
career plans? Will you get your own
place? Have you been to a doc? Can you
drive? Do you have a car? Who will get
up at 1-3-4-6-8am when the baby is crying
and hungry? Who will take care of the
baby when its sick and who can go get the
medicine or go to the doctor?
You do realize that trying to concieve is
just not having a baby with this guy...Its
a responsibility for a life time. You
will have to put the baby before yourself
and be broke forever. They arent cute and
easy. Ask jeni, she stays up at all hours
while her baby wont sleep. Every baby
will have its bad times. This is no peice
of cake. Are you ready for all this?
Maybe you should wait a few years before
you ttc.
Keep in mind im not judging or lecturing,
im brining out the points that others dont
look at when they want to have a kid so
young.
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TurtleGrl03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003
Posts: 63
Location: Oregon
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Posted: 06-01-04 18:11pm
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Do you have an aol sn? If so im me my sn
is nirvanagurl4694
i'd love to talk to you, and yes I have
thought about all these. I actually work
in a teen nursery for the past 2 years at
my school. Let me know if your going to
im me
shawna
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 06-01-04 18:17pm
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No I dont have aol, I actually deleted it,
hahaha. I never used it. Crap. I do
have yahoo and msn. My yahoo is
silly1incamario , I would im you though
but I dont have time to re-download it.
But working in a teen nursery is *alot*
different than having your own, because
you have to wake up, dress, feed, change,
burp, bathe and more for a long time.
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Riversmommy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 711
Location: Springfield,Illinois
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Posted: 06-01-04 18:21pm
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Hey hun niki is very right!! I wasnt
trying to conceive although I really wasnt
trying not to either!! But it is very
hard on u emotionally,
physically,mentally!!! I mean dont get me
wrong I love my son and I dont regret him
but its not a walk in the park u got a lot
of sacrifcing to do u dont get to go to
prom u dont get time to urself unless u
got a lot of help u might have to sacrifce
ur schooling but im not saying its
impossible look at all these wonderful
girls on here who have done and are doing
it! Like niki said u have to look at all
those things she mentioned! If u wanna
talk I have yahoo and msn!!! Much love
and god bless!!!
Jen river and raven
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TurtleGrl03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003
Posts: 63
Location: Oregon
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Posted: 06-01-04 18:32pm
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Riversmommy whats your yahoo sn? Mine is
nirvanagirl4694
shawna
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caracook
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2004
Posts: 464
Location: Richmond, KY
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Posted: 06-01-04 19:44pm
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Why are you thinking about names? You
don't know if you're pregnant yet. Were
you ttc?
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bellax0femmina
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Apr 2004
Posts: 823
Location: New Jersey
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Posted: 06-01-04 20:40pm
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Yehp. She said she and her boyfriend were
ttc..
<3
gaby
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little_woman
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2004
Posts: 765
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Posted: 06-01-04 20:50pm
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How long have you been ttc? I read some
of your posts and it seems as if you've
been trying for some time now
meg
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 852
Location: grand blanc michigan
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Posted: 06-01-04 21:12pm
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Trying for some time now? She did say
a while back she was too... My god...
Trying at even younger then 16? 16
is already too young to actually try.
im sorry, but I think this is what makes
young people these days appear
immature.... I read some her posts from
oct too when she was 15 and 'trying to get
pregnant'' then too. .And a post where
she was 'scared' about it.. Yet trying?
O please. Seems like an attention getter
to me. . Plus, someone who doesnt
honestly understand having a real baby is
like. U cant compare it to working in a
nursery at ur school. Listen to what
nikki said! U say uve thought about all
that, but if u really had, u wouldnt be
trying to get pregnant right now.
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TurtleGrl03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003
Posts: 63
Location: Oregon
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Posted: 06-01-04 21:29pm
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My god....You guys are awful
you say you dont judge, and I come on here
to open up to people who I think can help
me, and all you can do is say how immature
I am...And you dont even know me or what
kind of situation I am in...Thanks
alot...But I know never to come to any of
you for advice again
shawna
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003
Posts: 875
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Posted: 06-01-04 21:58pm
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No one is judging you they're simply
giving you a huge reality check, which is
obviously something you don't want to
hear. No one is going to tell you having
a child is great and easy and encourage
someone at your age to have one. They are
going to give you straight facts and
present you with the brutally honest
truth. If you can't handle that then you
definitely aren't ready for a child.
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TurtleGrl03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003
Posts: 63
Location: Oregon
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Posted: 06-01-04 22:24pm
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Thats not it at all...Im sick of comming
on here to ask you people if the signs im
showing are what I think they are...And
then being told that I cant handle it..And
im too young...I dont have people to come
to at my house..So I thought I could come
to you people for support..But I sure was
wrong...My friends here agree with what im
doing, but I cant really talk to them
about it, and be like "does this seem like
what I think it is...?" thats why I came
on here last september. I know your
trying to help...But dont judge me because
of my choices....
Shawna
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littlehunybunny
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Mar 2004
Posts: 644
Location: Los Angeles California
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Reactions
Posted: 06-02-04 00:24am
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Your reactions to the information these
girls are giving you is what is making you
sound imature. I don't blame anyone for
what they tell you. Tell us what your
friends already know, for them to agree
with what you are doing. Who knows, maybe
if you tell us what they already know,
then maybe you won't get the feedback that
you so much don't like. But you are
hearing from girls your own age who are
pregnant or already parents, and they are
telling you what its like!! You should
respect the info they are giving you, they
are only trying to help you in the long
run!
Stacey
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chrystinmarie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jun 2004
Posts: 128
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Posted: 06-02-04 01:59am
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Look shawna I am 14 years old and I know
that I am the youngest mom to be on here,
and yet these girls have given me advice
and even laughed with me through a very
embarrasing crisis. But try at 16 to have
a baby is not the smartest decison, no one
is saying you can't do it, just that you
would be better off waiting! Some of us
made dumb decisions which landed us here,
but are about to experience the best thing
of our life. I know I am alot younger
than you, but maybe waiting isn't such a
bad idea!
Chrystin
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caracook
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2004
Posts: 464
Location: Richmond, KY
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Posted: 06-02-04 08:36am
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I think we're all pretty nice and
understanding when girls are in trouble.
We don't however think it's ok when a girl
who is 15/16 is trying for a baby. I
don't care if you are loaded and you think
you're mature. No one is ready mentally.
I know there are 16 year olds on here who
are great moms but it's still rough on
them. You don't need to health forum at
us, you need to take a look in the mirror.
Deal with your issues.
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 06-02-04 09:10am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-27-04 17:01pm; edited 1 time in total
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 852
Location: grand blanc michigan
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Posted: 06-02-04 11:04am
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Also she said she wanted to be preg
because her home life sucks and she wanted
to 'prove' she could do it. Thats not a
reason to have a baby..At all. Shouldnt
even be part of a reason. At 16 u have so
much more to think about and sooo much
more time ahead.
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chrystinmarie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jun 2004
Posts: 128
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Posted: 06-02-04 11:25am
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If you want to prove that you can do it
and get out of your house, save all of
your money and move into a really really
nice apartment after high school, drive a
hot little car and buy fashionable
clothing! Go to the movies with your
friends and stuff!
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StacyLynn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 May 2004
Posts: 60
Location: Levittown, PA
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Posted: 06-02-04 13:29pm
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Last edited by StacyLynn on 06-17-04 10:03am; edited 1 time in total
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