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ERICA83
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2004
Posts: 738
Location: clinton twp, MI
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Going Crazy
Posted: 06-02-04 00:10am
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Lol im sure noone wants to hear this but
im a huge crybaby right now. I cant get a
hold of my emotions. Btw, the baby is
moving and ok :d but back 2 the point.
I have put on alot of weight. I used to
weigh like 125 like 8 months be4 I got
preggy then it just added and added. I
gain weight very easily and have always
had a problem with it. And here I am 197
lbs and still have 2 & half more
months to go and it aint all tummy . Im
gaining it in my legs, butt, arms, face
everywhere! I feel really disgusted and I
dont want to offend anyone by sounding
selfish but there is no excuse for me
gaining this much. I cant blame it on
being "pregnant" I have been beating
myself up and the whole problem is I cant
control it and it drives me nuts! I have
like no self discipline. The other day my
dad said I probably weigh more than him
and as my aunt came to give me a kiss
hello she made her face look all puffy.
Making fun of mine. Then me and eric were
eating at a resturaunt and there was a
mirror on the side of us and I got so sick
watching myself eat. Its sick I know.
And to top off everything else he and I
were trying to make love and I just
couldnt do it. I was crying and all he
was trying to do was tell me im beautiful
but I felt like a whale and made him stop.
Sorry guys I just had to type this out I
just got done bawling my eyes out and I
just had to post it. I just cant get a
hold of myself. Thanks for listening
though. ~ erica.
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 06-02-04 08:55am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-27-04 18:32pm; edited 1 time in total
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lee25
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Dec 2003
Posts: 1018
Location: new york
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Posted: 06-02-04 13:32pm
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Yeah don't worry about it, I cry sometimes
too. I feel like a fat pig and i'm not
even that big. It's just that I know I
was a lot smaller for my son. Don't
worry the feelings eventually go away once
you hold that beautiful little boy in your
arms. We all have to sacrifice something
in life and I guess my figure for now is
okay.
Brenda
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StacyLynn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 May 2004
Posts: 60
Location: Levittown, PA
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Posted: 06-02-04 13:34pm
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Last edited by StacyLynn on 06-17-04 09:50am; edited 1 time in total
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 06-02-04 13:39pm
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Who the health question are you to say
that??? Your only 7 weeks so you dont
even know what your in for!
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kitty_55
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Posts: 1473
Location: Canada
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Posted: 06-02-04 13:42pm
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Omg how dare you say that is too much!!!
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004
Posts: 4535
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Posted: 06-02-04 13:44pm
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Hey she didn't post that so we could make
fun of her! We're supposed to be
supportive here...
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StacyLynn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 May 2004
Posts: 60
Location: Levittown, PA
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Posted: 06-02-04 13:50pm
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003
Posts: 3717
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Posted: 06-02-04 13:52pm
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It all depends on her starting weight and
activity level. Too much for one person
may not be enough for someone else. That
was just plain uncalled for and an
uneducated response.
Honey, you will be fine. As long as you
are eating healthy gaining is perfectly
normal! I am sure you feel fat, but the
baby needs you to gain weight. So, don't
worry. It will all be over soon and well
worth it!
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 06-02-04 14:29pm
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Jordan gained alot too and she is fine and
her baby is fine. Erica it might be
retained water and im sure youl lose it
all as soon as you have the baby
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 06-02-04 14:32pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 06-17-04 12:58pm; edited 1 time in total
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ERICA83
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2004
Posts: 738
Location: clinton twp, MI
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Posted: 06-02-04 16:35pm
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Whatever I dont care what she says. The
good thing about it is that I dont look
197 lbs! But I am so ah well. 104 lbs?
You sound like you have the body of an 11
year old. My baby is growing inside of
me. And for your info, if u are
underweight u will gain more than normal
women do . Sooo think about it. And no I
am not slowly killing myself retard. You
make it sound like I am some 500 lb obese
woman. Please and do me a favor get over
yourself twig! . I guess I have to watch
what I say I dont aprreciate being put
down about things. Thats not why I
posted. Thanks to everyone else who
supported me. And you'll see staci .....
Just watch how much you gain. ~ erica.
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004
Posts: 4535
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Posted: 06-02-04 16:39pm
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She's already proven herself a fake. Her
real name is kelly.
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chrystinmarie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jun 2004
Posts: 128
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Posted: 06-02-04 16:47pm
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| stacylynn
wrote: | | once again, i'm sorry. I
just meant that it seemed to be a lot.
125 to 197. I'm 104, so I hope I don't
get that big, I would cry. I'm sure she
is very pretty, it's just that that's a
lot to put on yourself. She could be
slowly killing herself, and the baby could
have
problems. |
stacy do everyone a favor and shut up!
She is eating healthy for her child and
you have no place to be speaking!
Erica if you want to get back into
pre-pregnant shape after the baby, try
walking and eating a little heathier now.
Also try cutting out stuff high in sodium,
like ramen noodles, tv dinners, try fresh
veggies instead of canned, all of that
will help. You might be retaining alot of
water if you are taking in alot of sodium!
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little_woman
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2004
Posts: 765
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Posted: 06-02-04 17:05pm
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Its just hormomes like everyone says dear.
Dont worry and cry to us all you want,
venting is fine. Just try walking a bit
and that might help you with your feelings
too, a little physical activity can go a
way!
As for you stacy? How dare you say that
to her! I'm sure youre going to cry when
you hit 110. I weigh 105 right now *and
yes erica I kinda do have the lower body
of an 11 year old :p * but later on when I
do want kids I wouldnt care about the
weight!
Meg
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 06-02-04 17:08pm
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Good for you erica! You made me laugh.
Shes a fake though.
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ERICA83
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2004
Posts: 738
Location: clinton twp, MI
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Posted: 06-02-04 18:40pm
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Lol I just realized she was a fake duhh
but w/e it dont make no difference. She
said what she said ah well. Im over it
lol. I dont know her and I dont care to
know her . ~ erica.
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caracook
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2004
Posts: 464
Location: Richmond, KY
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Posted: 06-02-04 20:21pm
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Erica, i'm so sorry. I could just be
emotional but I almost cried reading your
first post. I know how you feel about not
feeling sexy now. Of course, i'm only 9
weeks but i'm starting to get a lil...
Chubby. It's depressing but you're gonna
have a baby that is gonna be the cutest
thing in the whole world. Plus... You
only have 2 months to go so you're almost
done! :-d oh, and I know you don't know
me but I just felt bad that you felt bad.
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003
Posts: 3717
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Posted: 06-02-04 23:27pm
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You will be just fine! Yes, some people
do hardly gain anything and go right back
to pre-pregnancy weight asap, but you
cannot control that. The important thing
is that you eat healthy for you and your
baby and worry about the excess weight
after you give birth! The baby being
healthy is way more important!!!!
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Wings are blue
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2003
Posts: 435
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Posted: 06-03-04 10:15am
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Erica I know how you feel! I was just
looking in the mirror yesterday and I just
wanted to cry! I have stretch marks
everywhere! I'm even starting to worry
about having my family (other than my
husband) in the delivery room with me b/c
I feel so fat and disgusting. It's all
just a part of being pregnant though and
it will be so worth it in the end! Hang
in there it's almost over! You started
out very thin so it's probably a good
thing that you've put on the extra weight.
The baby needs it! Look at me and
jordan! We're huge!!!!! Just remember
that you're not alone! We're all here for
you! Love ya sweetie!
Angie
p.S. I was gonna say something about
stacie's comment but I figured it's best
that I just keep my mouth shut! I'm on
bedrest for a reason! Lol!
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