Joined: 08 Jun 2004 Posts: 23 Location: crestview, florida
17 And Pregnant Again Posted: 06-08-04 21:26pm
Hi, my name is mercedes im new... I'm 17
and I have a little girl name nakiya who
is 2 only shes not mine I mean technically
she is but she calls my mother mom and she
runs to my mom and she always wants to be
with her they have this perfect bond. I
am now pregnant again I will be 18 oct 5th
and im 4 months... I don't know am I
making a mistake not even 18 and already
pregnant again even though ill be 18 when
I have him. I've finished h.S and I have
my a.A degree and im now going to a 4 year
college. I just kinda wanted to tell you
guys about myself and hopefully meet new
froends.
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Kourtney08
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 May 2004 Posts: 937 Location: Alaska
Posted: 06-08-04 21:33pm
Im also 4 months pregnant, i'll be 19
october 8th, a few days after your
birthday. Im just wondering whats going
to happen with this child, if your other
child is with your mom. Do you take care
of your daughter, are you on your own? I
think pregnancy is a great thing, if you
can handle it.
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Riversmommy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 711 Location: Springfield,Illinois
Posted: 06-08-04 21:37pm
Hey girlie!!! Like I said be4 the girls
here are great!!!! Were like a family
here!!! I dont think ur making a mistake
at all u are a wonderful girl and u really
do have a wondeful b/f even tho he can be
pain but all guys can!!! It will be okay
u have achieved so much and u didnt let
getting preg the first time stop u from
doing what u want to do just make sure u
bond w/ this one more like we talked about
hte other nigth!! Well u kno I luv ya!!!!
Ur a great girl keep ur head up!!!!
Jen river and raven
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cedes850
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jun 2004 Posts: 23 Location: crestview, florida
Posted: 06-08-04 21:37pm
First off yes I am keeping him and I am
moving out and doing this on my on with my
b/f. 2nd I was 14 when I got preg 15 when
I had my daughter. I was trying to still
get my education beacause I know it would
help us both in the long run. But by me
going to school and my mom being the one
who was watching my daughter while I was
there they bonded now im not planning on
my daughter staying with my mom for the
rest of her life. But I do wanna do this
one on my on I wanna bond with him I just
want my mom to be grandmother. :d
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 876
Posted: 06-08-04 23:13pm
Although I know you don't want your
daughter with your mother for the rest of
your life if your going to remove her from
the home I suggest you do so very slowly,
as it could be very traumatic for your
daughter. To her your mother is her
mother and being taken away by you (even
though you are her mother) could be very
scary. If you are planning on leaving
with her why not try to slowly build a new
bond with her and then when you do leave
only let her stay with you for a few days
at a time and then let her go back to your
mother. I'm sure eventually she would
adjust however simply taking her out could
upset her so much. I wasnt judging you in
any way thats simply my opinion on that!
Congratulations on being pregnant again,
and having completed highschool and being
in college, thats fabulous continue with your
dreams and with the help and support of
others i'm sure you'll do just fine.
Love
tanya
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cedes850
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jun 2004 Posts: 23 Location: crestview, florida
Posted: 06-08-04 23:38pm
What I ment is just because im having a
new baby doesnt mean im going to forget
about my daughter. I mean to tell you the
truth she so attached to my mom I dont
think im going to be able to take her it
would not hurt only her but my mom. See
my mom lost my lil bro to still born at
the start of march and we found out that I
had concieved my daughter at the end of
march so I guess she just boned with my
daughter. Really I dont wanna take my
daughter away from my mom but im not just
going to say okay bye now while I raise my
son thats on the way what im trying to say
is even though me and her are like sisters
I still wanna be there for her. Im just
really wanting to bond with him though.
My daughter she calls both me and my mom
mom but she's just really attached to my
mom ya know. Soo thank you so verry much
for advice it really helps alot to know
people understand what your going
through.
Cedes
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 852 Location: grand blanc michigan
Posted: 06-09-04 07:49am
Hey hun. Congrats on ur pregnancy. One
thing tho.. I am surprised ur pregnant
again still being young if u didnt want to
be... Didnt u start using protection and
birth control after the first pregnancy?
But anyhow.. U would have to move so
slowly with ur daughter if ur moms been
kinda like her mom but she still is ur
daughter. I take it u know the 2nd one is
a boy? R u excited? 2 kids at 18 will be
hard but im sure u can manage. R u with
the father still? Or is there more then
one father between the 2?
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5295
Posted: 06-09-04 09:57am
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cedes850
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jun 2004 Posts: 23 Location: crestview, florida
Posted: 06-09-04 10:32am
Thanks everyone for all your support!!!!
Knowing people care really makes a
difference.
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cedes850
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jun 2004 Posts: 23 Location: crestview, florida
Posted: 06-09-04 10:36am
Yes im went his father and my daughter my
b/f is the only dad she knows. 2 yes I
did start using protection and I was on
the shot and got my shot every 3 months
but like the doc said thats not a 100% so
I happen to be one on those lucky ones im
going to say one thing I know I can do it
if god didnt think so he wouldnt have
given him to me. And with any mother any
age raising kids can be hard but you gotta
do what you gotta do.
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continue with your
dreams and with the help and support of
others i'm sure you'll do just fine.
