Okay...This is the situation. My ex and
I were fooling around one night after I
gave him a handjob he fingered me. Now
he says he wiped his penis off with his
finger and then wiped it off but I don't
know how true that is. Please help i'm
really scared i'm only 16. This happened
in february and I haven't got my period
since then. I have an irregular period
so I don't think i'm pregnant, maybe i'm
just stressed out because I heard that
stressed can delay periods. Reply
a.S.A.P
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mattsgurl2318245
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Sep 2003 Posts: 11
Posted: 06-10-04 10:16am
Ok now did he ejaculate on his fingers
then finger you if so there is a slight
chance u might be pregnant but its not
very probable so just take a test and see
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shaboomba2
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jun 2004 Posts: 2 Location: Wyoming
Help!! Posted: 06-11-04 09:32am
Ok... I would take a pregnancy test but
i'm too afraid to ask my mom buy me one.
Besides i'm not showing any of the
symptoms yet. So I dont know what could
be wrong with me. I just haven't gotten
my period in about 3 months, but I do have
an irregular period. Any ideas? Reply.
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ginginhi
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jun 2004 Posts: 20 Location: Hawaii
Posted: 06-11-04 17:53pm
Is there no one else you can turn to to
get you a test? Is there a local health
department where you can go? You should
get tested if you really think you may be
pregnant becuase a lack of prenatal care
is dangerous for you and the baby. But
from what you posted that had happened, I
would think there is a slim chance of you
being pregnant. However, better safe
than sorry. I recommend the test.
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twisted_angel_55
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jun 2004 Posts: 8 Location: Missouri
Please Help Posted: 06-15-04 16:36pm
I am bout 16 years old. I have had sex
eight days ago and I am having cramping
but I dont know if its to early to have
signs. I would get a pregnancy test but I
can not ask anybody for one because they
would flip out. I could ask somebody but
we have to go to the next town to see or
not and I have nobody at all that would
take me. I am really scared. I have no
money or nothing at all and I do not want
my parents to know because they would get
really mad...And I know they would. Is
there anything that I could posibly do?
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Sinsaint
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 May 2004 Posts: 90
Posted: 06-16-04 22:43pm
1) tell your parents you have class dues
and need ten dollars asap, then take the
money and buy a home pregnancy test (they
sell them everywhere: k-mart, wal-mart,
local drug store)
2) go to your local family planning clinic
and get a free pregnancy test. Your in
high school so the test should be free.
You will know in less than five minutes if
you are or not. If you aren't, ask about
contraceptives. You should be able to get
free bc pills, patch, depo shot along with
condoms. The doctor will discuss which
method is best for you. Don't worry, it
is completely confidential. Noone will
call your home and tell on you. You can
even have it in your chart that if for
some reason they do need to contact you
they will call and say your friend
"isabelle" (or whatever) needs to talk.
They will never tell your parents unless
you give them the go-ahead. I do suggest
if you are sexually active (even if you
get your period tonight) go to the clinic
and get on bc. It will save you a lot of
sleepless nights worrying about an
unplanned pregnancy.
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 1998
Posted: 06-21-04 12:58pm
I seriously recommend number 2 on that
last one. I remember having to worry
about that all the time and then I did
exactly what sinsaint said in number 2 and
everything is true. Your in hs so it
will be free if not really cheap and you
can get on any method and a free pregnancy
test and free condoms. You do need a pap
smear first before you get on b/c and once
you tell them you want b/c you need to
wait until you get your period to actually
start it. That's the most annoying part
especially if your irregular and can go
without for about a month or more at a
time. You should have seen me when I got
my period and could get the b/c! I was
so happy :d it is confidential, so you can
give them your cell phone number and
anyway to contact just you without your
parents unless you want them to. They
will give you reminders on when to come in
depending on what b/c you have. I
recommed the shot because it is less
remembering and just 1 second and you
don't have to worry about it for 3
months!!! Yeah! You may end up never
having a period again as long as your on
the shot!! They also ask you if you want
std testing and which ones you want to be
tested for I think.
I def think you should go to family
planning because that should be the end of
your worrys.
It ended mine. I never ever worry about
getting preg anymore, it's like I was
sterilized but not unless I am one of
those who can never get pregnant. That's
the funny thing, I worry about it working
too good and that something is wrong with
me so I can never have kids and that's why
it works so good, because I think I might
want one far along down the road.
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twisted_angel_55
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jun 2004 Posts: 8 Location: Missouri
Posted: 06-21-04 15:35pm
I am already on birth control...Im on the
pill but I messed up...I did forget to
take it that night. I mean I never done
that before that was the first time I have
ever skipped the pill. But my periods are
always wrong anyway they are never on
track. Like when it comes to my period
every month, like when its time to stop
taking birth control for the 5 days.. My
period never comes till a week or 2 later
so that messes the whole thing up also.
But if I do not have my period in the next
2 weeks, I will check everything out cause
thats when im suppose to start. Thanks
for your help
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