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TurtleGrl03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003
Posts: 63
Location: Oregon
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Posted: 09-20-03 22:29pm
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Thanks tanya! I think i'm just going to
wait to see if I miss my period. Then ill
let you guys know.
Thanks for the support you guys *hug*
~shawna
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4922
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 09-22-03 11:42am
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Ok good luck. And dont count on a condom
anymore. Since you will be with only him
and your whole family is ok with it, look
into birth control.
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MrsVeeDub
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Sep 2003
Posts: 38
Location: Baltimore
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Posted: 09-22-03 13:19pm
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Hi...
I just wanted to reply to the
"arguements" here. I am currently 20 and
9 weeks pregnant. I met my husband when I
was 15 and a freshman in high school. We
never really talked about a serious life
together until about 17 when I was a
junior. We had never broken up and been
through hell and back because my parents
refused to acknowledge he was a part of my
life. We were inseperable. At 17 and he
was 19, he gave me a promise ring. I
ended up moving in with his family shortly
after because of the termoil and verbal
abuse this little transaction brought.
Anyway, to make a long story short, we got
married in august of 2002 at a beautiful
country club, he and I moved to maryland
and bought our first house. Now a year
later we are expecting a child. Because
we were forced to except responsibility
for each other at such a young age just to
be togther, we have strived and worked our
butts off to create a comfortable life
style (and we don't exactly have cheap
taste!) my husband is a steel fabricator
and I an administrative assistant. This
pregnany couldn't have happened at a
better time. We, as well as our families,
are absolutley exstatic.
The point is is that if you believe in
something, you have to work for it. Who
knew that at 20 I would be married, own my
home, be comfortable financially, and have
a baby on the way. I say turtlegrl03, if
you believe this relationship will work.
Go for it. Only you have control of your
own destiny. Good luck girl!
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TurtleGrl03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003
Posts: 63
Location: Oregon
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Posted: 09-22-03 17:22pm
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Thanks alot mrsveedub! That really means
alot. I really do think this is going to
work. I dont see myself with anyone else.
Thanks for the support. I only have 2
more yrs of high school. I want to go to
medical school. And just because I might
be pregnant, doesnt mean that I cant do
all that. My boyfriend eventually wants
to go to a computer school.
He says that if I am pregnant, he'll put
off college and take care of the kid. Hes
very supportive, and wants me to be
pregnant. A reply to the previous person,
I cant really get on birth conrtol, its
not really worth it. We have a long
distance relationship.
I cant wait to be with my boyfriend when I
graduate, we are going to have a great
life. Thanks alot everyone for your
support *hugg* *smile*
~shawna (aim sn=nirvanagurl4694)
thanks :d
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Suzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003
Posts: 530
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Teenage Pregnancy
Posted: 09-22-03 17:34pm
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Turtlegirl,
if you are happy with your guy then that
is all that matters, my sister met her
husband at 13 years of age and is still
with him today, she is now 27 and has 3
kids, they are extremely happy. If you
think he is the one for you and you love
him, go for it, stand by your man. It
can happen, and will if you are
committed.
Good luck!!
.::suzy::.
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Tanya
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2003
Posts: 145
Location: Hmm
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Posted: 09-22-03 17:36pm
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I may not have a child now but I did have
one.
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TurtleGrl03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003
Posts: 63
Location: Oregon
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Posted: 09-22-03 17:42pm
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Thanks suzy! There are alot of nice
people here who are super supportive!
Others..Not at all.
I raelly do live my man..Its hard being so
far from him...But I know the distance
just brings us closer...Thanks again!
Ill keep you guys posted...I should know
by the first week of october..
~shawna (aim sn=nirvanagurl4694)
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4922
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 09-22-03 17:58pm
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Tanya
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2003
Posts: 145
Location: Hmm
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Posted: 09-22-03 18:01pm
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Nikki is marvelous and knows more than
some people who have children. I respect
her a whole lot and I think she is
amazing.
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4922
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 09-22-03 18:09pm
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TurtleGrl03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003
Posts: 63
Location: Oregon
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Posted: 09-22-03 18:46pm
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Hey..I think this fighting is
uncalled-for.
You guys arent supposed to be here to
bad-mouth eachother, but your supposed to
be here to help the teens/women who need
help.
Put your personal opinions aside and help
the people in need.
All of you guys help everyone in your own
ways. Thank you guys!
~shawna (aim ns=nirvanagurl4694)
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4922
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 09-22-03 18:51pm
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Suzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003
Posts: 530
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Posted: 09-22-03 18:59pm
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Tanya
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2003
Posts: 145
Location: Hmm
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Posted: 09-22-03 19:01pm
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I think its about time we all stopped. We
have one focus and thats to help these
girls the best we can, and by arguing over
whos right and who's wrong won't help.
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Suzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003
Posts: 530
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Deleted
Posted: 09-22-03 19:04pm
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TurtleGrl03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003
Posts: 63
Location: Oregon
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Posted: 09-22-03 19:13pm
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But everyones cycle isnt 28 days..Mines
like 30-32.
Its 14 days before your next period...
People..Please stop fighting..This is
getting old!...Thanks!
*shawna (aim sn=nirvanagurl4694)
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Tanya
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2003
Posts: 145
Location: Hmm
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Posted: 09-22-03 19:15pm
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I agree shawna! 
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MrsVeeDub
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Sep 2003
Posts: 38
Location: Baltimore
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Posted: 09-22-03 20:17pm
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Here's food for thought. I had my lmp on
july 20. The only time I had sex during
my "ovulation" was august 3 (my
anniversary!) because my husband was sick.
On august 18 I took a test and it came
back positive.
According to my last ultrasound on
september 8 the baby was 7w1d, which means
we conceived on august 3.
August 3 was exactly 14 days from the
first day of my lmp. I tested 15 days
after my ovulation and it came back very
positive! Smack dab in the middle of my
cycle.
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TurtleGrl03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003
Posts: 63
Location: Oregon
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Posted: 09-22-03 20:22pm
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So you had sex 14 days after the last day
of your period?
Im starting to ahve doubts about being
pregnant...But im in so much
pain...Augh..
Its vvery confusing
isnt it also pobbile that I ovulate more
than once a month...I was talking to the
lady to runs the "teen nursery" at my
school today (i have that as a
class)...And she said from what im telling
her, that I could very likely be
pregnant...Ahhh...Im so confused...
*shawna (aim sn=nirvanagurl4694)
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MrsVeeDub
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Sep 2003
Posts: 38
Location: Baltimore
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Posted: 09-22-03 20:27pm
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I had sex 14 days from the first day of my
lmp. Think of when started your last
period. Start with that day and count 14
days aftr that. You are usually ovulating
14-16 days after the first day of your
lmp.
That is prime time to get pregnant. That
is when you're ovulating (when an egg is
released into your fallopian tubes. But
any day after that until you get your
period there is a good chance to get
pregnant.
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