Hi, i'm 24 and i've been suffering from
erection problems for sometime now and am
becoming desperate. Its not that I can't
get an erection - just that its not as
hard as it should be, and soon wears off.
It annoys me when you see guys in pornos
who have rock-like hardons, and all I can
get is a semi-erect thing that looks like
gonzo from the muppets' nose!
Basically this is ruining my life - i'm
still a virgin and my sex drive is
practically zero. I don't even bother
chatting up women anymore cos I know I
won't be able to get it up. The thing is,
I still get turned on by porn and watch it
almost every day. I read a previous post
from someone saying that its a good idea
to have a break from porn, which i've
tried, but I cant help thinking I have a
physical problem.
I've seen a doc and counsellor about this,
but they both think that, since I can
masturbate myself to a climax and get
morning erections, then there's nothing
physically wrong with me. They recommend
counselling, but I don't see how just
talking about it can make any difference -
I worry about it 24hrs a day, and have
discussed everything with myself in my
head (if you know what I mean). I just
hope that its a physical problem, so that
I can do something about it.
I've seen such things as vacuum pumps and
'confidence rings' advertised on the
internet, are these any use?
I'll shut up now cos i've waffled on a
bit. Any help will be much appreciated.