Recently, after months of celibacy, I
couldn't take it anymore and I went to a
porn shop and sat in a booth of a
bookstore. I know it was a stupid thing
to do. One guy who seemed pretty clean
cut began giving me head and I pushed him
away because I didn't feel comfortable or
safe letting him do that. I had no cuts
or sores or anything else on my penis.
And everything was cool to that point.
About 10 minutes later he returned and
began jerking me off, which was safe, but
suddenly he pinched the skin inside of the
tip of my penis I think to stimulate, but
it was real sharp. Had I realized what
was happening, I would have stopped it
right there. I don't frequent these
places, it was just a moment of weakness.
I left right after that. There was no
bleeding or cut that I could see, but I
felt really uneasy. Two days later, I
have a real bad sore throat and a cough I
already had from allergies got worse. I
felt a little hot, but not running a
fever. These symptoms are also going
around where I live anyway, so it may be
whatever is in the air. Could I be at
risk for hiv? When I called the hiv
answer desk, they said if there are no
cuts or sores, it is a very low to almost
no chance of getting it if he was going
down on me. Has anyone had an experience
like this or had the inside of the tip of
their penis pinched for stimulation?
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cherry_pie
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2004 Posts: 599
Posted: 06-10-04 23:26pm
Hey - now im no aids expert.. But when I
read your post the thought that popped up
in my mind was that if you are/were at
risk... You wouldn't be experiencing
anything from it yet. Doesn't it take
years before you actually even notice
anything? And since you said that there
was no cuts or anything like that there
would be no risk, and even if he was
infected he didn't get any blood to blood
contact on you, and isn't that how aids is
usually spread? So cheer up buddy, theres
nothing wrong with you.
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ifer123
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jun 2004 Posts: 6 Location: Cheshire
Don't Worry Posted: 06-11-04 07:31am
I too am not an expert but am pretty sure
you are not at risk. But if you are
worrying about it get it checked out
theres no harm in being safe not sorry.
Just go to your gp and ask for a test you
don't have to tell him what happened just
ask for a full sti test and then you'll
know for definate try not to worry and
take care :>
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worrywart99
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 2
Thanks Posted: 06-11-04 10:19am
Thanks you two. Last time I do something
like that. It was the pinch that got
me..I was worried if there was an
abbrasion I couldn't see. But yes, there
was no blood or anything. I will follow
the advice and get a checkup. If no
symptoms, then i'll wait 6 months so can
do the hiv test at the same time. I
htink you're right. And it's probably
more guilt than real fear.
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ifer123
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jun 2004 Posts: 6 Location: Cheshire
Posted: 06-11-04 10:52am
Glad that it helped, and I agree you
shouldn't get into situation like that
again if you want sex try and meet me
start a relationship but try and take it
one step at a time
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paulv
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jul 2004 Posts: 55 Location: Canada
Low Risk Posted: 07-29-04 11:59am
Should carry a condom. Never know when a
handjob can develop into something more
passionate.
