Ok teens, here's the bottom line. So
you're having sex. First of all, you need
to take a good hard look at this. Try and
throw away your childish views of this.
Sex was always intended for grown ups, so
now you are to act grown up. Acting grown
up means you need to become responsible.
Being responsible for your actions means
taking care of your body. Taking care of
your body means not having unprotected
sex!!!!
if you want to have sex and act all grown
up and miss out on part of your childhood
then you better get ready to have a child
then if you are not going to use
protection! It's simple really. Go out
and buy a box of freaking condoms. No,
they are not glamorous, not glorious, not
romantic, but think of the alternatives.
Children and disease. Girls, have a
little respect for yourself. I wish I
could type in all caps but this place
doesn't let you, ...If you don't want to
have a baby...Use a
condom!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If you find out you are pregnant, it's a
huge concern, but you can work through it.
You don't have to run out and get rid of
the baby. Honest. There are other
solutions. You need to find someone and
at least talk them out. Then after all
the information you get, you still don't
want the child and want an abortion that
is up to you. But you need to tell your
folks, and get educated about babies.
Also you need to know that you don't have
to sleep with someone to show them you
care. If you are 13 there is no way you
could be 'in love' with someone. You
don't even know who you are yet. You
might feel in love, you might think you're
in love, but it's just a new set of
feelings coming out that you want to
explore. And explore them you should.
But not by sleeping with people.
If you would like to speak with me in
private and talk about things without
being judged, you can email me.
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 09-19-03 14:47pm
Im telling you, she cant tell it straight
like that!! I am glad you are in this
forum!!! By the wy, what is you real name
and age?
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barons_girl_504
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Sep 2003 Posts: 105 Location: New Orleans
Nice Point Frozen Glue Posted: 09-19-03 20:01pm
Look, I know that some harsh words were
said. But I am not just a little 13 year
old who is just starting to have emotions
for boys. I have been throught many
trials and tribulations in my life. At
the age of 15 I was raped and didnt trust
any man I came into contact with. 2 years
later I found someone who treats me better
than you could ever imagine. I know that
a child is a huge responsibility. But I
made a mistake and now (if I am pregnant)
I have to deal with it. I have a very
supportive and loving family who would not
turn their back on me. I know that being
17 sounds young..But I had to grow up at a
very young age due to parenta problems
that I lived with all of my life. Im not
proud that I might be pregnant. I never
said I was. But it was my mess up and now
I have to confront my problem head on. I
am not an immature little girl who knows
nothing about anything. I am very
intelligent for my age. I just thought
that I would share that with you.
It sounds like you have a straight head on
your shoulders. Good luck girl. God
bless and i'll keep you in my prayers. If
you do end up having a child, it seems
like you'll know what you're doing.
