Hi shauna! Welcome to the group! There
are some *fab* people here!
couple of thoughts...As for lupus and
pregnancy, well, some people feel better
while pregnant and others flare. You
sound like you are flaring.
I'll comment on a couple of things:
1) relax...Your post reads like you are
worrying too much!
2) your new hubby probably *will* have to
go through an adjustment period. There
are several of us here who have
experienced that. If you want to discuss
it further, it would be a great topic for
all of us! I've known clarebear (another
active user here) for years, and she and I
have lupus and husbands...With very
different stories, not bad, just
different.
3)talk to your hubby. I think you'll find
that it will help you and your hubby. No,
he won't ever understand *exactly* what
you deal with, but he won't have a *clue*
if you don't open up!
4) ask away if you have more
questions/concerns. We'll help if we can!
Hugs,
ladybrannon :d
