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Q: Why Did This Happen to Me
asked by: scaredmother on September 19th, 2003
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Im really depressed that this happend to me and I dont know what to do..Im keeping it cause I dont belive in abortions but im just really scared.I didnt think this would happen to me
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scaredmother
replied on September 19th, 2003
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I Really Hope Yall Are Happy
Cool
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Tanya
replied on September 19th, 2003
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If you didnt use protection thats why it happened. In the future use protection and you wont have to worry about any of this. I hope your pregnancy goes well and we're always here if you need to talk. Smile
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scaredmother
replied on September 19th, 2003
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I Did
I did use protection and the condom broke inside me.....
Im just really confused with it all
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nikki_caro
replied on September 19th, 2003
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What do you mean you hope we are happy? Why would we be happy? Well yeah you are having a baby but there is nobody to blame but yourself...And the guy who got you pregnant. How could you be depressed because it happened to you when you are the one who went on to have sex? You brought it upon yourself. You shouldnt be scared. You need to think about this baby now. Can you see yourself saying this if your baby grew up to being 10? "oh, I was depressed because I was pregnant with you and you were a mistake" no you cant be like that. The damage was done. You need to get past that and look to a bright future. Have you told the father yet? Do you have medical insurance? You can always apply for medi-cal if you dont. Are you positive you are pregnant? How far long are you? You cant worry no more. Its gods plan. Good luck, take care and keep us posted.

Jeremiah 29
11 for I know the plans I have for you," declares the lord , "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. 12 then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you.
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scaredmother
replied on September 19th, 2003
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Im am 8wks n I am on medicade I am accepting full responsibility for this child I am working and still going to school.....I dont want to deny this child it was just unexpected you know...I understand it was my fault and my bf but its just my life has taken a suden change thnks alot for your words
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nikki_caro
replied on September 19th, 2003
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Ok well then good luck. Make sure you get a future plan going, and include god, because once you dont, he can change your plans like that. They are his plans not yours. But take care of yourself. And make sure you let your parents know. They will be there for you in the long run, even if they are upset.
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scaredmother
replied on September 19th, 2003
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My parents know n the father knows the pregnancy is out in the open n they are all being supportave.....And I know once my child comes out I will be soo happy...God is the reason I decided to keep it...God is totally in my life
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nikki_caro
replied on September 19th, 2003
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Thats great! Then celebrate your pregnancy like you always wanted it! You have all the support you need, dont worry no more. Keep us posted on your pregnancy!
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scaredmother
replied on September 19th, 2003
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Ok tnks alot
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DeserttStarr
replied on September 20th, 2003
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I see that you call yourself scared.... Well sweetie it's ok to be scared and you have every right to be.... I am 23 married with 2 kids and I am pregant right now and I gotta tell ya I am scared too.... I mean pregancy is a big thing
take a deep breathe and hey say a prayer..... Glad to here that you chose to go through with this pregnany .... And just keep in mind adoption is always an option the choice is yours
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scaredmother
replied on September 22nd, 2003
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Thnks alot I am really glad new its all new to me but I already love my child with all my heart thnks to all the support from u all thnks alot
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