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KariM1804

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Posted: 06-15-04 21:50pm

Um kourtney who r u directing this to?
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smith8500

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Posted: 06-15-04 22:34pm

[quote="kourtney08"]yeah people, fighting over the internet is so cool.Quote]

what exactly do you mean?
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Kourtney08

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Posted: 06-15-04 23:14pm

It was mostly directed towards newlife, because i've never seen this person and all of a sudden they start talking when dramas going on. I just think drama over the internet is stupid and her/him posting is just egging caca on and rehashing it
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smith8500

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Posted: 06-15-04 23:30pm

Oh ok. I wasn't sure....
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newlife

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Posted: 06-16-04 00:00am

Well,how about this if you feel that I am egging anyone on so are the people who were so called fighting with me. And so are you ,so tell me did you just start drama ,and you are egging this on just by posting and bumping the thread back up. I know fighting over the internet is stupid ,so I invite anyone who has a problem with me to my home in march of '05 so there will be no fighting on the net, how about that (and doubt that there are any takers ,and if so let me know and i'll pm you my address by marsh 1st). And if you consider standing up for someone who, people are just posting about for amusement well than so be it. And it seems to me that you just made these last to post just because ,with no merit at all.



kourtney08 wrote:
it was mostly directed towards newlife, because i've never seen this person and all of a sudden they start talking when dramas going on. I just think drama over the internet is stupid and her/him posting is just egging health question on and rehashing it




it looks like another one of my post didn't come up ohh well. For you chanda I see no reason to fight over the net ,but I will argue a point. But if anyone has any real beef with me than they should handle it. And if they are not willing to ,but want to act tough on the net I know they are really fake. This is how I sort the real from the fake.


Last edited by newlife on 06-16-04 00:25am; edited 1 time in total
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smith8500

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Posted: 06-16-04 00:02am

Wut the health question. You invite people to your home..... Rolling Eyes what is that about????? Lol!
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2ferano

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Posted: 06-16-04 02:01am

Wow, this thread sure did take a turn.
First of all I want to say to newlife that not everyone was being mean. Actually, I don't even remember seeing a "mean" post on this thread.

No one ever knows anyone fully. Most of us do not ever even know ourselves fully. That is true, but that really is not relevant to anything on here. This is a site where people come to ask questions. They give whatever information they feel is relevant and that is it. That is what these girls go by. So, if a 14 (sorry, just turned 15) year old girl comes on here saying that she is trying to get pregnant these girls have every right to give their opinions on that. And if you feel that some people have gotten "mean" well, that is probably because there have been "nice" threads about this same exact thing and they were not taken seriously.
If they didn't care at all about gaby or her situation then they would not be telling her not to try to get pregnant. They would just tell her to go for it.
But most of these girls have children or are pregnant and know exactly how much this will change gaby's life. Therefore, they are trying to talk sense into her.
I remember when I was 16. My best friend became pregnant (right before we turned 17). I felt bad for her because she was in no way ready to have a child and she was scared. But, she had her baby. She had a really hard delivery and almost lost her son in birth.
A couple months after he was born I went over to see her with my boyfriend and she was planning her wedding. I was so (caps) jealous. Well, by now I was 18. All of my friends had been in serious relationships for quite a while. Most of them had kids and most were planning their weddings. I wanted more than anything to be just like this friend of mine.
Well, needless to say she got married, lived in a trailer with her husband and baby. They fought none stop, she was a stay at home mom who hardly ever left her house, was on wic, food stamps and her husband changed jobs like his underwear. Of course, they have been divorced for about three years now, separated for five and are constantly in court over custody battles.
I look back and think, "i was jealous of that?" he makes her life a living hell. Of course, her little boy could not have a better mother. She devoted her entire life to him.
I even considered getting pregnant on purpose at this time in my life. I saw that all of my friends had kids and were getting married and I thought that I should do that too. Now they are all divorced and struggle everday to take care of their children.

Sure, having children has its perks, especially if that is what you want to do with your life, but it is no walk in the park.
To me, trying at 15 is immature, uneducated and unfair to yourself, the baby and the father. If having a baby is that important to you then you can always do it later. Doesn't that make more sense?
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sarah88

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Posted: 06-16-04 02:38am

Chanda hey I dont know you very well but I have to say you are the best when it comes to catching liers and fakes on here its amazing and I also would like to say I like how you are very honest and blunt about everything!!Just thought I would let ya know!!! :d
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KariM1804

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Posted: 06-16-04 05:51am

Im with hotasfrick on this one * and new life.. . Like chanda said. Inviting people to ur house who have 'real beef' with you? O please. . Rolling Eyes
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bellax0x

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Posted: 06-16-04 06:54am

My doc said that most kids my age cant stand the patch because it gets gross after having it on for a week and hurts to pull off..

<3
gaby
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KariM1804

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Posted: 06-16-04 07:29am

Lol it gets gross? Well sometimes u gotta do what u gotta do and deal with it~ but I dont reccomend the patch, I reccomend pills and the shot. The patch can come off easy and wrinkle up and not work etc. Ive tried it. It depends where u put it, but they dont stay on as well as they say.
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bellax0x

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Posted: 06-16-04 07:45am

Lol yeah, gross like an old band-aid gets she said lol..I like mypills tho, I never ever forget to take 'em so I dont see the problem with them..

<3
gaby
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caracook

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Joined: 02 Jan 2004
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Location: Richmond, KY

Posted: 06-16-04 12:24pm

Ok, what about a place to live? I don't know about where you live but here a 1 bedroom tiny a$$ apartment costs around $575 plus heat, gas, water, etc. That alone would be more than ya'll have. Gas is a health forum also. Arg! You drive me crazy.
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bellax0x

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Posted: 06-16-04 12:29pm

Are you talking to me? Why do I drive you crazy??

<3
gaby
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Kourtney08

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Posted: 06-16-04 13:56pm

That was the most stupid caca i've ever heard "i invite anyone to come to my house"

shut the medical question up
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smith8500

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Hey
Posted: 06-16-04 14:07pm

Ok, I started this post and I am asking everyone to stop it right now. It's gotten out of hand and the main topic isn't even what we're talking about here anymore. Lets drop it. Or we can lock this topic.
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