Joined: 16 Jan 2004 Posts: 1222 Location: illinois
Bisexual. Posted: 06-14-04 22:48pm
My mom, she gets into my biz..Well she
found out I was bi and now she thinks less
of me...She things im a pervert and if I
dont change my ways....Im going to
hell.....What...How..Am I supposed to
feel>?
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noodleandshorty
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 1410 Location: burlington
Posted: 06-14-04 22:51pm
Dont let your mother get to you..You cant
help the way you feel towards ppl and in
your case you like both sexes. You are
not the only one in the world so dont
think anything less of yourself. You are
who you are and that is a unique
individual
~heather
I didn't know you were bi! Wow! I am
hoping she just gets over it! It's not
her business anyway! Lol
love,
chanda
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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004 Posts: 1222 Location: illinois
Posted: 06-14-04 22:54pm
Well like she saves my msn conversations
so she knows what I talk about. And she
yells at me for my msn screen names if she
doesnt like it.And she like spent like 30
min out of the hour bashing me for what I
do....Who I am!
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noodleandshorty
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 1410 Location: burlington
Posted: 06-14-04 22:54pm
Dont let her get to you. You are you she
isnt you so just ignore her the best u can
and hopefully she can accept who you are.
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Julymommy72504
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jun 2004 Posts: 225 Location: Cincinnati, Oh
Posted: 06-14-04 23:00pm
I cant wait till you are able to get out
of there!! I mean geez you are gonna be
whoever you wanna be and your mom has no
part in that!! She also has no part in
reading your stuff! My mother never did
that kinda stuff. I could keep a diary
laying on my table and never worry about
my mother coming in putting up clothes and
reading it. I am sorry but that is how I
wanna be. Privacy makes you feel much
better and she is so not helping you feel
bettter!! Hope you feel better hun.
Lots of love,
heather and hayley
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newlife
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jun 2004 Posts: 874
Posted: 06-14-04 23:03pm
Well, momma as I said in another thread no
one really knows who you are including
your mom. You can always try to sit down
and explain to her who you really are at
this moment ,and if she still doesn't
accept it well than to hell with her. You
don't have to change the person you really
are for anyone ,but yourself whch I am
sure you'll do many times in this life as
we all do. 2 years from now I promise
that you will be a different person than
you are now and so will she, so maybe
later she'll have an open mind. But for
now keep your head up and don't be ashamed
of who you are. On of my best friends is
bi ,and I wish she would tell her mom but
since they hardly get along now she thinks
it'll make things worse. So i'll tell you
like I tell her patience is a virtue ,and
if you have that then don't worry. She'll
come around whether it be today 5 years
from now or on her death bed. But don't
stress.
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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004 Posts: 1222 Location: illinois
Posted: 06-14-04 23:04pm
Well I tell her it's non of her biz what I
say....And she said..Yes it is you're my
daughter..I have no privacy..make love to
haveing a journal...I have had one before
and she read everything....Even my
notebooks my friends and I have
had....*sighs*
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Julymommy72504
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jun 2004 Posts: 225 Location: Cincinnati, Oh
Posted: 06-14-04 23:11pm
Girl I am so sorry you cant have privacy
in your own room. How would she like it
if people went through her stuff. Well
atleast you know you wont be this way with
your baby.
Lots of love,
heather and hayley
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kitty_55
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Posts: 1473 Location: Canada
Posted: 06-14-04 23:50pm
That is totally sh*tty!! I am bi and I
dont want my mom to find out...I know she
wouldnt care but I still dont want her
knowing that I am..On msn you can make it
so it doesnt save ur convos...My mom gets
mad at me too for my msn nicknames..I hate
it!! There is nothing wrong with being
bisexual!!!
Alison xoxo
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 06-16-04 10:44am
She lives her lifestyle the way that she
wishes, and she should therefore respect
your wishes. You need to just let it slip
in one ear and out the other. You dont
need to change the way you are to please
her. Would you change your hair color if
you said you should?? Probably not
because that is who you are, and what you
are. I cant tell you anything else. My
mom is bi. Well not officially but she
has occasional sex with
women.....Therefore my mother cant judge
me. And your mother shouldnt judge you
either..
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