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evilpickle
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Posts: 26
Location: virginia beach
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Sex Is Illegal If You Are Under Age of Consent.....!!!!
Posted: 09-20-03 16:59pm
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Befor you take your panties off
ladies...Perhaps you should check out your
state's sexual consent laws...So far the
youngest you can be to have sex is 14 and
thats in iowa and south carolina...Most
other states are 16 years old....If you do
have sex under your state's consent age
you could be sending your boyfriend to
jail for two years...No matter what age he
is! You are not ready to have sex until
the appropriate age...The law says so.
See for yourself-------->
http://www.Avert.Org/aofcons
ent.Htm
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Tanya
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Posts: 145
Location: Hmm
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Posted: 09-20-03 17:05pm
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True, most of these girls don't know that.
I think all their parents should press
charges, I know I would.
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youngmama
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Sep 2003
Posts: 437
Location: Cheyenne Naomi born 10-2-2003
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Posted: 09-20-03 17:13pm
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I agree! There are such huge age
differences on here, such as one girl was
15 with a 22 year old guy! What would
make an adult man attracted to a child? I
just don't understand how some of these
parents just blow it off either. If
cheyenne ever dated a man that was more
than 3 years older than her, that would be
it! There is no reason for a man of that
age to be with a child that young, except
for the obvious!
Good luck and best wishes
-jessika-
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Tanya
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posts: 145
Location: Hmm
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Posted: 09-20-03 17:18pm
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I think its not so much the age difference
as it is looking at how old they both are.
For example in the 15 and 22 year old
case 7 years is a huge deal. But say she
was 22 and he was 29. So being older is
not always a bad thing...However you have
to take your age into consideration first.
Ps jessika I added you to my aim if thats
alright
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phillygurl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Sep 2003
Posts: 56
Location: philadelphia
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You Cant Help Who You Love
Posted: 09-20-03 19:03pm
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Well I understand what you are saying but
I disagree. I am 16 and my boyfriend was
24. My mom did not approve of it and
thats why we are not together now. I dont
think that age is a big thing, it all
depends on that persons personality. I am
very mature for my age I probaly went
through more than a 28 year old woman went
through. Those experiences that I had in
life helped me grow up alot. You cant
help who you fall in love with so therefor
I dont knock anybody for who they are
attracted to. Before my mom found out how
old my boyfriend was she said that he was
good for me but now she just wants us to
wait until I am 18.
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youngmama
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Posts: 437
Location: Cheyenne Naomi born 10-2-2003
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Posted: 09-20-03 19:22pm
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Sure, I don't mind if you add me! I also
agree that when you are over legal age say
19 or 20 the age difference isn't as bad
then when you are under age.
Good luck and best wishes
-jessika-
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youngmama
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Re: You Cant Help Who You Love
Posted: 09-20-03 19:25pm
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| phillygurl
wrote: | | well I understand what you
are saying but I disagree. I am 16 and
my boyfriend was 24. My mom did not
approve of it and thats why we are not
together now. I dont think that age is a
big thing, it all depends on that persons
personality. I am very mature for my age
I probaly went through more than a 28 year
old woman went through. Those
experiences that I had in life helped me
grow up alot. You cant help who you fall
in love with so therefor I dont knock
anybody for who they are attracted to.
Before my mom found out how old my
boyfriend was she said that he was good
for me but now she just wants us to wait
until I am 18. |
trust me I understand that you cannot help
who you fall inlove with! I understand
that a 13 year old may have a crush or
feel like they feel inlove with their 22
year old teacher, but that doesn't give
the teacher the right as an adult to act
on that, ya know? If you are way over
legal consent like 22, and you truly love
that child, then you should know better
than to have sex with them at such a
tender age, like 13. That is my only
point and I apologize if I offended you
that was not my intent!!
Good luck and best wishes
-jessika-
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Lindsay6119
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Joined: 14 Sep 2003
Posts: 8
Location: South Carolina
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Age Diffrences
Posted: 09-20-03 21:17pm
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Well I agree and disagree.. I agree
because like 13 and 20 would be horrible
but I have to disagree to because some
people are very mature for there age my ex
was 20 but all he wanted was one thing and
I found out the hard way. But I mean I
have met alot of older guys who were very
mature and not wanting one thing but I do
agree that a 3 year difference should be
it and no more..
Lindsay
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phillygurl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Sep 2003
Posts: 56
Location: philadelphia
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Posted: 09-21-03 10:05am
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I understand what everybody is saying but
everybody has there own opinion. I can
only speak on things that I experienced,
but I never messed with a guy around my
age so I dont know how it feels therefor I
cant really relate to anyone who has.
I grew up without a father so of course I
looked for that older male figure as I got
older. When I was 13 I messed with a
man who was 33. He was attracted to me
because I was so mature and all he wanted
was sex but for me I just wanted that
manly father figure. These older men
showed me so many things as I was growing
up and thats the only thing I thank them
for because my own father couldn't show me
a damn thing about life.
Ps. Youngmama I am not offended I
respect everybodys opinion. 
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youngmama
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Sep 2003
Posts: 437
Location: Cheyenne Naomi born 10-2-2003
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Posted: 09-21-03 10:15am
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See me and you are just the opposite! I
grew up without a father too. When my mom
found out that she was pregnant with me,
she was young, he bailed on her. My mom
has always told me the truth, and that
including about my dad. I have never met
him and my mom said that he came and saw
her once when she was about 6 months and
she told him where to go. So in a sense I
had guarded feelings toward guys and clung
to my mom and girlfriends for support. I
guess it all depends on how you were
raised! I never looked for a father-type
in my life because I didn't feel like I
needed it! I would listen to my
girlfriends complain about how their dads
or step dads were such jerks and their
moms always took the mans side and I just
didn't want a part of it! My mom is my
ultimate rolemodel! Even though she had
me young, she continued her dream to be a
doctor, and is indeed one today! Austin
however, phew, is he a different story!
He is about 3 years older than me and I
couldn't love this man more if I tried!
He is indeed my soul mate!
Phillygurl- iam sorry that you had to
learn the hard way about older men like
that! But you seem to have learned and
grown from that and that is what make a
wonderful person!
Good luck and best wishes
-jessika-
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phillygurl
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Posts: 56
Location: philadelphia
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Youngmama
Posted: 09-21-03 17:29pm
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You are lucky I wish I could've just seen
things the way you did. You seem very
mature and I need a person like you to
talk to at a time like this for me because
I am goin through alot right now. I dont
know if you read my topic called "abortion
because of rape" but if you didn't could
you please read it and give me some
advice.
Thanx.
Ps. Also I would like to say thanx to
the other girls that are on here giving
support to eachother.
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youngmama
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Location: Cheyenne Naomi born 10-2-2003
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Posted: 09-21-03 22:29pm
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Sure no problem! I'd love to help you!!
Send me a pm or email sometime with your
email!!
Gl and bw
-jessika-
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lil666ane
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Sep 2003
Posts: 27
Location: layton utah
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About the 15 Yr Old Gurl With22yr Old Man
Posted: 10-07-03 17:28pm
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I am 17 and pregnant with my 21 year old
boyfreinds child...Is that a horrible
thing? 
he loves this unborn child to death and
you cant even see it popping out yet!
Were getting married next august or
july....So dont judge the older guys just
yet...
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youngmama
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Posts: 437
Location: Cheyenne Naomi born 10-2-2003
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Posted: 10-07-03 19:51pm
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Hey I don't think that is too bad! I am
17 and my daughter cheyenne's father is
20! He loves cheyenne to death and we
have been living together for a while now.
But really now 15 and 22 is a bit much!
Just think if it was your daughter!
Much love
-jessika-
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Mesmerizeu15
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Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2729
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 10-10-03 09:14am
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My boyfriends sister is dating this 18
year old. And she is only 14. Before I
moved away, my boyfriend and I found a
journal that said that they were going to
try to have a baby so that he didn't have
to move. We told my boyfriends mom and
she said that we were lieing and that his
sister set it up because she knew that we
would find it. After we moved she stopped
taking her birthcontrol and was 2 weeks
late on her period.... She wrote my
boyfriends mother a letter and told her
and she freaked. She called me the other
day and apologized. My boyfriends sister
and I have always been competting against
each other no matter how corny it sounds
and I think that she was trying to be like
me. Ugh!! I think that her dating him
with that big of an age difference and she
is still 15 and he is 19 is wrong. .And
they are always alone and having sex. I
really think that that should have been
cracked down on, but I think that well I
dont know what I think...But I think they
should date, because that is cool, but it
needs to be watched closely...Otherwise,
she will have a baby too. I hope you
understand..
.:.: mesmerizeu15.:.:
aol sn: mesmerizeu15
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 10-10-03 11:24am
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I think if the mom knows about then, then
she needs to put her foot down before her
daughter ends up pregnant. This girl is
already having sex and she wants to get
pregnant, so she should be stopped. If I
found that out about my daughter and they
guy is older, I will call the authorities
on him, and send her to boot camp.
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Mesmerizeu15
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Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 10-13-03 08:38am
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Nikki that is what I would do too,
exspecially since I have been there I know
how crucil all that can be and I know the
consequences....Thank you for the
advice...I really appreciate all you guys
always being here for me, and I love being
able to help all of you...Much love,
mesmerizeu15
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Huminah86
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Joined: 26 Aug 2003
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Age Is Only a Number!!!!!
Posted: 10-15-03 09:41am
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I read this post and some of the replies
and I was shocked at what some people had
to say. I do not think that age should be
a factor for two people who really love
each other. But, I do however, think
there are other factors that should apply
when two people are dating (such as
maturity level, personality, appearance,
etc.) yes I am saying this because my
boyfriend is ten years older than me but I
think that people should understand that
age itself should not be a reason to
concerned about the law or about what
other people think. Of course you should
play by the rules and use caution
(especially if you are a minor dating
someone 18 or older) but an unusual age
difference does not mean that a
relationship can't work out. In fact, a
lot of my friends have boyfriends who are
a few years older than them and they have
maintained a good relationship for many
years. I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 28 and
our relationship is the best one either of
us have ever had. Since he is older, he
is a lot more mature, he considers my
feelings more than any other teenage boy I
have ever gone out with. We have had
sexual relations but only because I said I
wanted it and not because he is a psycho
pervert who is only out to rape innocent
teenagers.
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